The Good Divorce® Show

In this conversation, Karen McNenny, the Good Divorce Coach, discusses the transformative potential of divorce when approached with the right mindset. She emphasizes that divorce should not be viewed as a weapon but rather as a tool for positive change, particularly in the context of parenting and family dynamics. The discussion covers the adversarial nature of the legal system, the financial implications of divorce, and the importance of prioritizing family over finances. Karen advocates for a more dignified approach to divorce that focuses on the well-being of children and encourages personal growth. She concludes with a call to action for those considering divorce to seek support and explore healthier pathways.

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show℠, Karen McNenny speaks with attorney Matthew J. Long about the transformative journey from litigation to mediation in divorce. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by families during divorce, the importance of a collaborative approach, and how mediation can provide a more supportive environment for parents and children. Matthew shares his experiences in family law, the misconceptions surrounding divorce, and the critical role of communication and curiosity in the mediation process. The conversation emphasizes the need for professional guidance and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of children throughout the divorce process.

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Matthew J. Long

Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce in Santa Barbara, San Luis Obispo, and Ventura counties (CA)

• matthewjlong.com
• facebook.com/MediationandCollaborativeDivorce/
• linkedin.com/in/matthew-j-long-b027a047/

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show, Karen McNenny speaks with financial expert Melissa Murphy Pavone about the financial aspects of divorce. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, the implications of asset division, and the role of financial professionals in navigating divorce. Melissa shares her personal experiences and insights on how to make informed decisions during this challenging transition, emphasizing the need for a collaborative approach to divorce that prioritizes the well-being of all parties involved.

Connect with Melissa Murphy Pavone, CFP®, CDFA®

• linkedin.com/in/melissamurphypavone/
• https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/

In this episode, Karen McNenny speaks with Jeremiah Wallace, a seasoned stepfather and host of the podcast 'Navigating the Blended Family Experience.' They discuss the complexities of blended families, the emotional challenges faced by step-parents, and the importance of communication and patience in creating a harmonious family environment. Jeremiah shares his personal journey, insights on parenting, and advice for biological fathers on how to embrace new relationships while prioritizing their children. The conversation emphasizes the value of understanding, curiosity, and the long-term commitment required in blended family dynamics.

Jeremiah Wallace

Jeremiah Wallace has been a stepfather for over 10 years and he has been providing support and instruction for those that are also navigating the blended family experience for the last 9 years.

• https://www.facebook.com/navigatingtheblend
• https://www.instagram.com/navigatingtheblend
• https://open.spotify.com/show/18lHa6yAxTv4I8weoq3q4i?si=4b3843adc4714814
• https://linktr.ee/jeremiahwallace

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show℠, Karen McNenny engages in a heartfelt conversation with Cheryl Pankhurst and Rosario Greco about their experiences navigating divorce and co-parenting. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of their children, the impact of divorce on family dynamics, and the importance of communication and support systems. The conversation highlights the significance of a kid-centered perspective and the lessons learned over the years, ultimately providing hope and inspiration for families going through similar journeys.

Connect with Cheryl Pankhurst

• CherylPankhurst.com
• Podcast: Teen Minds Redefined - Real Talk for Today's Parents
• fb.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst
• insagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst
• linkedin.com/in/cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855/
• youtube.com/@cherylpankhurst

Connect with Rosario

• RGStyles.ca
• linkedin.com/in/rosario-greco-13457346/
• fb.com/RosarioGrecoStyles/

In this conversation, Karen McNenny and Patrick Duganz explore the critical role of fathers in the context of divorce and parenting. They discuss the challenges fathers face, the importance of father engagement for child development, and how the court system often reinforces traditional gender roles.

Patrick shares insights from his experience as a Father Engagement Specialist, emphasizing the need for support and resources for dads. The discussion also touches on the grieving process associated with divorce and the importance of redefining relationships for successful co-parenting.

Patrick also shares his personal journey through divorce and how it has shaped his work. He discusses the emotional complexities of divorce, the importance of maintaining respectful co-parenting relationships, and the benefits of a 'good divorce' approach.

Patrick emphasizes the need for support among fathers and the significance of blending families thoughtfully. He also shares a poignant case study of a father navigating the challenges of parenting after a tumultuous separation, highlighting the importance of community and understanding in the parenting journey.

PATRICK DUGANZ

• healthygallatin.org/family-health/for-dads/
• fatherhood.gov/dadication

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, host Karen McNenny speaks with Michael Flores, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Brighter Possibilities Family Counseling. They discuss the complexities of divorce, focusing on the emotional journeys of families, particularly the unique experiences of fathers, the importance of attachment theory, and the detrimental effects of parental alienation. Michael shares insights on how to navigate co-parenting, the significance of forgiveness, and the need for love and grace in the healing process. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding family dynamics and the role of effective communication in fostering healthier relationships post-divorce.

