Darin and Aimee continue the dating discussion. The two talk about how difficult it is for single people today to find someone who really knows their heart. Being a Free Believer makes it even more difficult to find someone you feel \"equally yolked\" with. Men and women think so differently. Having real relationship with each other seems almost impossible at times. So many of us enter into a relationship based completely on mistranslation and a lack of understanding of the opposite sex. Learning to understand one another is the first step to really knowing the heart of anyone. Having faith in your convictions and staying true to yourself in the dating world is becoming more and more difficult. 

Darin and Aimee talk about how our religion has dictated and controlled so many aspects of our lives that we can\'t even meet people, fall in love and get married without something religious getting in the way. Many of us have become socially illiterate because we have over spiritualized almost every aspect of life. We have become experts in blaming others for our relationship problems. It seems that most people today lie to themselves about who they are and what their heart needs in a relationship. Learning to be raw and truthful in a relationship is a difficult process for people who have tried their best to \"act\" out relationship their entire lives. 

Darin and Robert have a great discussion on the topic of what it means to judge others. There is a sweeping fad in the Free Believer world that basically states that we are not to judge anything or anyone at anytime. Not only is this next to impossible, but it\'s also a very dangerous way to living. Even Scripture says that we are to judge those inside the church. There is a difference between \"passing judgment\" and \"making a judgment\" based on the facts at hand. Many of us have rendered ourselves useless because of our unwillingness to trust what our hearts are telling us about a particular person or situation. 

Darin and Aimee talk about how difficult the dating world can be when you have a broken heart. So many of us feel that we have nothing to offer so we intentionally choose a person who we know can\'t see inside of us. We\'re not comfortable having real relationship because we honestly don\'t believe there is anything of value within us, and if we were to find someone who could see our heart, they might see how empty we really are. After years of being alone and feeling worthless, it becomes easier and easier to choose the wrong person. We end up choosing a mate based on what we believe we deserve. Unfortunately, it seems that most of us believe we deserve very little. 

Darin and Amy Ramos continue the discussion on \"For Christ Vs In Christ. Darin calls out all the ministers out there who spend more time trying to be an example then they do being an ambassador. For some reason we still have people out there preaching and doing things FOR Christ rather than In Christ and the result of this is that people have become actors. Our generation of Christians have two faces; the ministry face and the home face. We are two different people and somehow we justify it because we thing we\'re being an example for Christ. This generation needs to see REAL people who live IN CHRIST. That\'s something that even the poorest of the poor can relate too. That\'s something that the chief of sinners can relate too. 

Darin and Robert get into a deep discussion about the difference between living FOR Christ and living IN Christ. For so long we have been taught that we\'re put on this earth to please God. Most of us spend our lives thinking about ways that we can serve Him. We attempt to learn as much theology as we can in an effort to fill our minds with God-knowledge hoping that by doing so we will become more like Him. Unfortunately it matters not how much we DO or how much we KNOW. These things pass away and mean nothing. God is interested in a generation of people who live IN Him. Achieving this is as simple as believing in Santa Clause. It takes the mind of a child to live IN Christ. 

Darin talks with Aida Calder about the different forms of leadership we are seeing manifest in the body today. The two also discuss how becoming a Free Believer has awakened their spirits to how multidimensional they are. Religion has a way of making each of us one-demensional in our thinking. Once we realize we are loved, free and safe with God, we are free to explore this world in a whole different way. Aida talks about all the things she has learned about herself as a result of her new found freedom in Christ. Aida is the moderator of the FBN forum and a close friend to Darin and his family. You\'ll enjoy her heart in this podcast. She is the embodiment of what Free Believerism is all about. 

Darin and Robert talk about what it means to always be ready to give reason for what you believe. Our religion has taught us to hang everything on bible verses and tradition. This generation is no longer satisfied with believing because it is written or believing because someone else told us. The people of today require a personal experience. We aren\'t satisfied with blind faith.  Our reason for believing the way we do is because we have personally witnessed the things we talk about. When you live in the world of the heart, the truth of God becomes glaringly evident. Living in the world of heart is truly what separates Free Believers from the script-reading Christians who go door to door \"witnessing\" about Jesus. 

Darin and Amy Ramos continue their discussion on the subject of dating in the wild.  They have a serious chat about being real with ourselves and raising our personal standards. So many of us believe that we have no inner value because we live in a fatherless generation. Our standards are directly related to how we believed our father saw us. Unfortunately because such a sizable percentage of people in this world come from a broken home, we are left not knowing who or what we are. How do you recover from the feeling that you\'re nothing special? Why is it important that we DO recover from that lie? This is a great podcast that you\'ll want to pass on to people you love.

Darin and Amy Ramos discuss the popular reality show, The Batchelorette. The two talk about the dating world today and how difficult it is to find a relationship that isn\'t as broken as we are. Each of us seem to have a set standard that governs who we are attracted too and who is attracted to us. We spend our entire lives wondering why we keep getting our heart broken and the answer is found is how we see ourselves. Whatever we believe to be true of ourselves is what we will ultimately settle for in a spouse. This is a great discussion for both married and single people.