The Intimacy Inquiry

Exploring Pleasure and Sexuality with Suzannah Weiss

In this revealing conversation, Suzannah Weiss, a certified sex educator, sex and love coach, and writer, discusses her journey from dealing with teenage insecurities and body image issues to becoming an advocate for feminist sexuality and ethical non-monogamy.

She shares insights from her books 'Subjectified' and 'Eve's Blessing,' and her experiences with psychedelics, orgasmic birth, and OnlyFans. Suzannah emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, redefining pleasure, and the potential of psychedelics in sexual healing.

The discussion also touches on societal norms around sexuality, the impact of culture on sexual behavior, and the joys of living a life that balances work and personal well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Suzannah Weiss

00:58 Formative Years and Early Influences

02:47 Journey to Sexual Confidence

04:28 Cultural Influences on Sexuality

07:52 Professional Path and Achievements

13:14 Exploring Sexual Desires and Communication

18:22 Redefining Pleasure and Sensuality

26:49 Ethical Non-Monogamy

27:27 Exploring Non-Monogamy in Relationships

29:37 Are Humans Naturally Monogamous?

34:02 The Role of Psychedelics in Personal Growth

41:55 The Concept of Orgasmic Birth

46:55 Embracing Sexuality and Self-Expression

53:41 Future Aspirations and Personal Growth

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Creating Inclusive Wellness Spaces: A Conversation with Dr. Syd Young

Dr. Syd Young, founder of Out Wellness in Austin, Texas, discusses the importance of creating inclusive, queer, and trans-focused wellness spaces. They share their personal journey from being a competitive tennis player to becoming a physical therapist and advocate for trans rights.

Dr. Young elaborates on the challenges faced by marginalized groups in traditional healthcare environments and the transformative mission behind Out Wellness. The interview covers topics including the impact of body image in sports, societal biases against larger bodies, and the significance of providing safe, supportive communities. Dr. Young also shares insights into the physical and emotional challenges trans individuals face, especially during hormone treatment and post-surgery, and emphasizes the importance of holistic well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Syd Young and Out Wellness

00:35 Formative Years and Tennis Journey

01:35 Body Image and College Experience

03:41 Serena Williams and Body Size Stigma

04:57 Personal Experiences with Weight and Health

10:35 The Biggest Loser and Societal Assumptions

16:16 Founding Out Wellness

18:34 Creating a Safe Space for All

20:36 Holistic Wellness Approach

28:35 Personal Fitness Journey

31:52 Emotional Immaturity and Life Skills

32:49 The Intensity of College Sports

33:32 Body Image and College Recruitment

35:47 Discrimination and Safety Concerns

37:08 Challenges in Starting a Nonprofit

38:54 Creating a Safe and Inclusive Space

43:14 Transphobia and Media Representation

54:42 Toxic Masculinity in Sports

59:28 Nourishing Mental Wellbeing

01:01:48 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

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Navigating Intimacy and Sex Therapy with Keri Green

In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist, Keri Green, discusses her journey into sex therapy, drawing from over 20 years of experience. She shares personal stories, details her motivation for entering the field, and emphasizes the importance of communication and self-care.

Keri explores topics like mismatched sexual desire among couples, the impact of early sexual experiences, and the societal taboo surrounding discussions about sex. She provides insights into ethical non-monogamy, the potential issues of sex and porn addiction, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. Throughout, Keri highlights the importance of being open, empathetic, and the need for continuous exploration and communication in one's sexual journey.

00:00 Introduction to Keri Green

00:46 Early Life and Formative Years

04:53 Journey into Sex Therapy

08:09 Challenges in Discussing Sexuality

13:41 Mismatched Desire in Relationships

26:26 Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy

29:50 Revitalizing Long-Term Relationships

30:12 The Power of Small Changes

31:05 Role Play and Novelty in the Bedroom

32:12 Embracing Playfulness and Fun

33:46 Exploring Personal Comfort Zones

35:13 The Importance of Sexual Education

38:59 Navigating Porn and Sex Addiction

47:03 Therapist Self-Care and Future Plans

51:19 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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Exploring Heart-Centered Healing and Divine Connection with Monica Bermudez

In this episode, Monica Bermudez, a heart-centered spiritual coach and energy healer, shares her transformational journey and the intricacies of her work through Sacred Heart Awakenings.

Focusing on helping empathic women and high-achievers reclaim their inner power, Monica discusses quantum energy healing, intuitive insight, and ancient wisdom as tools for overcoming grief and emotional blocks.

