Forgiveness is liberating. It can reveal the true God power of love within us. It eliminates judgment, fear, anger, blame and opens the door to healing, by helping you to let go of resentment and hurt.

The power of forgiveness can heal any relationship from friendship to marriage. It can reveal the true God power of love within us.

If you wish to enjoy a long and healthy relationship with someone you value deeply, then you will have to work on your ability to forgive! #letstalklove, #forgiveness, #healing, #love, #transformation, #impact, #inspiration, #purpose, #mentalhealth, #coaching

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Communication & Understanding are vital pillars for any relationship, especially a marriage relationship. It's like a vehicle through which all other important parts of a relationship can operate firmly. If you can communicate honestly and effectively, your marriage has a good chance of being happy and healthy.

Communication is the key; there can be no understanding without communication. To build and sustain a progressive relationship, we should be communicating effectively, clearly, frequently, and with a heart posture ready to receive, reassess, re-align and act on what is communicated to us.

Let us be mindful and deal with our partners with understanding! #letstalklove #communication #understanding, #love, #transformation, #impact, #inspiration, #purpose, #coaching

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To enjoy a fulfilling partnership you should be yielding yourself in an ordered relationship!

It is true that husbands ought to love their wives and wives ought to submit to their husbands. However, you cannot thoroughly fulfill this for each other if both partners do not have a mindset to submit to one another.

I call it the cycle of self-sacrifice! Speaking of Cycle, I want to Refer to Dr. Emerson Eggerichs…THE CRAZY CYCLE.

Basically The Crazy Cycle is summed up this way: WITHOUT LOVE, SHE REACTS WITHOUT RESPECT AND WITHOUT RESPECT, HE REACTS WITHOUT LOVE.

He says that the secret to building a happy relationship is to recognize when you are on the Crazy Cycle…Reduce the crazy moments by daring to do something loving or respectful! That action has the power to halt the negative cycle.

So when we talk about submitting one to another, I believe that we are to play our position, intentionally, relentlessly, sacrificially, and reverentially! #letstalklove #love&respect, #submittooneanother, #love, #transformation, #impact, #inspiration, #coaching

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Husbands love your wives and wives submit to your husbands! Men feel loved by their wife when they’re respected and women feel loved when they are cherished by their husband. 

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Love and respect are critical in relationships in general but even more important in a marriage setting. As any married couple eventually discovers, romantic feelings don’t exist every day. It takes effort to keep a marriage strong, to keep minor disagreements from becoming major ones, to favor sweet words and tender glances over harsh comments and contemptuous glares. A woman loved by her husband will grow in loveliness. A man respected by his wife will become more respectable.

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Yes we are to love one another and submit to one another, serve one another but to have a successful relationship you must understand that the man is the head and the wife is the help-meet. When we apply this the right way not one-sidedly we will have a peaceful and happy home! #letstalklove, #love&respect #love, #transformation, #impact, #inspiration, #coaching

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Romance and Intimacy when practiced the right way and frequently adds a dynamic flare in a marriage relationship.

Fairy tale movies and books have aided a lot of our mindsets to be conditioned to “Happily ever after” and this is why it’s a fairy tale because this is definitely not the reality. Marriage takes work. It’s making a decision daily to put in the work. It’s dying to self and so much more. 

Romance and Intimacy depend on an open, loving, accepting, and affirming environment in which each partner feels comfortable making his or her needs and desires known to the other. #letstalklove #romance #intimacy #love #transformation #impact #coaching

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The most successful long-term relationships are those that are based on friendship.
True friendship is the strongest relationship of all, and is the fundamental ingredient of every truly successful marriage. Courtship is a relationship with a mission; with accountability and intentionality to progress into marriage.

Marry your friend y’all! Because when love shakes, true friendship will stand the test of time. 

Waiting and Dating in these streets is a true challenge, but knowing the right way to enjoy that season while taking your time to date with purpose and  intentionality can lead to positive outcomes as you progress into your courtship and marriage season.

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We should love others with compassion. We should "love our neighbors as we love ourselves;" our neighbor is anyone we come across, it's not just the people close to us but the people around us. Loving others does not mean that we need to allow people to manipulate us, undervalue us, use and abuse us. It simply means that we should love and appreciate people because we are to be the reflection of God here on earth.

If you don't love yourself it will definitely be a challenge to love other people; you just can’t give what you don’t have.

Self-love is not easy, but it is important. Life is already hard, and people can already be cruel enough for you to keep on ignoring you. So start paying attention and caring for yourself as you do to and for others, and see the wonders it will bring into your life.

Remember you are Enough!

To love is to feel and act lovingly. You know without love we are nothing, and the very essence of God is love. He is the expert on love...no one understands love better than God.  

A poet once wrote “ to love is to live, and to live is to love”