Overcoming Betrayal: The Path to Healing and Transformation with Dr. Debi Silber

In this episode, Dr. Silber, a pioneering expert in performance and behavior transformation, shares her journey of becoming a post-betrayal transformation specialist after personal experiences of betrayal.

She explains the five stages of healing from betrayal, the impact of unhealed trauma on physical and mental health, and how individuals can move beyond their hurt to rebuild themselves.

Dr. Silber also delves into her work with both betrayed and betrayer clients, highlighting the transformative potential for both parties. Additionally, she discusses the importance of addressing the root beliefs that drive behaviors and how performance improvement in organizations can be tied to overcoming betrayal.

Dr. Silber's story of turning her trauma into a mission to help others is both inspiring and informative, providing valuable insights for anyone dealing with the aftermath of betrayal.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Silber and Her Journey

01:18 Personal Betrayal and the Path to Healing

02:37 Discoveries in Betrayal and Healing

06:50 Stages of Healing from Betrayal

12:39 Moving Beyond Stage Three

18:02 Rebuilding and Transformation

23:32 Rebuilding After Destruction

24:18 Rethinking Relationships and Betrayal

25:01 The Decision to Help Others

26:21 The Impact of Betrayal on Health

29:08 Transforming Habits and Beliefs

31:06 Betrayal in the Workplace

36:04 Supporting Betrayers and the Betrayed

41:31 Personal Reflections and Future Plans

Founder, The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute

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Host of The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast

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Understanding Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Kennedy

In this insightful interview, Dr. Kennedy, a board-certified sex therapist with a PhD in clinical sexology, discusses her commitment to dismantling taboos around sexual health and pleasure.

She shares her journey and the values that drive her work, touching on the common theme of people feeling 'not enough' due to societal pressures and comparison culture.

Dr. Kennedy also introduces her 'Pleasure Project' and 'Pleasure Circle,' aimed at helping women explore their sexuality and improve their intimate lives. The conversation covers the impact of social media, the importance of intimacy in long-term relationships, and the challenges of navigating sexual identity and desires.

Dr. Kennedy emphasizes the need for open communication, self-exploration, and the importance of balancing professional and personal life for mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Kennedy

00:51 Formative Years and Career Journey

02:38 The Core Theme of Self-Worth

03:37 Impact of Social Media and Culture

05:40 Addressing Feelings of Inadequacy

09:39 The Pleasure Circle Program

14:11 Sexuality and Intimacy in Relationships

20:57 Navigating Empty Nesting

29:51 Addressing Personal Deterrents and Stimulators

30:27 Sexual Preferences and Communication

35:59 The Impact of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

42:08 Navigating Sexual Identity and Pleasure

51:21 Balancing Professional and Personal Wellbeing

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Exploring Dynamic Sexuality and Empathy with Pepper Kat

In this episode of The Intimacy Inquiry podcast, Pepper Kat, a dynamic sexuality advocate and storyteller, shares her journey from journalism to the adult entertainment industry.

With a warm and inclusive approach, Pepper discusses overcoming societal taboos, the empowering aspects of platforms like OnlyFans, and the importance of sex work in human understanding and empathy.

She also dives into her innovative projects like the Dream Girl Chronicles and the Create Your Dream Girl experience. Through candid conversations, Pepper inspires listeners to embrace their uniqueness and foster a deeper understanding of their sexuality.

00:00 Introduction to Pepper Kat

00:43 Pepper Kat's Journey: From Journalism to Adult Entertainment

02:15 Breaking Taboos: Discussing Sexuality and Stigma

04:07 Transitioning Careers: Embracing Adult Content Creation

05:56 Empowerment and Control in the Adult Industry

07:57 The Evolution of Porn and Its Impact

16:04 Creating Authentic Content: The Role of Indie Porn

17:49 The Spicy Spectrum Podcast: Exploring Human Desires

22:26 Creating a Safe Space for Fantasies

23:04 The Concept of Dream Girl Chronicles

23:55 Innovative Storytelling in Adult Content

25:33 Audience Engagement and Feedback

27:45 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

28:08 Understanding and Empathy in Interactions

31:42 Addressing Loneliness and Social Challenges

34:12 Exploring Sexuality and Authenticity

36:33 Future Aspirations and Personal Wellbeing

40:15 Travel Dreams and Final Thoughts

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Redefining Sexual Expression: A Conversation with Alexa Creed

In this episode, we sit down with Alexa Creed, a dynamic adult performer and content creator renowned for her raw authenticity and innovative storytelling.

Alexa discusses her journey from a double-degree holder in computer science and cryptography to a celebrated figure in the adult industry. She shares personal anecdotes from her happy childhood, supported by open-minded parents, which laid the foundation for her explorative and non-judgmental approach towards sexuality.

Alexa also delves into her deep commitment to inclusivity, body positivity, and fostering genuine connections through her work. She talks about the challenges and rewards of maintaining a balance between her professional persona and personal life, her thoughts on societal stigmas around sex, and her role in encouraging open dialogues about desire and vulnerability.

