There are moments when the world makes something very clear. This is one of them. In this episode of The High Value Woman Playbook, Amanda Carroll runs The No Access Play—a new standard for modern dating and relationships. This episode isn’t about debating politics or being “open-minded” at your own expense. It’s about access—who gets it, who doesn’t, and why removing access to your body, time, money, and emotional energy is one of the most powerful tools women have right now.

Amanda breaks down why:
• Who you date is political
• Who you sleep with is political
• Where you spend your money is political …and why high-value women no longer give access to men who don’t protect bodily autonomy, human rights, or equality.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How to spot unsafe men early—before emotional or sexual investment
• Why silence, dismissal, and “both sides” thinking are disqualifiers
• How women actually hold power through sex, money, and access
• Why MAGA men don’t make the cut
• How to vet men without arguing, debating, or revealing your views
• What a truly healthy, egalitarian partner looks like.

Amanda also shares her personal story of surviving an abusive marriage, religious indoctrination, and financial control—and how that experience shaped the framework she now teaches women to help them choose safe, aligned partners.

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If you’re done guessing…
If you’re done wasting time on the wrong men…
This episode will change how you date.

Follow the show, subscribe, and leave a review to help this message reach more women. The goal isn’t to change men. It’s to choose better ones—on purpose. Let’s run the play.

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The biggest lie you’ve been told about dating is that wanting more is asking for too much. In reality, wanting more is exactly how you attract better. In this episode of The High Value Woman Playbook, Amanda Carroll walks you step-by-step through how to create a dating app profile that attracts high-value men—men who are emotionally available, intentional, and ready for a real partnership. This is the play Amanda is calling for 2026:
Set the Standard of Excellence. Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why wanting more in dating is not a flaw, but a signal
• How your dating profile quietly communicates your standard
• The three non-negotiable jobs of a dating profile that attracts high-value men
• What to remove from your profile if you’re attracting vague or low-effort men
• How to protect your time and emotional energy before the first date ever happens

This episode is equal parts permission and strategy—designed to help you stop shrinking, stop settling, and start dating in a way that reflects who you truly are.

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Most women think dating apps are the problem. They’re wrong. In this episode, Amanda Carroll explains why waiting — not dating apps — is what quietly destroys your chances of finding a high-value partner. If you’re telling yourself “I’ll start dating in the new year”, you’re about to miss the most powerful dating window of the entire year: cuffing season — the period between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day when people are more emotionally available, more reflective, and more open to real commitment. Amanda breaks down:

• Why women don’t fail at dating — they miss the timing
• The psychology behind cuffing season and why it changes male behavior
• The exact “Enter the Arena” play high-value women run when opportunity opens
• How to set up a dating profile that attracts commitment (and repels clowns)
• Why waiting for “perfect conditions” keeps women single longer

This episode is for high-value women who are done waiting to be chosen — and ready to start choosing. 🎯 Free Resources Mentioned

• Dating Profile Cheat Sheet
• Live Training: Magnetic Attraction (Replay Available)

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Waiting doesn’t look reckless.
It looks responsible. Mature. Sensible. And that’s exactly why it’s so dangerous. In this episode of The High Value Woman Playbook, Amanda Carroll breaks down The Forward Motion Play—the quiet truth about how capable, successful women lose years of their lives without realizing it. This conversation is for the woman who:

• Has built a full life on paper
• Has done the inner work
• Has told herself she’s “being intentional”
• And feels a growing awareness that something important is being postponed

Amanda explains why clarity doesn’t come from waiting, why healing doesn’t happen in stillness, and how high-value women create momentum without chaos, pressure, or impulsive decisions. You’ll learn:

• Why waiting feels wise—but quietly erodes your future
• How forward motion rebuilds confidence and self-trust
• What “1% more brave” actually looks like in dating, career, body, and wealth
• How to move your life forward without blowing it up

This episode blends strategy, humor, and honest coaching to help you stop circling decisions and start choosing yourself—calmly, clearly, and with intention. 🎯 Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Download the Dating Profile Cheat Sheet
• Book a Dating Strategy Call for clarity and next steps

Stop waiting.
Run the play.

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After six years alone and eight kids depending on her, Hannah wasn’t sure she would ever trust herself in love again.

Leaving a narcissistic marriage had taken everything out of her — her confidence, her hope, and her belief in healthy men. In this powerful episode, Hannah shares her journey from survival mode to safe, emotionally healthy love… all within 60 days of learning a new way to date.

Inside the episode, you’ll hear:
💛 What it’s really like to rebuild after a narcissistic relationship
💛 The fears that keep high-value women single longer than they want
💛 The mindset shift that helped her finally trust herself again
💛 How she stopped attracting love-bombers + emotionally unavailable men
💛 The exact dating strategy she implemented that changed everything
💛 The moment she knew her new partner was different
💛 What healthy, emotionally available love ACTUALLY feels like Hannah’s story is proof that: ✨ You’re not broken
✨ It’s not too late
✨ And your next chapter can be the best one If you’re a single mom, a high-achieving woman, or someone healing from past relationships… this episode will show you what’s possible when you date with clarity, confidence, and self-worth.

