"When God calls you to show up, he does not expect you to come with everything intact. He's not waiting for you to be perfect. If you were perfect, you wouldn't need him. You grow while you go, and eventually the reward outweighs the fear." —Kishea Boyd

Some clarity cannot be unseen. When God reveals direction, returning to comfort starts to feel heavier than the risk of moving forward. Staying in limbo slowly drains momentum, purpose, and trust.

In this conversation, Keisha addresses those who are not exploring faith casually but are wrestling with a specific call they have already acknowledged. She shares how obedience unfolds through movement, why fear does not disqualify us, and how delay quietly shifts what we were meant to steward.

Topics include:

• The hidden cost of waiting too long

• Why God does not require us to arrive whole

• How fear distorts timing and identity

• The danger of shrinking after hearing no

• Understanding assignment and alignment

• Why obedience is built on trust, not certainty

• When it is time to stop revisiting the same question

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Episode Highlights:

02:25 Facing Resistance– Excuses, Discernment, & Delays

03:15 Obedience & The Cost of Waiting

04:00 Your Unique Calling– Domino Effect

04:35 Overcoming Fear & Accusation– Walking in Faith

06:48 Keep Moving Forward in Obedience

Resources:

• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"The old version of you simply doesn't fit anymore, like shoes that are too small. You can keep wearing them and walking around uncomfortable if you want to, or you can size up and learn how to walk again." —Kishea Boyd

We reach a point where success looks fine on the outside but feels heavy on the inside. Old labels, safe environments, and expectations start to clash with what God is stirring beneath the surface. This message speaks to the tension of outgrowing who we used to be.

Keisha walks through the spiritual and emotional work of releasing identities that no longer align with God's purpose. Her insight comes from personal surrender, deep reflection, and learning when to let go without guilt.

Explore the episode and reflect on:

• Identity beyond titles like mother, wife, or friend

• Why growth often feels like loss before clarity arrives

• The fear and doubt that surface when God calls us forward

• Releasing relationships that cannot come with us

• How obedience sharpens spiritual direction

• Using silence, journaling, and prayer to realign purpose

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Episode Highlights:

02:10 The Cost of People-Pleasing and Losing Your Voice

03:30 Letting Go of the Old Self: Faith, Change & Unfamiliar Territory

05:10 Embracing Change: Permission to Grow and Move

07:10 Guided Journaling Exercise: Find Your Next Step

08:10 Embracing Your God-Given Identity

Resources:

• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"If obedience feels uncomfortable, that does not mean you hear God wrong. biblical peace is not comfort. Biblical peace is alignment, and sometimes alignment stretches you before it settles you. " —Kishea Boyd

Life with God does not always feel calm or safe. Many of us stay stuck because we believe peace should feel easy, and when it does not, we assume something is wrong. This conversation reframes discomfort as a sign of alignment, not failure, and names the quiet fear that keeps us circling the same decisions.

In this episode, Keisha draws from her own spiritual formation to unpack how obedience often disrupts comfort before it brings clarity. She explains how doubt, resistance, and hesitation show up differently across seasons, yet point to the same invitation to grow.

Press play and sit with the questions that matter right now. We explore:

• Why biblical peace is about alignment, not comfort

• How spiritual discomfort can signal growth instead of disobedience

• The difference between resistance and rebellion

• Why doubt often shows up right before a breakthrough

• Recognizing fear-based hesitation versus divine warning

• Letting go of people pleasing during identity shifts

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Episode Highlights:

01:10 Why Obedience Feels Uncomfortable

03:20 Overcoming Resistance in Growth

06:05 Breaking the Lie

07:05 Questions for Reflection

Resources:

Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"You are never going to feel ready in the flesh. Never. There will always be one more class, one more video, one more training, one more certification. Just one more thing you think you may need. That's not wisdom, that's fear dressed up as responsibility. God confirms before you feel ready." —Kishea Boyd

Growth rarely feels clean when purpose starts knocking. Staying in the same place can feel safer than moving forward, even when peace has already left the room. That tension is not failure. It is a signal.

Keisha shares personal stories from life transitions, including retirement and identity shifts, revealing how fear shows up when destiny becomes real and how delay stretches the journey without canceling the call.

Press play for a steady, faith-rooted conversation that names what fear hides and clarifies what alignment actually requires.

