The Grief Cocoon Podcast

The Grief Cocoon Podcast

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  • EP 12: How to Grieve with Intuition & Deal with Identity Loss & Career Transitions

    In this episode, Gaby dives deep with Gloria Eid about:

    • exploring who she is without her work
    • developing self-trust
    • how she supported herself through transitions (incl. career change)
    • losing her father while away from home
    • grieving while holding space for others in her own work
    • developing presence with the uncomfortable
    • loss of identity
    • honouring endings
    • ...plus advice on how you can start being more present while grieving.

      Gloria is a writer, poet, leadership coach, and grief movement guide who helps people navigate their growth and transitions, access their creative abilities, and become who they need to be to carry out their unique roles in life and career.

      In 2016, she quit her career track with no set plan, taking a 10-month career pause that ultimately propelled her into the creative life and work she has today.

      Through her own experiences with grief and death, her writing and coaching often explores how to find peace in life’s mysteries, carry onward in the aftermath of loss, and live in the nuance of keeping it together when things have fallen apart. She is a featured poet on an upcoming documentary called Heal Through Poetry, and her episode shares intimately about the death of her dad in 2019 and the ensuing experiences and perspectives she’s been left with while grieving and healing. 


      Learn more about Gloria Eid at gloriaeid.com, on Instagram, or on LinkedIn.


      Watch this interview on our Youtube channel.


      If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

      • ⁠⁠⁠⁠Griefline⁠⁠⁠⁠ - 1300 845 745
        • ⁠⁠⁠Lifeline⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - 13 11 14
          • ⁠⁠⁠Mensline⁠⁠⁠ - 1300 78 99 78

          • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

            • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
            • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thegriefcocoon/⁠⁠⁠
            • Join The Grief Cocoon community via our app: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp⁠
            • 1 hr 6 min
            • EP 11: How to Live Intentionally Through Grief & Deal With Sudden Loss

              In this episode, Gaby speaks with Mae Yoshikawa about:

              • losing her mother at a young age
              • discovering yoga and how it impacted the way she lived
              • the sudden death of her 2nd husband
              • her unconventional funeral planning
              • finding the courage to make decisions you won't regret
              • cultural norms & perspectives on grief and funerals in Japan
              • dealing with loss of identity
              • her upcoming book 'Kizuki'
              • self-care tools
              • ...plus advice for grieving parents of young children.


                ⁠Mae is an author, yoga & meditation practitioner, teacher, and mother. In 2006, she became the first Japanese woman to be authorized by the founding school of Ashtanga Yoga in India. Since then, Mae has been a trailblazing force in the wellness field throughout the Asia-Pacific region as Japanese Yogini magazine featured her on 42 consecutive covers. As the face of adidas yoga, as well as the Founder of ⁠VedaTokyo.com⁠, Mae was awarded the "Yoga People's Award" in 2016 for her remarkable social impact in the wellness field. Her upcoming book, Kizuki: Life's Tidal Waves + Epiphanies = Love Beyond Time and Death encapsulates her life-changing journey of a metamorphosis of identity after the sudden loss of her husband in 2018.


                Learn more about Mae's work and upcoming book, 'Kizuki', via her website or connect with her on Instagram.


                This episode will also soon be available to watch on Youtube⁠. Subscribe to our channel here to be the first to see it.


                If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                • ⁠⁠Griefline⁠⁠ - 1300 845 745
                  • ⁠⁠⁠Lifeline⁠⁠⁠ - 13 11 14
                    • ⁠Mensline⁠ - 1300 78 99 78

                    • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                      • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
                      • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thegriefcocoon/⁠
                      • Join The Grief Cocoon community via our app: ⁠⁠https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                      • 1 hr 5 min
                      • EP 10: Two Sisters Reflect on the Loss of their Mother and How Grief Impacted Their Relationship

                        In this episode, Gaby speaks to her sister Mary about:

                        • her relationship with their mother before she became ill
                        • how she felt about being asked to move interstate following their loss
                        • grieving both her mother and the life she left behind
                        • the dreams and supernatural experiences she's had
                        • dealing with guilt
                        • ...plus Gaby shares a poem she wrote to her about a challenging time in their relationship when they were both struggling to cope.


                          Mary was only 35 years old when she was asked to leave behind the life she built in Sydney to move to Melbourne and look after Gaby (youngest sister) and her father. The request came from their oldest sister, Rima, who lives in Sweden and had a growing family of her own. Mary and Gaby had their ups and downs as they tried to adjust to living together while coping with living without their mother. In this episode, we hear how Mary coped with her newfound responsibilities and what helped her along the way.


                          We hope this episode inspires you to have more open, honest, and thoughtful conversations with the people close to you. There may be questions you've been too afraid to ask, or moments you've been too scared to go over. In this episode, Mary and Gaby share how these conversations can be had.


