When my daughter, Sophia, and I traveled to the Casa San Jose orphanage for the second time last month, I’ll admit that there was some pride involved – the desire to be of service, a good thing, coupled with the self-righteous smugness of telling people that we were spending Sophia’s February school vacation week in Mexico. Not at some fancy ocean resort, mind you, but at an orphanage. With underprivileged kids, as part of a church mission trip. Anyone reading my Facebook status updates would see how saintly and Christian we were, how selfless and altruistic, filled with love and compassion. Yet how much of that altruism was rooted in a desire to simply make myself feel good, by indulging my passion for travel and hugging lots of adorable Mexican children?