What happens when a man, who was living irresponsibly, undergoes a transformation and takes on life's most serious responsibilities? How does his past influence his present and future, especially when it comes to nurturing relationships and imparting wisdom to the next generation? Let's traverse this intriguing journey with our guest for today, Fred Heyman, a legal expert who’s here to share his insights into the often overlooked adult responsibility - estate planning and living wills, and his personal journey through divorce. 

Delving into the dynamics of relationships, we oscillate between power and gender, often through the spectrum of divorce. Join us as we unmask some surprising statistics about divorce rates and discuss a few unique and ironic stories that caught our attention. We also dive into the profound influence of upbringing, role models, trauma, and heredity on the decision to divorce, highlighting the value of stability and accountability in relationships. Be prepared for a thought-provoking conversation that will make you contemplate the essence of adult responsibility.

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What does Father's Day truly mean to you? Is it just a regular day, or does it hold a deeper significance? We're taking a hard look at the history and evolution of Father's Day, pondering the gap of 58 years between its inception and the first celebration of Mother's Day. We're peeling back layers of societal expectations and media portrayals of fatherhood, and getting into the meat of what makes a good Father's Day.

Granted motherhood is crucial, particularly during the early months of a baby's life, but what about the significance of fathers during this period? We're discussing how fathers can and should support the vital bonding and nurturing period. We're comparing the impacts of breastfeeding and formula feeding, and shedding light on the father's role as the baby starts to move and eat solid foods. As we examine the science behind parental bonding, we're emphasizing the importance of both parents in raising a healthy child.

As co-hosts, we're not just discussing fatherhood; we're living it. From our personal experiences and sacrifices to our reflections on what it means to be a father, we're sharing it all. So join us as we navigate the journey of fatherhood, appreciating the sacrifices and triumphs, and creating lasting family memories.

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Meet the extraordinary Fred Haiman, an attorney whose story is anything but ordinary. Fred lets us in on his journey of survival and faith, recounting a time when he was in critical condition for 10 days after his intestines ruptured. This life-altering event not only challenged his faith but also strengthened it, leading him on a path of closer relationship with God. Hang on to every word as he unravels his personal tale of resilience and how his upbringing shaped him.

We take a sharp turn into Fred's personal life where he discusses the impact of his divorce on his two daughters and their faith. Feel your heartstrings tug as he explains how he and his ex-wife's commitment to their faith helped maintain a strong spiritual bond in their daughters, despite the demise of their marriage. 

Our conversation winds down as Fred delves into his own struggle with shame and redemption, triggered by his divorce. We explore how his faith interacted with these emotions and guided his decision-making when it came to his relationship with his daughters. Fred’s story is a testament to the depths of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith. Join us for an episode teeming with inspiration and life-affirming truths.

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What if the process of healing and reconciliation within our families could pave the way for generational progression? The answer lies in our latest episode where we traverse the compelling journey of family reconnection, generational impact, and the potent power of forgiveness. I'm your host, Byron Ricks, and together with my son, Brandon, we recount our deeply personal encounter with my father's side of the family, shedding light on the profound lessons we learned about healing, understanding differing perspectives, and the capacity to create bridges over chasms of estrangement.

Have you ever considered how deeply generational influences shape our beliefs and behavior? Get ready to challenge the prevailing notion that generations don't connect with each other. With a candid exploration of how even adopted children may inherit tendencies from their biological families, we emphasize accountability, grace, and understanding as the cornerstones of healthy family dynamics. Listen to our insights on how today's choices will inevitably mold the lives of those who come after us.

We wrap up with a candid discussion about the challenging subject of fear, shame, and their impacts on personal growth and accountability. Learn how standing up for what is right, even if it disrupts familial bonds, can ignite personal growth and initiate generational progression. As we thread the narrative of our personal experiences, we also draw parallels with a Netflix original movie, Luther, digging deeper into themes of recognition, forgiveness, and accountability. This episode promises to leave you contemplating your own family dynamics, responsibilities, and the remarkable potential for forgiveness and growth. Don't miss it!