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If the thought of dating again makes your stomach drop, this episode is exactly what you’ve been needing. Listen, you’re not broken.
You’re not “too picky.”
And you’re definitely not imagining it. There is a real, psychological reason why dating feels scary for you — and once you understand it, everything changes. In this episode, I’m walking you step-by-step through:

💛 The REAL reason you freeze, shut down, or pull away when a good man appears
💛 Why your nervous system equates dating with danger (even when you consciously want love)
💛 How past relationships trained you to expect chaos instead of safety
💛 Why high-achieving women struggle the most with vulnerability
💛 The four fears women shared with me TODAY that you’re probably silently carrying too
💛 How to reset your “picker” so you STOP choosing emotionally unavailable men
💛 How to date without fear, panic, or self-sabotage — starting today

This episode is not about tips. It’s about freedom. I’m going to help you understand your patterns with compassion, break the connection between love and fear, and give you a clear plan for moving forward — so you finally feel safe letting love into your life again. 

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High-achieving and still feeling lost in love? In this episode, Amanda Carroll unpacks why smart, successful women keep choosing the wrong men—and how to break the cycle fast. You’ll learn how the “sex & status” blueprint conditions you to confuse adrenaline with chemistry, why your nervous system panics around healthy men, and the exact steps to rewire attraction toward reciprocal love—a partnership built on safety, respect, and mutual growth. In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The real reason you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable men (it’s not your fault)
• How “sex and status” trains your body to chase chaos over connection
• What Reciprocal Love is—and how to recognize it on date one
• The 6 Roots of Real Love to spot in a healthy partner
• A simple nervous-system strategy to make peace feel like passion

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I want to be clear: I am heartbroken that Charlie Kirk was murdered. My heart breaks for his wife, for his two young children, and for everyone affected by this tragedy.

But I also want to be clear about something else: he should not be made a Christian martyr. Charlie Kirk built a platform that promoted racism, misogyny, and a relationship model that has harmed generations of women—telling us our highest calling is to stay home, have babies, and submit to our husbands.

He even said Taylor Swift should “submit to her husband.” I said: Absolutely not. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real damage of patriarchal relationships—for women, for men, and for everyone. I know the cost because I paid it. I was the stay-at-home, Proverbs 31 wife. And it didn’t protect me. It broke me. Now I’m calling out the systems that keep women silent, broke, and stuck—and I’m giving you the tools to break free.

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Welcome to the brand new High Value Woman’s Playbook — the no-BS guide to believing in love again. In this raw and unfiltered season premiere, Amanda Carroll shares why your love life doesn’t start in your bed — it starts in your head. If you’ve been stuck replaying “I’m too much” or “all men are trash” scripts, Amanda is going to teach you how to dismantle those mental blocks and rewire your thoughts for high-value love. Inside this episode:

• The 5C Thought Capture Method to reset your dating mindset.
• Why chemistry without consistency is chaos (and how to spot the difference).
• How to date like a CEO: slow to hire, fast to fire, never rehire.
• Where high-value men actually spend their time (hint: not in your DMs).
• How to turn yourself on daily so you attract from overflow instead of lack.

This isn’t another “just love yourself” pep talk. This is science + swagger to help you stop playing small, start setting boundaries, and finally meet the man who matches your ambition.

✨ Download your free guide: The High Value Woman’s Guide to Dating

📞 Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda today

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These are the exact questions my clients use to weed out liars, avoid time-wasters, and quickly identify emotionally available men — in the DMs, on FaceTime, or on the first date.  Grab it. It’ll change everything.

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She raised twins, built a business, and healed her body image—all as a single mom.
In this powerful conversation, Amanda sits down with Heidi Schauster—a successful entrepreneur, nutrition therapist, and author of Nurture: How to Raise Kids Who Love Food, Their Bodies, and Themselves. They dive into the truth that every mother needs to hear:
Your kids will inherit your body shame... unless you do this one thing first. This episode is for the mom who:

• Wants to break generational cycles of food guilt and body hate
• Is trying to raise confident kids in a culture obsessed with diets
• Feels like she’s already messed it up and needs a reset

Heidi shares what it means to raise kids who trust their bodies, why most nutrition advice is damaging, and how her own daughter called her out with the now-iconic line:
“Mom, we’re in the itty bitty titty committee. Own it.” If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and didn’t like what you saw—or worried that your child might do the same—this episode will change everything. She’s living proof you can be successful, self-made, and still show up with heart.

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👤 Meet the Guest: Heidi Schauster, MS, RDN, CEDRD-S Heidi is a nutrition therapist, speaker, and author specializing in eating disorder recovery and body trust. She’s also a proud single mom who built a thriving practice while raising twin daughters—and she’s here to help you break the cycle of shame and diet culture.

📚 Books by Heidi Schauster:

• Nurture: How to Raise Kids Who Love Food, Their Bodies, and Themselves
• Nourish: How to Heal Your Relationship with Food, Body and Self

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• Instagram: @heidischauster
• Substack: Nourishing Words

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These are the exact questions my clients use to weed out liars, avoid time-wasters, and quickly identify emotionally available men — in the DMs, on FaceTime, or on the first date.  Grab it. It’ll change everything.

❤️ Ready to stop chasing chaos and start attracting calm, committed love?
Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda Carroll.
👉  Follow Amanda on Instagram @theamandacarroll for daily high-value woman mindset and dating tips