The Grace Raised Podcast

Summary

In this episode of the Grace Raised Podcast, Riah Jaffrey raises a plea to the church to step into a more radical form of humility in relationships. She emphasizes the need for humility, love, and accountability, drawing on personal experiences and scriptural teachings. As the conversation elaborates on the cost of the cross and the accountability needed for our sanctifying growth in community, Riah encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and to strive for a Christ-like love that prioritizes the well-being of others over self-preservation. In the face of relational conflict, wounded by the people we love, how are we called to live? In a culture that emphasizes "self help", self-identities" and "boundaries" and falls into habits of using trigger words to control the relationships we exist with, Riah cries out to the church to remember our identity in Christ and the life we lost as we gave it to follow after Jesus. 

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

Takeaways

• The death of self is crucial in relationships.
• Christians are called to a higher standard in love.
• Love is a choice, not just a feeling.
• Forgiveness does not always mean restoration.
• We must be willing to lay down our rights for others.
• Relationships are messy and require humility.
• Scripture should guide our responses to hurt.
• We need to bear with one another in love.
• Self-care should not overshadow selflessness.
• Revival in relationships is essential for the church.

Resources

My Utmost For His Highest - Oswald Chambers

Ephesians 5:1-2

John 13:34-35

Matthew 5:44

Ephesians 4:2

Colossians 3:12

Galatians 5:22

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Galatians 5:24

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Summary

In this episode on The Grace Raised podcast, host Riah Jaffrey interviews Jeff Green, a fellow alumni of Rock School of Ministry, a father of two boys, husband to his wife of 16 years. In this moving conversation Jeff shares his powerful testimony of how the Lord relentlessly pursued him, provided for him and cared for him through his wife which ultimately led him to faith. Jeff discusses his life before Christ, the struggles he faced as an unbelieving spouse, and the pivotal moments that led to his surrender to God. He emphasizes the importance of love, patience, and community in navigating faith and relationships, offering encouragement to those in similar situations.

Takeaways

• Jeff's journey to faith began with a loving spouse.
• Transformation is an inside-out process.
• Surrendering to God leads to true change.
• Patience and long-suffering are vital in relationships.
• Community plays a crucial role in spiritual growth.
• Faith is not blind; it is evidence-based.
• Don't give up on your spouse's journey to faith.
• Every believer has a unique story of redemption.
• God's timing is perfect in our lives.
• True joy comes from a relationship with Christ.

Jeff Green

I am Jeff Green and I have been married for 16 years and have 2 boys. I have been following Christ for a little over 2 years and the turn around has been incredible. I have finished year 1 of The Rock School of Ministry and am enrolled in the second year. My favorite scripture verse is Isaiah 40:29-31 it is a passage about God providing strength to those who are weary and who lack it. It emphasizes that God empowers and increases the strength of the weak. Also that those who trust in the Lord will find renewed strength, allowing them to overcome challenges they couldn't before.    

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life 

through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary

In this episode Riah Jaffrey and guest Kierstin O'Brien explore the themes of faith, personal journeys, and the importance of relationships in spiritual growth. Kirestin shares her story of coming to faith, the challenges she faced, and how her experiences shaped her understanding of God and her role as a mother and mentor. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, encouragement, and the ongoing journey of faith. We delve into the world of apologetics and its crucial role in deepening our understanding of faith. Join us as we explore how apologetics provides a framework for defending beliefs, fostering meaningful dialogue, and strengthening personal convictions. Whether you're a seasoned believer or new to the journey, this episode offers valuable insights into the intersection of reason and faith. Tune in to discover how apologetics can enrich your spiritual life and equip you to engage thoughtfully with others.

Kierstin O’Brien

I’m a wholehearted follower of Jesus, a devoted wife, loving homeschool mom to my four kids, lead worshipper, extreme extrovert, word-nerd, and lover of the Word.  I call myself the Coffee Date Disciple because I think that my calling to encourage, build up, and spur other believers on over coffee is what the Lord has placed on my heart.  I’m down for talking about Jesus, apologetics, theology, scrunchy mom tips, marriage, parenting, homeschooling, and everything in between.     