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Author Mike Ryherd has returned to talk about his new book "Kids Sold Separately."  And share his story with The Father Factor Podcast Family.
Mike:
 Ever felt parental abandonment or neglect? How about that your past had too strong a grip on your future? What about the sting of a betrayal or the despair of all hope being lost? Ever met anyone who was human trafficked? “Hi, I’m Mike, and this is my story.”
  Cigarette burns and bite marks on the backs of babies… Kids Sold Separately is an autobiographical account of the real-life conditions in which Mike Ryherd and his brother, Kevin, were sold on the black market by their biological parents as children for $600.
  As an adult, a much darker tale began to unfold with the discovery that Mike and Kevin were not alone. A shocking phone call from an anonymous voice began the traumatic journey leading to the reality that the brothers had ten other siblings.
 
 All twelve children were illegally sold separately by their abusive biological parents. Kids Sold Separately details the human trafficking nightmare that scrambled lives along a trail of abandonment and abuse. Mike’s brokenness and betrayal was only healed by the overwhelming gift of God’s mercy. His story of a lost boy seeking identity, sonship and belonging will guide you through the redemptive truths of forgiveness, renewal and restoration.

Kids Sold Separately: Finding Home After Being Sold By Our Biological Parents: A Story of 12 Kids All Human Trafficked by Their Biological Parents: Ryherd, Mike, Titus, Larry: 9781957672113: Amazon.com: Books

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Our first episode back from spring break finds us chopping it up with guest Author Mike Ryherd.  Mike has done an invaluable service to parents by providing them with the 52 most common lies society tell our children. We are living in a culture of compromise, and parents unwillingly contribute to agreeing with these lies because they are either not aware of their origin, or they have gotten caught up in the cycle of placating and pacifying their children.  

The only antidote to the lies of society is truth. Only the truth will set them free. Only the truth will firmly establish them on a path to success and fulfillment.  Only the truth will enable them to become productive men and women that contribute positively to their family, their community and their faith. What is it worth to you to see your children openly resist the lies of society, become strong in their faith and grow into powerful, unwavering well centered adults. 

Don't miss this eye-opening episode. And we are glad to be back! 

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Legacy is when you teach and transfer the habits that build character, integrity, and wisdom that will ripple through eternity. When you attend Tom’s keynotes, you will learn to transfer your legacy by design, not by chance.

Significance is when you help others Be, Do, and Have more than they thought possible. The secret to becoming significant is by equipping others to do the same.

Far too many people are coasting through life. When you engage life and understand that you have what it takes if you only believe in yourself and develop the qualities of success already within you, everything changes.

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We titled this Podcast "The Father Factor" because "Fathers Count positively or negatively.  Whether these experiences are positive or negative they can create side-effects. In this episode Byron & Josh share stories that they experienced growing up in fatherless homes and the side effects they have had to deal with.  Josh is bi-racial and grew up with his white mother and at one point lived in projects in the Midwest.

 The first time he was called the "N" word was in the white projects. 
Three of the side effects they touch on in this episode are: The Void, Not Feeling Respected, A Lopsided View of Sex and Intimacy and not feeling loved. 

We invite you to listen and share with those you love. Also, we encourage you to send us an email or contact us on Facebook or Instagram. We would love to hear, your thoughts, experiences and ideas. Our Email address is below. 

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The benefits of technology and media are numerous for children as they make learning fun and an engaging experience for them. However, to maintain a healthy balance, it is crucial for parents to think about both the good and bad effects of media on children. While Smart Devices are an inseparable part of our lives, parents may want to know how much Smart Device time children should be allowed and what kind of content is appropriate for their children’s age group.  Smart Devices can offer educational content, entertainment, sports, and exposure to different cultures. On the other hand left unchecked, it can curb physical activity, impact social development, affect brain development and behavior, expose to vices and give a distorted view of the world.  In this episode Byron and Josh talk about the impact media had on their lives growing up. 

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In the first episode speaker and author Byron Ricks and his Co-Host Josh Warmbrodt introduce three of the nine side effects of growing fatherless or without the interaction and influence of a father. These were thee of the side effects that Byron uncovered in his research for the book "Searching For Dad."  Girls that grow up without a mother and have no connection to the mother suffer the same side effects as boys who grow up without father and have no connection to their father. 
The side effects covered in this episode are: Identity Crisis, A Need To Belong and Silent Anger. 

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