The conversation also touches upon broader societal issues such as empathy, parenting, and the importance of mental well-being, making it a profound exploration of what it means to experience and express desire authentically.

00:00 Introduction to Alexa Creed

01:04 Early Life and Formative Years

02:18 Journey into the Adult Industry

04:24 Professionalism in the Adult Industry

06:09 Business Approach and Creativity

10:25 Empowering Vulnerability in Men

16:19 Stigma and Society's View on Sexuality

24:44 The Role of Education and Communication

30:21 Men's Responsibility in Addressing Abuse

31:10 The Influence of the Tate Brothers

32:20 The Role of Empathy in Society

33:55 The Concept of a Unified World

34:38 Challenges of Entering Politics

38:07 Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance

41:25 Balancing Onscreen Persona and Personal Identity

45:41 Staying Innovative in the Adult Industry

50:11 Living in the Present

52:09 Finding Joy in Simple Things

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Navigating Sexual Identity and Mental Health: Insights from Brandon Simpson

In this episode, we welcome Brandon Simpson, a certified sex addiction therapist specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues, sexual behavior, and mental health.

Brandon, who holds a Master's in Clinical Psychology and works at the Novus Mindful Life Institute in California, shares his journey from New York to Los Angeles and his career transition from aspiring high school biology teacher to therapist. He discusses the importance of non-judgmental, sex-positive therapy, addressing societal expectations, sexual identity, and compulsive behaviors.

Brandon provides insights into the complexities of trauma, addictions, and the societal shame around sex and kinks. He emphasizes empathy, understanding, and the need for a balanced approach to mental health. The conversation also delves into personal coping mechanisms, the role of nature in his wellbeing, and the importance of curiosity in fostering societal empathy.

00:00 Introduction to Brandon Simpson

01:19 Brandon's Early Life and Move to California

02:45 Life in Los Angeles

04:44 Career Path and Shift to Therapy

07:12 Challenges and Rewards of Therapy

09:29 Impact of Political Climate on Therapy

12:01 Understanding Client Needs and Issues

13:56 Early Exposure to Porn and Its Effects

19:25 Societal Expectations and LGBTQ+ Issues

21:32 Dating Apps and Modern Relationships

26:31 Addressing Sex and Porn Addiction

29:27 The Impact of Media on Stress Relief

30:02 Initial Steps Towards Sobriety

31:04 Challenges of Developing a Healthy Relationship with Sex

32:24 Rewiring the Brain's Pleasure Pathways

35:52 Understanding and Accepting Sexual Desires

42:55 Addressing Trauma and Its Effects

49:33 Maintaining Mental Health as a Therapist

53:44 Finding Personal Joy and Happiness

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Cultural Influences on Trauma Therapy: Insights from Janet Bayramyan

This episode features a conversation with Janet Held, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma therapy, blending her rich cultural heritage of Russian, Armenian, and American influences.

Janet discusses the impact of culture on mental health and trauma therapy, her therapeutic approach, and her expertise in techniques like EMDR and Brain Spotting. She also explores the experiences that led her to this field, the influence of social media and pornography on mental health, and the importance of fostering self-love and intimacy in therapeutic practices.

The discussion concludes with insights on overcoming addiction, especially regarding online content, and the significance of maintaining personal mental wellness as a therapist.

00:00 Introduction to Our Guest: Janet Bayramyan

01:30 Janet's Personal Journey into Trauma Therapy

07:19 Understanding EMDR and Brainspotting

16:50 The Impact of Pornography on Mental Health

31:48 Navigating Social Media and Technology's Influence

37:23 The Importance of Self-Love and Future Aspirations

42:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Breaking Barriers: A Deep Dive into Sexual Health with Dr. Danae Maragouthakis

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Danae Maragouthakis, a medical doctor with over 20 years of experience in public health and sexual wellness.

Dr. Maragouthakis shares her remarkable journey from the U.S. to co-founding Yoxly, a venture providing remote sexual health services aimed at improving accessibility, privacy, and convenience. This episode covers a wide range of topics including the importance of empathy in healthcare, overcoming barriers to sexual health services, and the role of social media in sexual education.

Dr. Maragouthakis also discusses the impact of pornography on sexual expectations, the rising rates of STIs, and the importance of being proactive about sexual health.

Tune in to learn how Yoxly is working to normalize and de-stigmatize conversations around sexual wellness while providing personalized care and education.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:52 Danae's Background and Journey to the UK

06:23 The Role of Empathy in Healthcare

10:39 Yoxly: Revolutionizing Sexual Health Services

12:09 The Importance of Regular Sexual Health Checkups

19:40 The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Health

24:16 Common Questions and Concerns on Sexual Health

26:21 The Importance of Expert Communication

27:00 Building a Supportive Community

27:16 The Reluctance to Discuss Sexual Health

29:36 The Disconnect Between Knowledge and Action

30:36 Challenges in Accessing Sexual Health Services

32:22 Rising STI Rates Across Generations

34:19 The Role of Social Media in Sexual Health Education

39:57 Maintaining Personal Well-being

43:53 Personalized Medicine and Sexual Wellness

49:31 Concluding Thoughts and Future Hopes

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Navigating Pornography and Relationships: Insights from Life Coach Jolene Winn

In this episode, certified life coach Jolene Winn, who hosts the Porn Addict's Wife Podcast, discusses her journey as the wife of a former porn addict and her mission to help women navigate complex topics such as sex, sexuality, and the impact of pornography on relationships.

