There are many opportunities in The Hosting Journey to question and wonder if and how we could have done things differently. It is easy to become mired in feelings of shame and disappointment when things do not go accordingly to our perfect plan. I have recently been repeating the mantra, “Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda” and reliving what turned into an expensive and never-ending construction project that caused my reviews to come in lower than I had hoped. Listen and learn how to learn from your mistakes and most importantly, how to forgive yourself and all of the other people who are a part of your hosting journey.