Resources

Download Our Full Resource Guide:

Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies by Hillary Morgan Ferrer

Alisa Childers https://alisachilders.com/

Lee Strobel https://leestrobel.com/

Tim Barnett https://www.str.org/tim-barnett

The Deconstruction of Christianity by Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett

Philippians 1:6

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life 

through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary

In this episode of The Grace Raised Podcast, host Riah Jaffrey speaks with her mentor, Alicia Pineo, about her faith journey, the importance of mentorship, and the role of community in faith. Alicia shares her experiences growing up in a Christian home, navigating trials during her teenage years, and how God has been present in her pain. They discuss the significance of scripture in understanding God's character, the dangers of false beliefs, and the importance of discernment. Alicia emphasizes the need for new believers to engage with their faith actively and the transformative power of a relationship with God.

Alecia Pineo

From her early years growing up in Chesterville Maine, Alecia Pineo knew that serving others was what she was born to do.  Taking care of her Great Grandmother (who lived to 105) in her Grandparents home was the beginning of a journey that ultimately ended in her bringing Visiting Angels to Bangor, ME. After high school, Alecia proudly served her country in the United States Air Force.  Alecia supported the Airmen in the very critical, but often overlooked, field of Accounting and Finance.  Little did she know how valuable her skills would be when she would eventually decide to open her own business.  After the Air Force, Alecia tapped into her desire to serve others once again.  She pursued her dream of becoming a Registered Nurse.  Through positions at various hospitals, and as a Public Health Nurse with the State of Maine, Alecia mastered her craft and was able to help many, many people—whether through treatment or education.    

Alecia learned over the years that seniors hold a very special place in her heart.  When she heard a Visiting Angels advertisement on the radio, she knew it was an answer to prayer.  She opened a Visiting Angels franchise in Bangor, Maine in June of 2016. Providing premier quality in-home care for her community is a true honor and privilege for her.  Helping seniors age more gracefully and maintain the dignity they have earned is something she truly cherishes.  

Alecia lives in Hampden with her husband Toby. She has four children, a daughter in law and two grandchildren. Her faith in Jesus and her love of her family are her two passions outside of her work. To God be all the glory.

Resources

Knowing God by J.I. Packer

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life 

through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

37: Where We Are Planted With Jolene Ray

Summary

In this episode of The Grace Raised Podcast, host Riah Jaffrey interviews Jolene Ray, a pastor's wife and mother of seven, about her journey of faith, balancing family life with ministry, and the importance of community. Jolene shares her spiritual awakening, the challenges of balancing homeschooling and how she navigates serving in the church while raising her children. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mentorship, trusting God in our callings, and the role of mothers in ministry, encouraging listeners to find balance and support within their communities.

Resources:

Titus 2:4-5

Ephesians 5:22

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary

In this episode of the Grace Raised podcast, Riah and Alex Jaffrey reflect on their 13-year marriage journey, discussing the challenges, growth, and faith that have shaped their relationship. They share personal stories about their early years, the struggles with intimacy, long-distance relationships, and the importance of community support. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, trust, and the role of faith in navigating the complexities of marriage, ultimately celebrating their commitment to each other and their family.

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Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary

In this episode of the Grace Raised podcast, Riah and Alex Jaffrey reflect on their 13-year marriage journey, discussing the challenges, growth, and faith that have shaped their relationship. They share personal stories about their early years, the struggles with intimacy, long-distance relationships, and the importance of community support. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, trust, and the role of faith in navigating the complexities of marriage, ultimately celebrating their commitment to each other and their family.

About

Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary

In this episode of The Grace Raised Podcast, host Riah Jaffrey welcomes Jessie McCormack for a heartfelt conversation about her ministry journey, the challenges faced by disenfranchised communities, and the importance of community support. Jessie shares her experiences from a recent mission trip to the Dominican Republic, where she aims to help a young man named Caleb improve his living conditions. We delve into Jesse's personal faith journey, her cultural identity, and her passion for serving others as well as discussing the heart of staying in the word. 

Jessie McCormick

Jessie is a passionate storyteller, faith leader, and cultural bridge-builder rooted in her Puerto Rican and Dominican heritage. With a heart for discipleship, Ministry, and service, she shares devotionals and testimonies in both English and now Spanish to uplift and equip diverse communities. Jessie is also a dedicated student of Ministry Leadership as well as a range of languages like Haitian Creole, deepening her commitment to unity across cultures through language, faith, and mission.

