The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

Mike Maeshiro is the founder of Numa, an organization dedicated to supporting individuals recovering from religious toxicity, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. A prominent voice in both the LGBTQ+ and deconstruction movements, Mike draws on his experiences as a gay man navigating his Christian upbringing and ministry to share profound insights about faith and identity.
As a former instructor at Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, known for his class "Discerning of Spirits," Mike now focuses on emotional health and redemptive deconstruction. He serves as a consultant and coach for gay men transitioning away from evangelicalism, leading a team of coaches who assist those whose faith is evolving.

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Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

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⁠Youtube⁠

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⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

This episode deals with subject matters of sex and addiction. If you are struggling with addiction, please call 988 or 877-SAMHSA-7. If this is an emergency, please call 911.

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Dr. Dallas Bragg struggled with a crystal meth addiction after coming out at age 36. After being inrecovery for five years, he launched his Recovery Coaching business to help gay men break free from addictive behaviors and self-actualize. Now, blending spirituality and recovery has led to an expansive coaching practice and a new podcast called The AfterMeth. Dallas makes time for his two adult childen, physical fitness, houseplant, hiking, and his favorite pastime: writing. Dallas obtained his doctorate in Executive Leadership/Coaching in 2014 and still enjoys teaching part-time at post-secondary Universities. Follow Dallas on all socials at @drdallasbragg.

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guests . . .

Matthew Cole is a high Spanish teacher in his 15th year of teaching. He was diagnosed as adult with ADHD and unofficially diagnosed on the autism spectrum (AuDHD). He identifies as gay (queer) and neurodivergent, never feeling like he fits in any particular community or group.

Josh Miller is an author, who is about to release his first book in early 2025. Before becoming an author, he earned his doctoral degree in Communication Studies from the University of Wisconsin, Milwaukee.

He views his neurodivergence and queerness as positive parts of his identity, affording him unique experiences and knowledge. He hopes to continue making the world a more affirming and loving place for queer and neurodivergent folks.

One of the ways he does his is by blogging and posting YouTube videos about neurodivergence, communication, and higher education on his YouTube channel and website.

Website: https://drjoshcommunity.wordpress.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Dr.JoshsCOMMunity

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Lamont Scales White (otherwise known as the Gay Dating Coach) is the owner of Betterwaytomeet.com, which a is professional matchmaking, dating coaching, and couples counseling service for gay men in the United States.

Since 2014, Lamont has matched hundreds of single guys and even helped a few guys get married. He’s nationally recognized as a relationship expert for gay men and helping gay men maintain healthy relationships.

Lamont has an undergraduate degree in psychology, graduate degree in Professional Community Counseling, and is a Certified Matchmaker. He lives in Atlanta with his husband and their two nephews.

Contact: [email protected]
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lamontscales/

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then⁠ ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Aaron Goldenberg is an actor, comedian, and content creator based in Atlanta, GA. You might know him for his biting humor, specifically as one half of The Mean Gays, but he is so much more than an online comedian. A closeted gay boy raised in a very evangelical household, Aaron also experienced conversion therapy and we delve a bit into that on the show. Aaron holds a BA in Psychology, with a minor in Theatre. Television appearances include Bad Monkey (Apple TV+), The Righteous Gemstones (HBO), Swarm (Prime Video), and First Wives Club (BET+), and most recently recurring on Jordan Peele’s reboot of Scare Tactics (USA). Although he’s been acting since he was a kid, during the pandemic he focused on creating content online, utilizing his passion for writing comedy. Aaron has garnered over 340K followers on ⁠Instagram⁠, and 1.3M on ⁠TikTok⁠. Follow at @aarongoldyboy

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠

⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠

⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠

⁠⁠Website⁠⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Ess McKinney (they/them) is a young queer author who writes lgbtq+ fiction. They are most well known for their queer biblical retelling series, which they wrote to help the lgbtq+ community heal from religious trauma and reframe the stories that they may have once loved.

Their links . . .

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then⁠ ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Kevin Garcia is a spiritual directior, a mystical theologian + practitioner, an LGBTQ+ author / speaker, and a wild lover of life based in Atlanta, GA. After coming out in the fall of 2015 as a queer Christian, Kevin has reached thousands of individuals across the globe with messages of God’s unending love for all people. regardless of who they are, what they profess, or what they actually believe. Kevin’s the author of Bad Theology Kills: undoing toxic beliefs and reclaiming your spiritual authority, published Janurary 2020, and the new book What Makes You Bloom: Cultivating a Spiritual Practice for connecting with your divine self. Kevin’s work also appears in several anthologies by queer people of faith.

⁠Their links⁠

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠

⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠

⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠

⁠⁠Website⁠⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Kevin Garcia is a spiritual directior, a mystical theologian + practitioner, an LGBTQ+ author / speaker, and a wild lover of life based in Atlanta, GA. After coming out in the fall of 2015 as a queer Christian, Kevin has reached thousands of individuals across the globe with messages of God’s unending love for all people. regardless of who they are, what they profess, or what they actually believe. Kevin’s the author of Bad Theology Kills: undoing toxic beliefs and reclaiming your spiritual authority, published Janurary 2020, and the new book What Makes You Bloom: Cultivating a Spiritual Practice for connecting with your divine self. Kevin’s work also appears in several anthologies by queer people of faith.

Their links

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]

The Great Unbecoming is a show about stories of unlearning. What did you let go of in order to become the person you are today, and what did you gain and learn as well? This is a show about letting go of stories that no longer serves us and stepping into our own authenticity. It's about unbecoming what society says you should be, and remembering who you are, and who you are meant to be.

But first . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps other gay men free themselves from Church-Shame. If you are a gay man who's been lead to believe that you are bad, or if you're having a hard time making friends with other like-minded men, then ⁠⁠Book a FREE Discovery Call today!⁠⁠

And now, about our guest . . . Beecher is a non-binary filmmaker and professor residing in Lexington, Kentucky with their wife, April Ajoy, and two daughters. They are passionate about speaking out and creating work that deconstructs oppressive religious systems in order to live more authentically. Beecher's films can be seen on their website, beecher.media, and can be followed on social media @hellobeecher.

About our host . . . Eric Feltes is a Life Coach, actor, speaker, and writer. He and his team have helped hundreds of GBT+ men build community, become free of shame, find love, build businesses, and, at the end of the day, live their best shame-free gay lives. He has been seen in shows on Showtime, Netflix, and Amazon Prime, and he has spoken in churches across the country. Eric lives in Atlanta, GA with his dog Cadence and his 29 house plants.

His links . . .

⁠Instagram⁠

⁠TikTok⁠

⁠Youtube⁠

⁠Spotify⁠

⁠Website⁠

Email: [email protected]

Talent Inquiry: [email protected]