Jolene shares her personal experiences growing up with strong religious values, her husband's struggle with pornography, and how their relationship has evolved. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, open communication, and personal growth in overcoming porn addiction. Jolene also explores how parents can address pornography with their children and her new initiative, Porn-Free World, aimed at creating resources for couples and families.

The discussion highlights the need for compassion, self-awareness, and a shift from judgment to understanding in dealing with pornography's impact on society.

00:00 Introduction to Jolene Winn and Her Mission

01:28 Jolene's Early Life and Influences

05:39 Defining and Understanding Pornography

09:10 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships

10:49 Jolene's Personal Journey and Life Coaching

15:02 Challenges of Discussing Pornography Addiction

23:07 Intimacy vs. Sexuality

25:18 Addressing Pornography with the Younger Generation

27:31 Setting Boundaries and Open Communication

27:47 Talking to Kids About Pornography

28:39 Personal Experiences and Vulnerability

30:02 Addiction and Recovery

30:43 Moral Perspectives on Pornography

34:22 Impact on Relationships

36:04 Faith and Compassion

38:15 Judgment and Social Media

41:28 Creating a Safe Space for Discussion

43:17 Advice for Those Struggling

45:16 Sex Education and Parental Responsibility

47:02 Homeschooling and Family Life

48:24 Personal Joy and Wellbeing

50:21 Future Plans and Conclusion

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Embracing Your Body: A Conversation with Dr. Ashley Zimmerman

The amazing Dr. Ashley Zimmerman shares her journey from self-loathing to self-love, focusing on her work as a pelvic health specialist, sexuality counselor, and doula.

She details her childhood experiences, the struggles with body image, and the impact of inadequate sexual education. As a healthcare provider, Dr. Ashley emphasizes the importance of self-exploration and proper body education to dismantle societal taboos.

The conversation also delves into the effects of social media, dating apps, and pornography on sexual health and relationships, and Dr. Ashley’s personalized approach to helping people feel empowered and free within their bodies.

The episode closes with a discussion on self-care practices and the importance of seeking professional support for mental and physical well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Ashley Zimmerman

01:00 Formative Years and Early Experiences

02:04 Challenges and Discoveries in Sexual Health

03:51 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery

17:02 The Role of a Doula

20:05 Navigating Life Transitions

27:30 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

49:52 Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance

52:57 Taking Responsibility for Self-Acceptance

53:21 Struggles with Body Image

56:01 The Role of Therapy and Self-Belief

56:20 The Power of Positive Self-Talk

58:00 Overcoming Deep-Rooted Beliefs

59:59 Addressing Sexual Taboos and Misconceptions

01:03:06 The Importance of Physical Movement

01:06:29 Generational Trauma and Healing

01:09:52 Navigating Social Judgment and Optimism

01:15:04 The Impact of Social Media and Dating Apps

01:25:48 The Influence of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

01:33:52 Personal Growth and Future Goals

01:38:38 Maintaining Mental and Physical Wellbeing

01:42:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Life and the Adult Entertainment Industry: Tera Winters' Story

In this episode, we dive into the life and career of Tera Winters, an adult model and performer who once went by the name Kimber Veils.

Tera shares her journey from working in a Chinese restaurant and briefly wanting to be a gas station attendant, to becoming an adult entertainer. She discusses her start as a stripper at 18 , her initial nervousness transitioning into comfort with her nakedness, and an unexpected diagnosis of Graves' disease which temporarily halted her career.

Tera talks about her experience re-entering the adult industry as Tera Winters, dealing with work dynamics, the impact of OnlyFans, the physical toll of the job, and the general support within the industry.

She also touches on her personal interests, like drawing and her love for her dog, providing an intimate and respectful look into her life both in and out of the spotlight.

00:00 Introduction to Tera Winters' Journey

00:57 Early Career and Personal Challenges

01:42 Transition to the Adult Industry

03:36 Experiences in the Porn Industry

06:15 The Reality of Filming Adult Content

11:06 Navigating the Industry and Personal Life

21:50 Impact of Free Content and OnlyFans

27:15 Viewer Perceptions and Industry Insights

39:25 The Business of Content Creation

39:47 Coping with Personal Loss

40:53 Rebuilding and Career Choices

41:21 Exit Strategies and Industry Pressures

43:23 Body Image and Industry Expectations

48:23 Tattoo Stories and Artistic Aspirations

54:58 The Joy of Pets

58:29 Finding Joy in Work and Art

01:04:12 Being Authentic On and Off Camera