Are you one of those Gen X’ers who has a closet full of clothes that you don’t wear anymore? Maybe they don’t fit right or don’t feel like “you” anymore? Or you have to dress a particular way at work that doesn’t really align with who you are. Or maybe you’re a casual, jeans, t-shirt, sneaker-wearing Gen X’er who’s never uttered the words “personal style.” Well, after this episode, you’re going to have a whole new appreciation for what personal style really means.
This week Michele sits down with Holly Chayes, a personal style coach and consultant focusing on everyday genuine style and helping you build and wear the wardrobe you love. (Even when you’re running late, fighting a cold, and it's laundry day.)
Holly's got the goods on everything from clearing out and systematizing your closet, to owning your style at work, to understanding why high-quality shoes are a must. With her 3-step system, Holly will get you stoked for finding your authentic style and being brave enough to wear it!
Michele and Holly also get into the importance of allowing yourself to grieve the identity shifts that have caused your wardrobe to change. Whether it’s grief over the size that you used to be, or grief over a shirt you wore on that first date that didn’t work out, it’s critical to allow yourself the space to grieve as you venture out of your closet to embrace your personal style.
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CONNECT WITH HOLLY
⭐️ Website: https://whowearswho.com/
⭐️ Work with Holly: https://www.whowearswho.com/working-together/
⭐️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whowearswho/
⭐️ Podcast: Talking About Clothes: https://www.whowearswho.com/podcast/
HOLLY’S FREE RESOURCES:
⭐️ Holly’s Tiny Book of Style: https://www.whowearswho.com/tinybook/
⭐️ “Why Don’t Clothes Fit Me?” Here Are 84 Reasons: https://www.whowearswho.com/why-dont-clothes-fit-me-here-are-84-reasons/
CONNECT WITH MICHELE
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TIMESTAMPS
(00:00) Introduction to Personal Style and Identity
(00:43) Show intro
(01:24) Host Intro
(05:45) Guest introduction
(11:35) Guest background and childhood
(25:14) Defining Personal Style
(31:53) Commercial break inviting to rate, review, and share the show
(33:13) Holly's 3-step process for finding your personal style
(33:21) Embracing Personal Style: The Process of Self-Exploration
(36:11) Respecting Your 'Maybe': The Decision-Making Process
(39:31) Grieving the Process of Letting Go: Emotional Attachment to Clothing
(56:33) Discovering Your Personal Style: What Feels Good and Important
(01:02:55) Clothing Sizing Chaos: Prioritizing Comfort and Self-Worth
(01:10:34) Body Acceptance and Kindness: Clothing Sizing and Wardrobe Choices
(01:20:06) Navigating Societal Standards and Workplace Culture
(01:29:34) The Evolution of Workplace Culture and Personal Style
(01:34:11) Commercial break for sponsor - Life From The Summit
(01:35:31) Dangers of switching from high heels to flats too suddenly
(01:36:18) Self-Acceptance and Embracing Individuality
(01:37:34) Holly's podcast
(01:38:27) Lightning Round
(01:46:47) Host wrap-up
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