The FatCat Show

Marriage is a very serious step so you better make sure you're ready to make the big step. Marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice and you must be prepared. First make sure this is really the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with because marriage is forever right? Most importanly if your the groom you must ask the father for his daughter's hand in marriage right? Is it still proper to ask a father for his daughter's hand in marriage?

Revenge a dirty word to some a way of life for others? For some people revenge is very necessary. I remember growing up my mom use to tell me don't let anyone punk you, if they hit you hit em back. The Bible says vengeance is mine saith the Lord. Most of the time you may let certain stuff slide when a person has wronged you but not all the time. Some people when they let things slide later on they regret they did.  Question is revenge necessary to feel whole again?

In order to build relationships we must first know what we want out of it? That means we must define our relationships. What is it? What is it based on? Is it a term relationship? Is it a working relationship? Is it a personal one? In simple terms what is that person to you? This has to be established so there will be no miscommunications going forth. So we have to recognize if a persons a friend, foe or associate.

The worst thing you can do in a relationship is kill the trust in it. What is the worse way to kill trust you ask? Cheating. How can you make things worse with cheating? You have a baby outside your relationship? Does a person who's mate cheated and has a child have to accept it?

Love is in the air you meet that special someone fall in love propose get engaged and wait to set a wedding date? For some this process is simple fall in love propose and get married. Other on the other hand get engaged and hold that position for a long time with no end in site. What is the hold up for most people? How long should an engagement last? Should there be a time limit on being engaged? Who set the rule on engagements?

Past and future, then and now are they important in a relationship? They say learning from your past mistakes can help you in your future. Is that true in relationships? It was also said that you must move away from the past (Forget) in order to move forward. Is this always a true statement? If you're in a new relationship can you keep memories of your past relationship example Photos, Gifts ect,ect. Do you have to erase your whole past to be in a new relationship?

Happy Valentines Day to everyone hope you enjoy sharing that day with your love one. What was your best memory and worse of Valentines Day? What was your best and worse Valentines day gift? Were you every single on Valentines day? Did you ever dodge your love one on this wonderful day? take your loved one out to dinner show them a good time and love each other.

Boy oh boy some of the things people do to find love. Is love that complicated that people will do anything to have it? Is love that great that people will be with anyone just to say they're in love? What about those who are dating someone who is already in a relationship? Do you really feel in love, like something good can come out of it? Does falling for someone who cheated to get you make sense?

Should love have a timetable? Just listen for a sec I know you can't fall in love with someone you just met right? Than again that would eliminate the love at first sight theory. Is there a such thing as being in love too soon or too late? Should an individual set a timetable for themselves to fall in love? Just saying that and the thought of it sounds silly. To each it's own we're discussing a love time table.

Love and marriage suppose to go hand and hand building toward a long term commitment. Relationships are not like they use to be, there was a time when you meet someone fell in love waited to have sex after you were married. Nowadays that has changed it seems no one waits for marriage anymore it's just sex, sex,sex. Is it realistic to abstain from sex before marriage nowadays?