Delving into her teenage years and personal awakening, she outlines the importance of self-love, the integration of divine feminine energy, and the profound healing roles of nature and intimacy. The conversation further explores the protective measures needed when opening up channels and how science is catching up to these ancient practices.

Monica also highlights the importance of authenticity and sovereignty in one's spiritual journey.

00:00 Introduction to Monica Bermudez

01:13 Monica's Teenage Years and Early Struggles

03:08 Discovering Mysticism and Psychic Abilities

04:51 Science and Spirituality: Bridging the Gap

06:19 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing

12:05 Embracing Sacred Heart Awakening

21:54 Healing Ancestral Trauma and Intimacy

29:39 The Power of Divine Feminine Energy

33:08 Understanding Clairaudience and Empowerment

34:15 Managing Overwhelm and Protection Techniques

37:11 The Importance of Discernment and Protection

40:58 Discovering and Embracing Your Soul Purpose

47:35 The Power of Nature and Grounding

55:30 Intimacy, Pleasure, and Self-Understanding

59:02 Exciting Future Plans and Personal Insights

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Navigating Intimacy and Emotional Healing with Wendi Dumbroff

In this episode, licensed professional counselor Wendi Dumbroff discusses her journey and commitment to helping individuals and couples with their intimacy and communication issues. She emphasizes the importance of creating a non-judgmental, safe environment for emotional healing.

Wendi shares insights on the pervasive impact of shame on sexual well-being and highlights the significance of normalizing open conversations about desires and fantasies in relationships. Additionally, she discusses how redefining sex, understanding grief, and overcoming societal norms can foster healthier intimate connections. Wendi also touches on the growing interest in non-monogamy and the unique challenges it presents. Throughout the conversation, Wendi reinforces the value of mindfulness, self-care, and continuous learning in her practice.

00:00 Introduction to Wendi Dumbroff

00:57 Early Life and Formative Years

02:44 Body Image and Societal Pressures

04:14 Impact of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

06:41 Family Dynamics and Sexual Issues

09:42 Wendi's Journey to Becoming a Therapist

12:38 Self-Care and Mindfulness in Therapy

17:54 Misconceptions About Sex Therapy

20:43 Addressing Shame and Guilt in Sexuality

29:56 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

31:54 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Traditional Sex

32:16 The Importance of Affectionate Touch

32:54 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

33:02 The Role of Daily Interactions in Sexual Relationships

34:00 Addressing Relationship Issues Before Sexual Problems

35:12 Understanding Grief and Its Impact on Intimacy

39:08 Reconnecting After Children Leave Home

43:16 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations

50:53 Navigating Non-Monogamy and Open Relationships

55:14 The Joys and Challenges of Parenthood

57:07 Looking Forward: Hopes and Plans for the Future

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From Trauma to Triumph: Anu Verma's Journey of Resilience and Healing

In this episode, Anu Verma, founder of Victim to Victor, shares her inspiring journey from childhood abuse to becoming a fierce advocate for survivors. Through her bestselling memoir and podcast, Anu combines personal experiences with professional expertise in mental health, bodywork, and trauma recovery. She discusses the challenges of acceptance, the power of forgiveness, and the importance of intimacy in healing relationships. Anu's story is a powerful testament to resilience, self-worth, and the transformative power of holistic healing.

00:00 Introduction to Anu Verma and Victim to Victor

01:35 Anu's Turbulent Childhood

02:32 Struggles with Self-Worth and Relationships

04:57 Journey to Healing and Acceptance

07:19 Cultural Sensitivity and Family Dynamics

12:07 Forgiveness and Moving Forward

18:32 Intimacy and Personal Growth

27:20 The Power of Vulnerability and Writing

28:34 Facing PTSD and Trauma

29:52 The Healing Power of Talking

31:51 The Role of Support and Supervision

32:41 Embodiment and Somatic Healing

34:39 The Importance of Affirmations and Gratitude

44:01 Setting Boundaries and Self-Worth

47:38 Supporting a Partner Through Trauma

49:54 Living with Self-Love and Future Plans

53:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Projects

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Exploring Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Susan Milstein

In this episode, Dr. Susan Milstein, a renowned health education specialist, certified sexologist, and co-host of the podcast 'Unzipping Taboos,' shares insights from her extensive career.

