The Great Unbecoming

Join me as I talk to queer theologian, TikTok sensation, and author of his new book, Queer & Christian, as we dig deep into this very popular question: What does the Bible really say about homosexuality? To order Brandan Robertson's book, click here: https://www.brandanrobertson.com/queer-christian-bookAnd if you need help to free yourself from religious-shame, build confidence, and make friends, set up a free call with me today: https://forms.gle/1uVLpdddyUnuzJeY9

Thomas is a sought after Heart-Led Coach, with close to twenty years experience. He has double credentials as a certified coach, and is a member of the International Coaching Federation.Adding to his expertise of supporting coaching clients navigate what he calls the “18 inch journey” - the connection between their heads and their hearts - he’s also excelled at work as an Executive Coach, marketing specialist, event creative, advisor to CEO’s and Board Members and a quiet disruptor.He’s been honoured to serve in numerous volunteer capacities in support of his queer community.Thomas is also an author, having published his memoir entitled Little Fag: A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Healing.Adding to the power of his voice, sharing his life’s path, is his podcast called Conversations With Thomas.Thomas lives with his uber-brilliant, gentle and big hearted husband, both living in Honolulu, and in the gorgeous city of Vancouver, Canada.His eyes tell his truth, he knows how to use his voice, he wears his heart on his sleeve and all the rest is subject to change without notice.https://thomaskevindolan.squarespace.com/https://www.instagram.com/thomaskevindolan/channel/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7Zu9PTWm_uwPRflpbdKfBghttps://www.facebook.com/share/1BLjAq2VSE/?mibextid=wwXIfr

🎙 Welcome to The Great Unbecoming!This podcast is all about letting go of the stories that no longer serve us—stories about coming out, deconstruction, divorce, and more—to make space for authenticity, purpose, and joy. What did you let go of to become who you are today? And what did you gain in the process?

🌟 Want to Take the Next Step?

Book a FREE Discovery Call with Eric today and begin your journey toward a shame-free, joyful life:

👉 https://forms.gle/dvmooao2TpBU69HM9

🚀 Meet Eric Feltes

Eric is a Life Coach, actor, and speaker dedicated to helping gay men break free from Religious-Shame and embrace their most authentic selves. If you’ve ever felt like you were bad or unworthy because of who you are, or if you’re struggling to build meaningful friendships and find your community, you’re not alone. The Shame-Free Gay Life programs have empowered hundreds of gay and bi men to:

🎯Build meaningful connections and make friends

🎯Navigate the gay world of dating, sex, and relationships

🎯Free themselves from shame to live happy, confident lives

💬 Learn More About the Shame-Free Gay Life Community:

Visit Eric’s website: https://www.lifecoachingbyfeltes.com/

🎧 This Episode’s Guest

Craig Cassey is an executive leadership and sex coach who helps high achievers cultivate deeply fulfilling relationships, erotic confidence, and audacious self-leadership. With a Master’s in Applied Positive Psychology and over six years of coaching experience, he blends research-backed strategies with somatic and psychological insights to help clients build secure, steamy, and pleasure-filled lives. Whether guiding breakthroughs in intimacy, attachment, or personal growth, Craig empowers clients to step into their most liberated and turned-on selves.

🪴Life Outside of Coaching

You may have seen Eric in shows on Showtime, Netflix, or Amazon Prime, or heard him speak in churches across the U.S. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA, with his dog Cadence and his thriving collection of 29 houseplants.

🎥 IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5895857/

📩 Talent Inquiries: [email protected]

🎙 Welcome to a very special episode of The Great Unbecoming!

In today's conversation, I sit down with Talent Agent, Thom Milam. Friends, this is such a great conversation about the importance of living an authentic life, as an actor, but more importantly, as a human. If you are gay and struggling in the closet, and you may want to pursue acting, you won't want to miss this one!

🚀 Meet Eric Feltes

Eric is a Life Coach, actor, and speaker dedicated to helping gay men break free from Religious-Shame and embrace their most authentic selves. If you’ve ever felt like you were bad or unworthy because of who you are, or if you’re struggling to build meaningful friendships and find your community, you’re not alone. The Shame-Free Gay Life programs have empowered hundreds of gay and bi men to:

🎯Build meaningful connections and make friends

🎯Navigate the gay world of dating, sex, and relationships

🎯Free themselves from shame to live happy, confident lives

🌟 Want to Take the Next Step?

Book a FREE Discovery Call with Eric today and begin your journey toward a shame-free, joyful life:👉⁠⁠ https://forms.gle/dvmooao2TpBU69HM9⁠⁠

💬 Learn More About the Shame-Free Gay Life Community:

Visit Eric’s website:⁠⁠ https://www.lifecoachingbyfeltes.com/⁠⁠

🪴Life Outside of Coaching

You may have seen Eric in shows on Showtime, Netflix, or Amazon Prime, or heard him speak in churches across the U.S. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA, with his dog Cadence and his thriving collection of 29 houseplants.

🎥 IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5895857/

📩 Talent Inquiries: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠

🎙 Welcome to The Great Unbecoming!

🎙 Welcome to The Great Unbecoming!This podcast is all about letting go of the stories that no longer serve us—stories about coming out, deconstruction, divorce, and more—to make space for authenticity, purpose, and joy. What did you let go of to become who you are today? And what did you gain in the process?