                          If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                          • ⁠⁠Griefline⁠⁠ - 1300 845 745
                            • ⁠⁠⁠Lifeline⁠⁠⁠ - 13 11 14
                              • ⁠Mensline⁠ - 1300 78 99 78

                              • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
                                • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thegriefcocoon/⁠
                                • Join The Grief Cocoon community via our app: ⁠⁠https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                • 33 min
                                • EP 9: Processing Disenfranchised Grief, Complex PTSD, & the Loss of a Father who had an Addiction

                                  In this episode, Gaby speaks to Zachary Phillips about:

                                  • his connection to grief
                                  • his complicated relationship with his father
                                  • the challenges of being a father in the absence of a good role model
                                  • tools for processing grief and developing self-awareness
                                  • how to use poetry as a form of self-expression and processing
                                  • ...plus advice for men who are missing a father figure.


                                    Zachary Phillips is a poet, author, mental health advocate, and mindset coach. In these roles he has helped thousands of people move from a place of surviving to passionately thriving. He is the author of 14 books, teaches on Skillshare and Insight Timer, and hosts the Reality Check and Kinky Conversations podcasts. He is a qualified teacher, personal trainer, martial arts coach, and disability support worker, and is currently studying a Master of Counselling. Zachary offers mindset coaching and mentoring and is available for speaking engagements and podcast appearances.


                                    Learn more about Zachary via his website (https://www.zachary-phillips.com/) or connect with him on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/zacpphillips)


                                    This episode is also available to watch on our Youtube channel: https://youtube.com/@thegriefcocoon


                                    If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                    ⁠Griefline⁠ - 1300 845 745

                                    ⁠⁠Lifeline⁠⁠ - 13 11 14

                                    Mensline - 1300 78 99 78


                                    Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                    • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠⁠
                                    • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thegriefcocoon/
                                    • Join The Grief Cocoon community via our app: ⁠https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                    • 56 min
                                    • EP 7: How to Start Small When Dealing with Climate Grief & Anxiety

                                      In this episode, Gaby speaks to Annie Bolitho about:

                                      • what inspired her to become an environmental activist
                                      • how to recognise climate grief
                                      • talking to children about climate grief and change
                                      • what you can do to deal with climate grief/anxiety
                                      • ...plus she shares a two poignant poems from young people about climate change and the environment.


                                        Annie loves the possibilities of friendship, artmaking, ritual and community on the lands of Naarm. She has a Doctorate of Creative Arts in writing, and is author of ‘Death, a love project’ a guide that helps anticipate common practical and emotional demands that arise around end of life. Annie has trained with numerous great teachers on meeting the psycho-spiritual challenges of our times, including Thich Nhat Hanh and Joanna Macy. She practices in the Soto Zen tradition with Jikishoan Zen Buddhist Community. 


                                        If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                        • Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                        • Griefline - 1300 845 745

                                        • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                          • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠
                                          • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                          • Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store: https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                          • 59 min
                                          • EP 6: A Devastated Mother's Search for Her Missing Son & the Challenges of Disenfranchised Grief
                                            In this episode, I speak with Chandra - a mother whose life changed forever in 2018 when her 17-year-old son went missing in Mumbai, India. This is her devastating story and what she's learned along the way about life and loss.
                                            Chandra Ramamurthy is a post-graduate researcher in mental health and understanding resilience in children. Chandra has degrees in Clinical Psychology & Ethics and is a Masters of Philosophy candidate at the Centre for Mental Health, School of Population and Global Heath at the University of Melbourne. Her current research explores building resilience in children through cultural storytelling.
                                            Chandra shares:
                                            - the person her teenage son was
                                            - the experience of searching for him after he went missing
                                            - dealing with the cruel things that people have said after her loss
                                            - how her son inspired her research project about resilience
                                            - what's helped her deal with the grief
                                            Please note that this episode contains themes of mental illness, suicide, and a graphic description of a corpse.
                                            If this episode has brought up anything for you, then please contact a support service or talk to a trusted person:
                                            Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                            Griefline - 1300 845 745
                                            Connect with The Grief Cocoon:
                                            Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                            Instagram: ⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠
                                            Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store
                                            1 hr 28 min
                                          • EP 5: Understanding the Mind-Body Connection & the Impact of Suppressing Emotions in Grief

                                            In this episode, Gaby speaks to Pepe (José Inostroza Aqueveque) about:

                                            • the connection between the mind and body
                                            • how trauma and grief is embodied
                                            • his experience of anticipatory grief personally and professionally
                                            • how psychodrama can help with regret
                                            • ...plus the one simple thing you can start doing in your everyday life to self-soothe and check in with yourself.