ABOUT MICHAEL FLORES, MA, LPC-S

Founder of Brighter Possibilities Family Counseling located in Fort Worth, TX

• BrighterPossibilitiesFC.com
• Classes: brighterpossibilitiesfc.com/classes
• Instagram.com/brighterpossibilitiesfc
• Facebook.com/brighterpossibilitiesfc
• Youtube.com/@brighterpossibilitiesfc

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show, Karen McNenny and Jennifer Delliquadri discuss the complexities of navigating parenting during and after divorce, particularly focusing on adolescents. They explore the challenges of co-parenting across two homes, the impact of divorce on children's emotional well-being, and the importance of effective communication between parents. Jennifer shares insights on supporting neurodivergent children and emphasizes the need for personal transformation in parents to better support their kids. The conversation highlights the resilience of children and the significance of adapting parenting styles to meet their needs.

About Jennifer Delliquadri

Jennifer Delliquadri is a certified life coach, purpose-driven mentor, and founder of Subtle Shifts. With a background in psychology, education, and trauma-informed practices, she specializes in helping women in midlife navigate burnout, people-pleasing, and unfulfilled lives to create more joy and balance. Jennifer is passionate about guiding women through personal transformations, empowering them to reconnect with their feminine power and embrace meaningful change. When she's not coaching, Jennifer enjoys exploring the Pacific Northwest with her family and dogs.

• Instagram.com/jennifer.delliquadri
• www.jenniferdelliquadri.com

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, Karen McNenny speaks with Karen Covy, a lawyer turned divorce coach, about the complexities of divorce and the importance of navigating it with clarity and support. They discuss the flaws in the family court system, the significance of coaching before legal action, and how to design a divorce that minimizes conflict and promotes respect. Covy shares her journey into divorce law, the realities of divorce court, and the value of organization and preparation in the divorce process. The conversation emphasizes the need for collaboration between coaches and lawyers to provide the best outcomes for clients, ultimately empowering individuals to take charge of their divorce journey.

KAREN COVY

Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Author, Speaker and Podcaster. She coaches six, seven, and eight figure professionals and business owners all over the world to make clear, confident decisions during highly-charged emotional situations. Karen helps her clients become the CEOs of their own divorce, so they can navigate through this difficult life transition with less conflict, less expense, and less damage to themselves and their children.

Karen is the author of When Happily Ever After Ends: How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially, and Legally. She is also the creator of the online divorce programs, The Divorce Road Map 3.0 and How to Successfully Mediate Your Divorce. She is the host of the podcast, Off the Fence: Mastering Decision-Making Divorce and More. You can connect with Karen on Facebook, Instagram, X, LinkedIn and YouTube, as well as on her website at karencovy.com.

• https://karencovy.com/
• https://www.facebook.com/KarenCovy
• https://www.instagram.com/karencovylawyer/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/karencovy/
• https://karencovy.com/podcast/

In this episode of The Good Divorce Show™, host Karen McNenny speaks with Brynn Ungerleider, CEO of Premier Nanny Network, about the vital role of nannies in supporting families, especially those navigating divorce. Brynn shares her personal experiences as a child of divorce and as a divorced parent, emphasizing the importance of communication, respect, and routine in co-parenting. The conversation highlights practical strategies for managing shared parenting responsibilities and the emotional well-being of children during transitions. Brynn also discusses the misconceptions surrounding nannies and their value in enhancing family dynamics and providing support to parents.

ABOUT BRYNN

Owner of Premier Nanny Network - a National Nanny and Elder Care Agency, Professional Nanny and Household Manager, Parent & Teen Coach

From Brynn

Aside from my parents undergoing a tumultuous divorce, I have also been divorced, and most importantly, I have worked for many families of divorce. As a former professional nanny and household manager of over twenty years, I have seen first hand the effects of divorce on children and their families. By offering consistent, reliable care, I was able to assist children through the ups and downs of navigating their new normal while also contributing a neutral mindset for both households. A resounding myth I hear is that nannies are only for the rich. In truth, nannies are the missing piece many parents are looking for to facilitate positive, loving changes in both households. From assisting gatekeeping parents who are struggling with fear and anxiety over how their children are cared for, to fostering healthy and happy co-parenting relationships, I have witnessed it all. My mission in life is to continue my efforts to ensure children are given the levels of care they deserve. After all, kids should be having fun, not acting out or struggling to survive between households.

• PremierNannyNetwork.com
• [email protected]
• facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558084171799
• instagram.com/premiernannynetwork
• linkedin.com/in/brynn-ungerleider-a123ba30a/