🚀 Meet Eric FeltesEric is a Life Coach, actor, and speaker dedicated to helping gay men break free from Religious-Shame and embrace their most authentic selves. If you’ve ever felt like you were bad or unworthy because of who you are, or if you’re struggling to build meaningful friendships and find your community, you’re not alone. The Shame-Free Gay Life programs have empowered hundreds of gay and bi men to:

🎯Build meaningful connections and make friends

🎯Navigate the gay world of dating, sex, and relationships

🎯Free themselves from shame to live happy, confident lives

🌟 Want to Take the Next Step?Book a FREE Discovery Call with Eric today and begin your journey toward a shame-free, joyful life:

👉 https://forms.gle/dvmooao2TpBU69HM9

💬 Learn More About the Shame-Free Gay Life Community:

Visit Eric’s website: https://www.lifecoachingbyfeltes.com/

🎧 This Episode’s Guest

Gerome is a Senior Managing Strategy Consultant with Georgia Tech Strategic Consulting. A native of Kentucky with over 20 years in higher education, he brings extensive experience in supporting leaders across academic and student-focused units to foster capacity-building, implement sustainable processes, and drive culture change. Before joining GT Strategic Consulting, he served as the Associate Dean of Students and Director for the Center of Student Engagement at Georgia Tech (2013-2023), where he led Civic Engagement, Fraternity and Sorority Life, Student Media, and Student Organizations.Dr. Stephens holds a Ph.D. in Higher Education Leadership & Organizational Development from the University of Louisville, where his research centered on organizational culture and the strategic alignment of culture-related goals. He earned both his BA in Education and MA in Public Communications from Morehead State University in Kentucky. Recognized for his commitment to equitable process and policy development, he is known for his collaborative approach to leadership and his focus on building inclusive, high-performing teams. He is a certified Gallup coach and has been working with individuals and teams across sectors—from nonprofits to Fortune 400 companies—using CliftonStrengths since 2009.He proudly served as the advisor to Georgia Tech’s Ramblin’ Reck Club from 2013 to 2023 and currently volunteers as the faculty fellow for Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity at Tech. When he isn’t at work you can find him volunteering for regional equity focused youth programs, running one of Atlanta’s many 5ks, or on the hunt for vintage Dolly Parton records.

Where can you find Gerome?

Insta: @egerome @partonwaters

Linkedin: /geromestephens

🪴Life Outside of CoachingYou may have seen Eric in shows on Showtime, Netflix, or Amazon Prime, or heard him speak in churches across the U.S. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA, with his dog Cadence and his thriving collection of 29 houseplants.

🎥 IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5895857/

📩 Talent Inquiries: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then⁠ ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . A is a trans man, branding and mindset coach, and spiritual seeker who has built a life rooted in growth, purpose, and impact. Through their own journey of transitioning, detransitioning, and reconnecting with their true self, they’ve cultivated a deep spiritual connection and a mission to empower others. With over 4 years of experience, they now help therapists create impactful content and master their mindset to share their stories and impact others authentically and meaningfully.

Their links . . .

⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠

⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠

⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠

⁠⁠Website⁠⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Justin is a speaker, writer, and content creator at the forefront of LGBT+ and Catholic dialogue. He has over a decade of experience navigating Church ministry, including five years as a missionary with FOCUS. Drawing from his rich background in philosophy, theology, and psychology, he offers a thoughtful and compassionate approach to the pastoral care and inclusion of LGBT+ Catholics, rooted in years of deep formation and pastoral experience. He is dedicated to fostering community among LGBT+ Catholics and making the Church a safe and welcoming place for all. When not working as a nurse, the Colorado-based advocate enjoys hiking and trail running.

His links . . .

Website

Youtube

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Blake Mitchell (they/he) is a seasoned Diversity, Equity, Inclusion & Belonging professional and nonprofit leader with extensive experience in organizational development and social impact. As Founder and Principal of Blake Mitchell Consulting and Founding Partner of BE Labs, they specialize in transforming workplace cultures through innovative DEIB initiatives and HR technology solutions.

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then⁠ ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Ryan Nealon is an LA-based artist, writer, and singer-songwriter whose music has been celebrated for its delicate, heartfelt, and captivating nature. Praised by Robert Dye of American Songwriter as "fragile, emotional, and beautiful," Ryan has successfully cultivated a devoted following on social media and amassed over 20 million streams across various music platforms.
With a remarkable ability to connect with his audience, Nealon's music resonates deeply with listeners who are drawn to his authentic and vulnerable approach. In March 2023, Nealon teased the verse of his song "Feel Good," which is a poignant ballad that explores the complexities of body dysmorphia, and the song quickly gained viral attention on TikTok and Instagram, amassing over 10 million views and over 1,000,000 streams in the first 2 months of its release. After the success of “Feel Good,” Nealon was able to garner even more viral attention with his songs “Second to Last” and “Tell You About Her,” which eventually led to the  release of his first studio album “Losing Sleep and Losing Friends” on December 8, 2023.
Now with an audience spanning over 300,000 people, Ryan Nealon is gearing up to release his second project in 2025, including recently released singles “I Was Wrong” and “The One Who Left.”

His links . . .

@ryanealon on all socials!

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠

⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠

⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠

⁠⁠Website⁠⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]