The Graveyard Shift

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The Graveyard Shift episodes

October 01 Shift #41: Rituals, reclamation, and Dr. Alan Wolfelt
Families’ perceptions of funerals are changing, and not always in ways that make a funeral professional’s job easier.
In this episode, Dr. Alan Wolfelt joins the guys to discuss how funerals are losing their meaning in today's culture and calls for funeral professionals to reclaim their role as educators, not order-takers.
They explore why families might struggle to see the value of a ceremony and how funeral professionals can practice “supportive confrontation” by empathetically challenging assumptions while still honoring each family’s choices.
Tune in for an inspiring conversation on helping today’s families navigate loss with knowledge, compassion, and confidence.
About Dr. Alan Wolfelt
Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., is recognized as one of North America’s leading death educators and grief counselors. His books on grief for both caregivers and grieving people, including Funeral Home Customer Service A-Z, have sold more than 1 million copies worldwide and been translated into many languages. He is the founder and director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition, as well as a longtime funeral service consultant. Learn more at CenterForLoss.com.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
46 min
September 17 Shift #40: Wine cellars, scuba tanks, and ideal funerals
Ever wonder what funeral professionals actually want for their own final send-off?
In this episode, the guys break down their own final wishes. They go through everything from Winston Churchill-inspired songs and open wine cellars to motorcycle hearses and scuba tanks. Tune in for a hilariously candid and unexpectedly thoughtful conversation that will get you thinking about how your own funeral can truly reflect who you are.
Side note: Gary’s epitaph alone is worth the listen.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
50 min
September 03 Shift #39: Professionalism, personality, and public image
How much of yourself should you bring to the job?
In this episode of The Graveyard Shift, the guys continue their conversation about authenticity, trust, and public image as a funeral professional. They explore how to navigate professional expectations, maintain healthy boundaries, and avoid burnout in a profession that’s “always on.”
Tune in for top-tier advice and an honest conversation about showing up as your full self, quirks and all.
See what the guys have been up to:
Jimmy just released TeamTangoAI, a tool that answers calls, helps website visitors, and offers family support. See more about this feature here: https://teamtangoai.com/
Matt is planning for his next celebrant training in New Haven, Connecticut. Get more details here: https://bailey.courses/celebrant-training
Gary recently finished teaching a few courses at ICCFA University. Learn more about this program here: https://iccfa.com/university/
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
53 min
August 20 Shift #38: Viral videos and Victor M. Sweeney
How does a small-town mortician from middle-of-nowhere Minnesota end up with 50 million YouTube views without even trying?!
In this episode, Victor M. Sweeney joins to talk about accidental fame, turning down reality TV, and why "just doing something real" beats trying to “go viral” every time. The guys dig into crafting an authentic public image, the trap of being an order-taker, and what it really means to show up for families, even when it's inconvenient.
Fair warning: Victor's take on inconvenience will stick with you long after the episode ends.
About Victor M. Sweeney
Victor M. Sweeney is an undertaker in a small town in Northwest Minnesota. While he goes about every aspect of the funeral business as it touches the lives of the families he serves, his wife and four children patiently await his return and shake their heads when duty calls him away again. He represents the profession worldwide, authoring a book, “Now Departing,” and amassing some 50M views on YouTube. He doesn’t have free time, but he likes to read when he’s able.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
55 min
July 23 Shift #37: Real leadership, raw advice, and Robbie Pape
Ever wonder why some leaders command a room and others just…don't?
Robbie Pape joins the guys to talk about the power of choice, showing up with confidence, and why the best leaders own their mistakes. Robbie also shares lessons from her colonel and fighter-pilot dad, and the crew digs into what the funeral profession needs more of from its leaders right now.
Tune in for honest conversations, a few emotional moments, and maybe a reason to start making your bed every morning.
About Robbie Pape:
Robbie Pape serves as Vice President of Operations at Carriage Services. With 30 years of experience spanning funeral and cemetery operations, finance, sales, systems, process improvement, and audit, Robbie brings a rare full-picture perspective to help Carriage continue to grow and succeed. She's a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), a past ICCFA President, current treasurer on the CANA Board of Directors, and holds a degree in Marketing and Information Systems from Baylor University.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
38 min
July 09 Shift #36: Disconnects, data, and discoveries
Time to get a little nerdy.
Todd pulls up some eye-opening stats from our New Funeral Consumer study, and the guys don’t hold back their opinions. This episode breaks down the 5 biggest disconnects between funeral homes and the families they serve.
Fair warning: A few of these might hit close to home.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
40 min
June 25 Shift #35: Flat squirrels, preneed, and Bill McReavy, Jr.
Bill McReavy, Jr. joins the podcast to talk about going from zero preneed sales to a program that’s thriving. Spoiler: marketing had a lot to do with it.
In this episode, the guys dive into how preneed serves families when they need it most and tackle the big question: Is the ROI really worth it?
Tune in for insights and a few ideas you might want to steal for your own preneed program.
About Bill McReavy, Jr.:
Bill McReavy, Jr., CEO of Washburn-McReavy Funeral Chapels, Cemeteries, and Cremation Services, is part of the fourth generation of his family to join the business. Bill has helped guide Washburn-McReavy as it has grown and modernized, expanding to more locations across the Twin Cities while staying focused on caring for families in a personal, compassionate way.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
39 min
June 11 Shift #34: Moms, money, and Minnesota
The Graveyard Shift goes live in Minnesota! And yes, there's an audience. 😆
The guys dig into the kind of funeral home scenarios you can’t exactly Google your way out of. Expect hard-earned lessons, unforgettable stories, and a look at what keeps them going in a profession that’s challenging but rewarding.
Plus, a brand new segment called “Are you smarter than Jimmy?” is reason enough to tune in.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
48 min
June 03 Shift #33: Man on the moon, robots, and funerals
Put on your tin foil hat - the crew has bold takes on what’s next in funeral service.
From robots in prep rooms and shifts in business models to changing regulations and the rise of new technology like holograms, the guys cover it all.
Some of it’s far out. Some of it is already happening. Either way, the future is coming fast.
Tune in for a fun, thought-provoking conversation and a few ideas on how to harness what’s next in funeral service.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
37 min
May 14 Shift #32: Hamburgers, blog writing, and Tom Anderson
What happens when one of the most trusted voices in funeral service joins the crew?
Tom Anderson shares his journey in the profession and the inspiration behind starting a daily publication.
The guys cover everything from economic realities and permanent memorialization options to changing family expectations.
Expect a few hard truths, some hot takes, and plenty of reasons to be excited about where funeral service is headed next.
About Tom Anderson:
Tom Anderson is the CEO and Editor of Funeral Director Daily, a widely read news source dedicated to straightforward reporting on the funeral care profession. Drawing on more than 35 years as a successful funeral director, Tom provides clear, practical insights into the business of death care. Read more at https://funeraldirectordaily.com/.
About the podcast:
The Graveyard Shift is a podcast by Passare and features:
Todd Carlson, Chief Sales Officer at Directors Investment Group
Matt Bailey from Bailey Family Funeral Homes in Connecticut
Gary Freytag from Spring Grove in Ohio
Jimmy Lucas from Lucas Funerals and Cremations in Texas
Have feedback? Share it with us at [email protected].
39 min

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