Our most persistent behaviors are often invisible to us. In this episode, we explore the hidden mechanics of action and habit—how the mind shields us from the full pattern of cause and effect, and why self-reflection requires more than casual introspection.

Using the metaphor of the Hoodwink, this conversation reveals how unconscious protections can hide both the origins of our behavior and the comfort it still provides. Growth begins when we notice the cognitively slippery moments, magnify them like a craftsman with a microscope, and connect the dots we’ve been avoiding.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Self-reflection is often blocked by unconscious protective patterns
• Behavioral causes and effects are fragmented, requiring deliberate observation
• Removing the inner Hoodwink allows growth to replace blind repetition

💬 Featured Quotes

“The behavior you’re trying to analyze will be cognitively slippery.”  [00:00:13]
“You can’t really see all of it at once because the parts of your consciousness that are protecting you are hiding the cause-and-effect relationships.” [00:00:49]
“Over time, those closets or confined spaces will bring you comfort—long after the scolding stops.” [00:01:38]
“First and foremost, it’s important to understand that the hidden behavioral mechanic is natural.” [00:01:06]

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