• Why resistance to change is not a lack of faith

• How limiting beliefs form from past hesitation and failure

• The difference between physical readiness and spiritual obedience

• What fear signals when purpose is getting close

• Finding peace through alignment instead of comfort

• The Crystal and Joy archetypes and what season they reveal

• Recognizing divine invitations through stillness and 2–3 AM wake-ups

• Asking heaven how identity is seen and named

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Episode Highlights:

02:37 Understanding the Calling and Mindset 05:47 Personal Stories and Encouragement 09:39 The Role of Fear and Seeking Clarity 11:17 There is No Pressure, Only Alignment

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• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"Your story does not end where the pain began. Your identity is not determined by who showed up or who didn't. Your identity is determined by the God who has been present in every chapter." —Kishea Boyd

There are moments when the people meant to guide us fall short, and the questions about identity grow louder. The search for where we belong does not disappear with age or faith. It simply waits for truth to meet us where we are.

In this episode, Keisha shares the story of discovering her biological father as a teenager and realizing that human answers were never meant to carry the full weight of identity. That journey led to a deeper dependence on God and shaped the work she now carries for women seeking healing, alignment, and spiritual clarity.

Press play for a grounded, faith-centered conversation that reminds us where identity is truly formed and why no story is finished yet.

In this episode:

Discovering identity beyond father wounds God's presence in identity discovery Redemption and healing through Jesus The vision behind The Locate Journey for women Spiritual alignment, accountability, and sisterhood Stepping out of hiding and embracing purpose

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Episode Highlights:

01:15 Speaking to the Woman Who Is Tired but Still Trying 04:55 My Identity Shift Began at 14 08:40 Your Pain Is Not the End of Your Story 12:39 Introducing the Locate Journey 17:10 Your Yes Will Shift Generations 21:00 Breaking Fear, Shame & Delay 26:20 Nothing About Your Story Is Wasted

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• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph, but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"Healing was very messy but beautiful at the same time, because God healed my heart in the process of it." —Jennifer Jeannette

Some wounds sit quietly in the heart until life makes them impossible to ignore. Many women carry old patterns from childhood without realizing how deeply those stories shaped their identity. This episode opens space for honest conversations about healing, worth, and the slow work of becoming whole again.

Healed Girls Love Founder Jennifer Jeannette shares her journey from rejection, abandonment, and reversed family roles to discovering the Father's love and learning how to build a life rooted in truth. Her story shows how early wounds can shape relationships, choices, and self-belief until real healing begins.

Press play for a heart-shaking reminder that God still meets women in the middle of their mess and leads them into purpose.

Key topics covered: • Mother wounds and father wounds • Childhood rejection and identity struggles • Patterns of performance, chasing love, and self-blame • Healing through inner work and faith • Breaking silent agreements formed in childhood • How God revealed unconditional love • The messy parts of healing nobody talks about • Purpose, calling, and restoration for women

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Episode Highlights:

02:33 Meet Jennifer: Mother Wounds and Father Wounds 05:47 Childhood Role Reversal 08:42 What Love Finally Felt Like 09:59 The Real Healing Process: Messy, Raw, and Layered 14:37 Identity Shift: From Chasing Love to Becoming Love 16:23 Locate Cohort Launching Soon!

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Meet Jennifer:

Jennifer Jeannette is a minister, speaker, author, singer, songwriter, and jewelry designer. She is passionate about teaching women how to heal their hearts and fill them with love, while also empowering them to walk boldly in their God-given purpose. Jennifer is the founder of the brand and ministry Healed Girls Love.

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"Everybody loves to talk about the butterfly, but they skip the part that actually matters. The metamorphosis process is not cute. It's not quick, and is definitely not comfortable." —Kishea Boyd

Some seasons feel quiet on the outside while everything inside us shakes loose. We carry questions about identity, purpose, and why transformation can feel so heavy. These moments ask us to pause long enough to notice what God is forming beneath the surface.

Kishea shares how her own hidden season became a turning point. Her walk through loss, shifting relationships, prophetic mentorship, and deep inner work shaped the identity midwife she is today and clarified her call to help women rise into who heaven already knows they are.

Press play and step into a conversation that names the stretching, honors the cocoon, and reminds us that becoming is a holy work.

