What do Krav Maga, behavior analysis, and meditation have in common? For Asher Lester, they’ve all been paths to self-discovery, resilience, and purpose. In this episode of A Wise and Happy Life, Bob Martin sits down with Asher, a martial artist, educator, and breathwork trainer, to explore what it means to live at the edge of your comfort zone.

From a surprise start working with children on the autism spectrum to completing six 26.2-mile Bataan Memorial Death Marches carrying 50 lbs on his back, Asher shares how discipline, mindfulness, and service have helped him build mental toughness and stay grounded in moments of chaos. If you've ever wondered how to overcome fear, build grit, or find meaning in hard things, this conversation is for you.

This is Part 1 of a two-part series. In Part 2, Asher and Bob go deeper into the science of fear, emotional regulation, and how breathing and presence can change the way you live.

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"Don’t leave before the miracle happens." – Asher Lester

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In Part 2 of her conversation with host Bob Martin, Cathy Perez opens up about what it means to channel fear and frustration into meaningful action. After years of volunteering, learning, and speaking up for reproductive justice and equity, Cathy shares why she believes “sitting on the couch won’t help you heal.”

This episode explores how activism can be a spiritual practice, how courage is built one small step at a time, and why speaking up matters now more than ever. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, angry, or stuck, Cathy’s story reminds us that purpose is found not just in what we believe, but in what we do.

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"Sitting on the couch is not going to help you get rid of that rage." – Cathy Perez

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Can cleaning out your closet actually help clear your mind? In this episode of A Wise and Happy Life, Bob Martin sits down with certified KonMari consultant Cathy Perez to explore the spiritual side of organizing.

Cathy shares how the KonMari method goes beyond tidying, it's a gratitude practice, a mindfulness tool, and a path to reconnecting with joy. You'll hear how “joy checking” isn't just about your stuff, it's about your energy, your clarity, and your soul. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by clutter or unsure where to begin, this conversation brings both peace and practical guidance.

This is Part 1 of a two-part series. In the next episode, Cathy and Bob dive into activism, volunteerism, and how serving others leads to lasting happiness.

"The joy check is just a gratitude practice." – Cathy Perez

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What happens when the life you built starts to feel like someone else’s dream?

In this heartfelt episode of A Wise and Happy Life, Bob Martin sits down with Ray Martin, former “Business Leader of the Year” turned world-traveling author and humanitarian. After a personal and professional collapse, Ray walked away from corporate success to answer a question most of us avoid: What does a life true to yourself really look like?

Ray shares the power of intention, how living without a tie became his metaphor for personal freedom, and why being of service, whether running marathons for orphans or caring for a friend with cancer, transformed his definition of happiness. This is a must-listen if you’re standing at a crossroads or searching for a life with more meaning, courage, and heart.

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"If you really can't see a way out... go and find someone else who really needs help and help them 100%." — Ray Martin

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At just 17 years old, Susan Snow's world changed in a single moment. Her father, an LAPD detective, was murdered in a targeted shooting. What followed was grief, chaos, and silence. 

In this powerful conversation, Susan sits down with host Bob Martin to share the story she never asked to live but chose to rise from.

Together, they talk through the raw moments: hearing the news, feeling invisible, trying to navigate trauma at a time when PTSD wasn’t even part of the public conversation. This is more than a story of loss. It’s about survival, the power of memory, and how finding your voice can become the first step toward healing.

"In that moment, my world cracked." - Susan Snow

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What does church look like when you strip away the pressure, politics, production, and lead with grace? 

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, host Bob Martin and Pastor Allen Cudahy explore the rebirth of faith through simplicity, community, and compassion.

Now living in Costa Rica, Pastor Allen shares how he started Garden of Grace, a faith gathering rooted in presence and healing. They dive into what it means to be a “pastor for the nones,” why spirituality is rising even as church attendance declines, and how a lifetime of ministry is now centered around porch conversations, not pulpits.

Tune in to hear how Pastor Allen is reshaping faith and fellowship one porch gathering at a time. Subscribe to A Wise and Happy Life, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone seeking meaning, especially in midlife and beyond.

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What makes someone walk away from a thriving megachurch in the U.S. to build a spiritual community on a front porch in Costa Rica? 

What leads a respected Lutheran pastor to step away from a thriving megachurch and choose a slower, simpler life centered around real connection? In this episode of A Wise and Happy Life, host Bob Martin talks with Pastor Allen Cudahy about the calling that led him from U.S. pulpits to a quiet front porch in Costa Rica.

In Part 1, Pastor Allen opens up about the pressure of church performance culture, his early decisions to reject elite academic paths, and how he realized “the church left me first.” With warmth and honesty, he shares how decades in ministry shaped his understanding of grace, burnout, and the deeply human desire for belonging and meaning.

Tune in to hear how Pastor Allen is reshaping faith and fellowship one porch gathering at a time. Subscribe to A Wise and Happy Life, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone seeking meaning, especially in midlife and beyond.

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In Part 2 of this heartfelt chat, Bob and Cricket explore how touch, self-kindness, and spiritual connection deepen our well-being. They talk about restorative yoga, demystifying its spiritual roots, and why creating space for joy is a non-negotiable part of life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or overwhelmed, this conversation will remind you that healing is possible and it starts with presence. You’ll hear stories of discipline, connection, and what happens when you give yourself permission to begin again, over and over. 

Whether you’re 25 or 75, Cricket reminds us that it’s never too late to feel stronger, lighter, and more alive in your own body.

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You’ve been meaning to get back to the gym, try yoga, or reconnect with what makes you feel alive. Bob and Cricket make this conversation feel like sitting on the porch with old friends: thoughtful, funny, and full of heart.

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"It feeds my soul to teach you yoga." - Cricket Foster

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Cricket Foster has lived a big, creative life. From dancing across the globe to leading yoga classes and belting out rock songs in a wedding band. In Part 1, Bob Martin sits down with his longtime friend to talk about the early roots of her journey: ballet discipline, performing joy, and what it means to truly show up for your own life.

You’ll hear how daily practices, even in small ways, help build self-trust, and why rituals like yoga and music aren't just habits, they’re healing.

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You’ve been meaning to get back to the gym, try yoga, or reconnect with what makes you feel alive. Bob and Cricket make this conversation feel like sitting on the porch with old friends: thoughtful, funny, and full of heart.

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"Just show up. That’s it. Just show up." - Cricket Foster

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This is The Wise and Happy Life Podcast—a space where ancient wisdom meets modern science. Mindfulness, philosophy, and happiness practices blend with brain research, compassion, and common sense.

Hosted by Bob Martin—meditation mentor, happiness coach, trial lawyer, and entrepreneur—this podcast is your companion for navigating life’s joys and difficulties with grace, humor, stability, and success.

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, seeking deeper meaning, or simply aiming to live more wisely, effectively, and humanely in a chaotic world, each episode offers soulful insights, practical tools, and conversations to support the art—and the work—of being fully human.