About Blessed Journey

Blessed Journey is a community-driven initiative founded by Jessie to share the love of Christ through testimonies, teaching, and tangible acts of service. Rooted in faith and cultural compassion, Blessed Journey mobilizes support for under-resourced families—like helping rebuild homes in the Dominican Republic and spreads gospel-centered encouragement across linguistic and cultural lines. It’s more than a ministry; it’s a movement of hope.

Resources

Give to Support Caleb

https://www.givesendgo.com/BuildHopeForCaleb?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=BuildHopeForCaleb&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR73cPLDqGT1_aySyL0LfcWeVd-OQnJxfCeMw5Z_Qx-tapeCa9pxqzq0uqLXeg_aem_hzrbdiQHcNquGETXjTvS3g

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100083484025840 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bles.sedjourney/?hl=en

About

Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

Summary
In this episode of the Grace Raised podcast, host Riah Jaffrey speaks with Rhonda Sperrey, a public school superintendent, about her journey in education, her faith, and how she navigates her role in the public sphere. Rhonda shares her experiences transitioning from teaching to administration, the challenges she faced, and how her faith has guided her through difficult times. They discuss the importance of grace in parenting, the impact of public versus private education, and redefine what ministry looks like beyond traditional roles. Rhonda emphasizes that every individual has influence and that ministry is about living out one's faith in everyday life.

Rhonda Sperrey
Rhonda Sperrey is a seasoned educational leader with over 25 years of experience in public school administration. She holds a bachelor's degree from the University of New Brunswick and a master's degree in Educational Leadership from the University of Maine. For the past 11 years, Rhonda has served as superintendent of schools in her current district, where she leads with vision, compassion, and a steadfast commitment to student success. Known for her wisdom, integrity, and deep-rooted faith, Rhonda brings a thoughtful perspective to conversations about leadership, education, family, and the power of community.

Resources
Philippians 2:1-10
Ephesians 4:11-12
Colossians 3:23
1 Peter 4:10-11

About
Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate. 

About 

Join Riah Jaffrey for a podcast series where we draw on our personal stories, examine the truth of God’s word, and identify the lies, false identities, and unbiblical beliefs that keep us from walking whole heartedly in the power of our new life through the gift of Grace in Jesus. Join us as we share what it is to walk in relationship with Jesus; where we discover new life in death and step into the supernatural power of God’s Grace and Glory. 

Lindsay Whitty

Lindsay Whitty is a follower of Christ, wife to Ian of almost 10 years, and dog mom of 5 living in beautiful Dedham, Maine. She has attended the same church for the past two decades, where she's served everywhere from children's and youth to cafe and women's ministry. Lindsay is a Commercial Portfolio Manager for a local bank and recent graduate of Rock School of Ministry's two-year ministry training program. Her passion lies in discipleship, the local church, and seeing fellow believers grow more in love with God. She is a lover of all things Fall, buffalo plaid, chats with friends at Starbucks, summer bonfires and beachwalks, Trader Joe's, road trips to any beach along the East Coast, and sappy Christmas Hallmark movies.

Summary

In this episode of The Grace Raised Podcast, host Riah Jaffrey speaks with Lindsay Whitty about her profound journey of faith, loss, and healing. Lindsay shares her experiences growing up in a Christian home, the challenges she faced during her husband's battle with cancer, and the deep grief that followed his passing. Throughout their conversation, they explore themes of surrendering to God, the importance of honesty in prayer, and finding peace amidst fear and anxiety. Lindsay emphasizes the power of thanksgiving and the grace of God in navigating life's trials, ultimately highlighting the unchanging nature of God's love and support.

Resources

Safe All Along book

https://www.amazon.com/Safe-All-Along-Anxieties-Unshakable/dp/0593445112

Anxious study

https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Bible-Access-Fighting-Anxiety/dp/1087733863

Get out of your Head book

https://www.amazon.com/Get-Out-Your-Head-Stopping/dp/1601429649

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If you would like to share your story you can submit a request on our website at thegraceraisedpodcast.com, or send us an email at [email protected]. If you would like to donate to help support the ministry you can click the donate link in the show notes or go to thegraceraisedpodcast.com/donate.