America America are you really the best country in the world? Are you beautiful as the song say you are? Does your land offer equal opportunity for everyone? What about blacks that built this country and added so much and got so little. Oh You did give us Slavery, death, oppression and lost history. You killed and raped our mothers, fathers, kids and black economy. So why do you get mad american when blacks protest against you for not recognizing the part you played in the demise of the black man and family. Question should black folks be patriotic?

Time certainly has changed and along with it life. Most of us grew up in homes with both parents where the father was in charge of the household. Some of us grew up in single parent homes where the mother or father had all the big decision making. In today's world with the women's rights movement things are changing for women as far as their roles in society. Women are pushing to do the samethings as a man. So question should everything be on an even playing field with men and women?

Have you ever did or said something to someone so hurtful that you felt bad about it later and wanted to apologize? We were often taught be careful what you say and do because actions and words are hard to undo. What if you were the victim of hurtful actions or words and were on the recieving end of an apology, will all be forgiven? I was once told that an apology is false because at the time of your actions or words you meant it. So the question is Does apologizing really mean you're sorry and does it excuse your actions?

Have you ever been in a relationship, i'm talking about one you truly value. If the answer is yes then you know about the up's and downs of love. Often people forget the biggest part of love that brings stability and truth and that my friends is FORGIVENESS. That's right The big F we are not perfect people so without that word we could not make it inside of a relationship. So what if a love one did the unthinkable to you, could you really totally be over it?

Boy meets girl, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl have a child, boy and girl break up. Unfortunately this is the case for most relationships which leads to single parent homes. What if the parent with custody of the child is in a new relationship or married. What if the person on the other end of this relationship is you? Would you be comfortable with your Ex's significant other disciplining your child?

The toughest thing in the world can also be the biggest joy in the world and that's being a parent. We get wrapped up most of the times living our best lives we forget about our kids. Raising kids is more than just housing them and providing for them. As parents we got to teach and protect. So why do most parents expose their kids to the wrong things? Some parents curse in front of their kids, have adult conversations in front of their kids ect. Question do we expose our kids to, too much of the wrong things?

Is physical attraction important? If you ask most people they would say yes, but what happened to beauty being only skin deep? We all got different taste, likes and dislikes. We can all look at the same picture and pick out different feature we like and dislike. Can you truly be attracted to someone without viewing their physical features? Can someones mind or other characteristics be attractive? Is it possible to be attracted to someone beyond physical looks ?

Love can be very unpredictable in terms of who you fall in love with, how you fall in love ect. ect. They say sometime you can be with a person so long you begin to act and sound alike. I also heard some say that people in an relationship need me-time, space or should I say PRIVACY. Is this even legal in a triving and loving relationship? When a love one asks another for privacy is that a sign of infidelity? Should there be any privacy in a relationship?

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Women, Women, Women what's up with most women today? It makes you wonder if most women are truly happy with themselves nowadays. As a man the onething I can't stand especially if I'm looking for a woman is one who is strickly eye-candy. A good man is not looking for that and a good woman will not be showing off her goods. Our parents use to say save something for the imagination. I guess that phrase is out the window now, the question is dressing provocative Confidence or Attention seeking ?