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Trigger Warning: This episode discusses addiction, death, and grief. Please take care while listening.

In this deeply emotional episode, Lina and Valentina sit down with Amber to have a conversation that doesn’t get talked about enough: what it’s like to love someone and co-parent with someone who struggles with addiction—and what happens when they don’t survive it.

Both guests are now parenting after the loss of an ex-partner to substance abuse. Together, they reflect on:

• Loving someone in active addiction
• The emotional complexity of grieving someone who caused pain but was still loved
• How they speak to their children about their fathers
• The stigma that follows addiction-related deaths
• What healing has looked like for them, and where they are today

This is a raw and honest episode that offers comfort, perspective, and solidarity for anyone who’s navigated addiction, grief, or solo parenting after loss.

🕊️ This one is for anyone who’s lost someone to addiction and is left to pick up the pieces with love and grace.

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In this episode, Valentina and Lina get honest about marriage and modern relationships, and why love isn’t always pretty...or easy. They share how they met their partners, what keeps them together, and what almost drove them apart. Spoiler: it’s not always fairy tale vibes.

There are some hot takes, including that instant gratification culture is ruining modern relationships and the myth that relationships should be “effortless”. They unpack why so many couples throw in the towel too soon and why sticking it out can actually be the most rewarding choice of all.

If you've ever questioned your relationship, struggled in your marriage, or just want to hear two besties talk honestly about what it takes to make love last, this episode is for you.

Disclaimer: We want to be very clear: when we talk about sticking it out in a marriage, we are not referring to situations involving domestic violence, emotional abuse, or unsafe dynamics. No one should ever feel obligated to stay in a harmful relationship. Your safety and well-being come first, always. If you are in an unsafe situation, please seek support from a trusted resource or professional.

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Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of war, violence, antisemitism, and the events of October 7th. Please listen with care.

In this powerful episode of Can I Be Honest, we sit down with Lielle, an Israeli-American who shares her personal story of living in Israel, volunteering during the Israel-Hamas conflict, and navigating her Jewish identity in the wake of October 7th. We talk candidly about the Israel-Gaza war, the impact of antisemitism, and what it’s like to hold dual identities as both Israeli and American.

Lielle gives us an insider’s perspective on what the mainstream media doesn’t show, the emotional toll of war, and the hope she still holds for peace. Whether you’re looking to understand more about the conflict in Israel and Gaza, want to explore Jewish faith and culture, or are curious about the lived experiences of Israeli-Americans, this honest conversation invites empathy, nuance, and deeper listening.

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Money conversations don’t have to be boring — or stressful. In this candid episode, we sit down with personal finance coach Kim Eberbach to unpack how the way we grew up shaped our money mindset (for better or worse), and how those patterns show up in our marriages today. Kim is the owner of WiseHer Wealth and is dedicated to building women’s financial wellbeing. 

We dive into why talking about finances with your partner can feel so hard (and how to make it easier), how to break free from limiting money habits, and simple, practical steps women can take to start building real wealth.

If you've ever struggled with money anxiety, avoiding hard financial conversations, or feeling stuck when it comes to saving and investing, this candid money chat is for you.

Topics we cover:
 • How your parents' relationship with money shaped your own
 • How financial mindsets play out in marriage and partnerships
 • How to have healthier money conversations with your partner
 • Wealth-building tips for women that actually feel doable
 • Why healing your money story is key to long-term financial freedom

Get ready to rethink how you view money — and start building the financial future you deserve.

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of home birth with a raw, real, and unfiltered conversation. Our guest Janelle shares her full home birth story — from her decision to skip the hospital to the emotional (and hilarious) moments that unfolded during her natural birth experience at home. 🏡 🍼

We’re asking all the hard questions:
➡️ How do you prepare for a home birth?
➡️ What if something "goes wrong"?
➡️ What role does a midwife really play?
➡️ What would she change if she were going to do all over again?
➡️ What’s the real deal with unmedicated birth pain?
➡️ What are the unexpected pros and cons of home birth?

Whether you're planning your own home birth, curious about giving birth at home, or just love a good birth story, you’re going to love this honest, empowering convo!

If you’ve ever wondered if a home birth experience is magical, messy, or somewhere in between — this episode is for you. ✨

Janelle is a social media strategist and owns Silver Moon Digital Marketing. 

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In this first episode of Can I Be Honest, we skip the polite chit-chat and dive straight into the good stuff. Get to know us as hosts and human beings in this first episode!