                                              Pepe is an interdisciplinary practitioner, therapist, facilitator, and artist, who integrates Somatic Bodywork, Transpersonal Psychotherapy, Performing Arts, Yoga and Myotherapy in his work.

                                              He has performed in Theatre and Contemporary Dance internationally, in professional and community scenarios. Facilitated creative, educational and therapeutic sessions on individual and group settings, engaging with different age groups, and a vast diverse community internationally. 


                                              On Sunday the 11th of June, Pepe will be leading a day of yoga and movement workshops for The Grief Cocoon in Melbourne's Inner West. Click here to learn more and book your place: https://events.humanitix.com/grief-care-sunday-yoga-and-movement


                                              If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                              • Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                              • Griefline - 1300 845 745

                                              • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                                • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠
                                                • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                                • Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store: https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                                • 58 min
                                                • EP 4: Living with the Terminal Disease of Cystic Fibrosis & Struggling to Grieve

                                                  Having been born with Cystic Fibrosis. Raphael Recht was told that he wouldn't live past his teen years. He grew up in and out of hospitals, seeing many of his young peers die and facing death every day due to his condition. Now, at the age of 40, he reflects on how being exposed to so much loss has shaped his worldview and perspective on loss, and what he wishes other people would understand.

                                                  Raphael Recht is a photographer, filmmaker, creative director, health advocate, and rapper. Learn more about his 'Life Expectancy' project here.


                                                  This episode includes:

                                                  • Raphael's upbringing as a child living with Cystic Fibrosis
                                                  • how it impacted his perspective and the way he lives
                                                  • finding it hard to grieve
                                                  • surpassing his life expectancy
                                                  • talking to children about death
                                                  • how Raphael understood the death as a child
                                                  • experiencing survivor's guilt
                                                  • finding a way to "live forever"
                                                  • why he chose music to tell story
                                                  • supporting someone through grief
                                                  • gaining perspective on what matters
                                                  • Raphael shares a rap he wrote when he was a teen
                                                  • *Cystic fibrosis is a lifelong disease that affects the respiratory, endocrine, reproductive, and digestive systems.


                                                    If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                                    • Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                                    • Griefline - 1300 845 745

                                                    • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                                      • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠
                                                      • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                                      • Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store: https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                                      • 1 hr 4 min
                                                      • EP 3: How to Use Your Voice & Rituals When Overwhelmed with Grief

                                                        Ria Soemardjo is a Melbourne based musician with a passion for collaborating with artists across diverse range of genres and art forms. Her distinct, haunting vocal style reflects her Australian/Indonesian cultural heritage and she draws on her fascination for Indonesian musical traditions in her song writing and collaborative projects. Ria is also a highly skilled teacher and workshop facilitator, who loves to share her fascination for voice and rhythm through her workshops and classes.


                                                        In this episode, we hear about:

                                                        • Ria's experience of losing her father and friends
                                                        • connecting with her father through singing
                                                        • finding time to pause during the day in the face of overwhelm
                                                        • learning about her father through reconnecting to her culture
                                                        • how she uses and creates rituals in everyday life when remembering loved ones.

                                                        • This episode includes '100 Days' (written by Ria for her father) from the album, 'Fine Threads': https://finebluethread.bandcamp.com/album/blueprint


                                                          If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                                          • Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                                          • Griefline - 1300 845 745

                                                          • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                                            • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠
                                                            • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                                            • Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store: https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                                            • 40 min
                                                            • EP 2: Finding Language for Loss & Why It's Important

                                                              In this episode, host Gaby speaks to Peta Murray about the importance of finding language around grief and loss experiences and how the early losses we experience can impact us. Peta also shares why she uses humour when exploring heavy subjects, such as grief, death, and dying.


                                                              Best known as a playwright, Peta also writes short stories and essays and is a freelance dramaturg, director and occasional performer. She co-founded The Groundswell Project, which works with individuals, organisations and communities to improve how people in Australia die, care and grieve.


                                                              Learn more about Peta Murray and her work: https://petamurray.com/


                                                              If this episode has brought up anything that you need further support with, then please talk to a trusted person or contact a support service, such as:

                                                              • Lifeline - 13 11 14
                                                              • Griefline - 1300 845 745

                                                              • Connect with The Grief Cocoon:

                                                                • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/thegriefcocoon⁠⁠⁠
                                                                • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thegriefcocoon⁠⁠
                                                                • Download The Grief Cocoon via your app store: https://urlgeni.us/TGCApp
                                                                • 29 min

                                                                About The Grief Cocoon Podcast

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                                                                A podcast where you'll hear open, honest, and thoughtful conversations about grief and loss, death, and dying. Host Gaby Georges talks with creatives, mental health professionals, researchers, and…