In this episode we cover: • The four prophetic stages of butterfly transformation • Why hidden seasons feel lonely but carry necessary rebuilding • How God dissolves false identity and rewrites truth • What the waiting room reveals about calling and timing • Kishea's story of grief, healing, and spiritual reformation • The power of prophetic covering and community • A clarion call for women ready to step out of hiding

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Episode Highlights:

01:14 From Brokenness to Butterflies 03:02 The Butterfly Blueprint— The Egg Phase 05:31 The Caterpillar Phase 06:38 The Chrysalis Phase 08:20 The Butterfly Emerges 11:10 How Pain Led to Purpose 14:43 Final Challenge: Respond, Don't Wait

Resources:

• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph, but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"Your waiting room was not punishment; it was preparation." —Kishea Boyd

Some seasons stretch you so deeply that you start to wonder if the silence means you're stuck. But sometimes the quiet space is where God builds the kind of strength you can't see yet. There's a shift waiting for you on the other side of obedience, and it's closer than you think.

In this episode, Kishea shares how God interrupted her ordinary day with an unexpected vision of a waiting room, revealing that women weren't moving forward because no one was calling them forth. Her own journey through insecurity, silence, and self-doubt became the foundation of her calling as the Identity Midwife, guiding women into spiritual metamorphosis.

In this episode, you'll hear Kishea break down what it means to step out of your cocoon, recognize your hidden purpose, respond to God's call, and emerge as the woman you were always meant to be while learning how your obedience can unlock someone else's breakthrough.

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Episode Highlights:

Episode Highlights: 01:38 The Vision: The Waiting Room 03:42 Answering the Call 06:05 The Butterfly Work 08:50 Not Punishment, Preparation 12:51 Move Now, Not Later

Resources:

• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph, but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"Everyone has an assignment. There's a group of people that you are assigned to, and they will not move until they hear your voice." —Kishea Boyd

There comes a moment when the noise fades, and what's left staring back at you isn't the woman you've been, but the one you were meant to become. It's not dramatic or picture-perfect. It's the quiet kind of change that happens when you finally see yourself through truth instead of trauma, and realize the old you no longer fits.

For Kishea, that moment came unexpectedly in front of a mirror. Years of serving, showing up, and shrinking faded as she saw a new reflection staring back. That moment birthed a calling to help women rediscover who they are and walk boldly in their purpose without apology or delay.

In this episode, Kishea shares how that mirror moment changed her life forever, the power of purpose coaching, how hidden seasons refine us, and why dominion starts with seeing yourself clearly.

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Episode Highlights:

00:54 The Mirror Moment: Seeing a New Me 04:35 Called to Free Other Women 06:03 The Purpose Coach Who Pushed the Shift 08:00 Stepping Into Leadership and Integrity 13:24 Dominion 16:12 Show Up for Yourself

Resources:

• Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph, but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.

"He's curating something personal between you and Him, so nobody else can take the credit." —Kishea Boyd

There's a difference between just getting through the day and waking up certain we're living for something that matters. All of us, at certain point in our lives, have reached a point where we wonder if there's more we're meant to do, a purpose only we can fulfill.

After retiring from the military, Kishea found herself searching for direction, far from any clear endpoint. Each new job and conversation nudged her closer to what resonated most deeply: a sense of purpose designed just for her.

Listen as this episode walks through finding meaning after big transitions, the role of faith and wise mentors, embracing unique talents, and practical ways to see purpose in each season, and how to spot the moments that can shape your path forward.

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Episode Highlights:

01:24 Life After Retirement 03:14 Exploring New Careers 05:18 Discovering a Purpose Coach 07:04 Embracing the Prophetic 11:41 SHAPED and Purpose 17:15 "Well Done"

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Coaching Service: https://www.shapedonpurpose.com/services

Meet Your Host:

Kishea Boyd is a woman whose journey began not with triumph, but with a search for identity, purpose, and the heart of God in every season. After serving over 20 years in the U.S. Coast Guard, where she honed resilience and leadership, she found her true strength not in uniform, but in faith. Rededicating her life to Christ in 1999 marked a turning point, leading her into ministry, mentorship, and a deeper understanding of who she was called to be. Through the joys of family life with her husband, Quinton, and their son, Kameron, and through the challenges that shaped her, Kishea has learned that God's love never lets go. Today, she lives to help others rediscover identity, healing, and purpose through Him.