Dr. Sue discusses the challenges and breakthroughs in sexual health education, both in her formative years and in professional life. She highlights the critical role of conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and healthy relationships, emphasizing the need for comprehensive sex education.

Dr. Sue also delves into the evolving landscape of sexuality, the impact of AI and digital trends on sexual education, and the importance of physical touch and skin hunger. The discussion further explores the dynamic changes in gender roles and expectations in modern society, providing listeners with a nuanced understanding of sexual health and well-being across different life stages.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Susan Milstein

01:03 Formative Years and Early Influences

04:27 College Years and Advocacy

06:48 Professional Path and Health Consulting

09:39 Sex Education and Public Perception

12:39 Pleasure and Intimacy Across Ages

19:38 Changing Attitudes Towards Sex

31:36 The Importance of Self-Exploration

31:57 Challenges in Sex Education

32:07 Masturbation and Media Representation

32:35 Gender Norms and Masturbation

33:46 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Orgasm

36:28 The Role of Touch and Intimacy

39:09 Skin Hunger and Human Connection

42:55 Men's Struggles with Modern Masculinity

51:04 AI and the Future of Intimacy

59:30 Personal Joys and Future Aspirations

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Understanding Sexuality: A Conversation with Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones PhD

This episode features an insightful discussion with Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones, a clinical sexologist, relationship therapist, and intimacy advisor based in California.

Dr. Jones shares her experiences growing up in a repressive environment and how she overcame those challenges to become an expert in human sexuality. The conversation delves into topics such as the importance of self-acceptance, the difference between intimacy and sex, the effects of societal norms on women's sexuality, and the role of fantasies and role play in enriching sexual experiences.

Dr. Jones also addresses the impact of pornography, the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, and the significance of dealing with anger related to sexual issues. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Jones emphasizes the need for open communication, self-exploration, and the importance of creating a safe, shame-free space for healing and growth.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones

01:12 Formative Years and Early Challenges

02:14 Journey to Sexual Healing

04:00 Understanding Intimacy and Pleasure

13:00 Role Play and Cosplay in Sexual Healing

20:22 Client Experiences and Therapeutic Approaches

26:01 Labels, Kinks, and Fetishes

33:32 The Danger of Being Boxed In

34:02 A Positive Backlash Against Control

34:44 The Pursuit of Happiness Over Materialism

37:22 Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy

42:26 The Nature of Monogamy and Control

44:22 Anger and Its Impact on Sexuality

50:14 The Impact of Technology and Pornography

54:33 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing as a Therapist

56:52 Final Reflections and Future Aspirations

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Journey of Self-Discovery: Ava Pikul on Tantra, Healing, and Embodiment

In this episode, Ava Pikul delves into her transformative journey from yoga instructor to authentic tantra practitioner. Ava shares the profound life lessons she learned from her time as an erotic dancer and her deep immersion into tantra and spiritual practices.

Initiated into a Tibetan tantric Buddhist lineage, she now integrates clinical expertise with sacred embodiment to offer a holistic approach to healing and self-worth. Ava discusses the importance of understanding one's sexuality, overcoming shame, and the significance of deep intimate connections.

She also touches on the influence of her upbringing, her work with clients, and future aspirations to create an immersive healing retreat focused on connecting with the earth and each other. The conversation sheds light on the intricate balance of power, control, and education in achieving profound personal growth and empowerment.

00:00 Ava Pikul's Journey: From Yoga to Tantra

01:07 Early Experiences and Formative Years

05:25 Navigating Teenage Years and Early Adulthood

08:06 The Dual Life: Yoga Instructor and Stripper

16:30 Discovering Tantra and Its True Essence

20:44 The Responsibilities of a Tantra Practitioner

28:20 Tantra and Psychedelics: Exploring Connections

31:49 The Dangers of Ungrounded Psychedelic Use

32:40 Exploring Human Senses Beyond the Basic Five

33:36 Advocating for Extraordinary Sexual Experiences

34:11 Addressing Sexual Disconnect in Relationships

35:16 The Importance of Self-Love in Sexual Liberation

35:47 Reconnecting Women with Their Bodies

47:45 The Role of Vulnerability in Intimacy

50:15 Programs for Sexual Healing and Growth

54:36 Balancing Personal Boundaries and Client Care

57:53 The Impact of Digital Age on Human Connection

01:03:50 Future Aspirations for In-Person Healing Retreats

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Navigating Life's Complexities: A Deep Dive into Grief and Resilience with Edy Nathan

Edy Nathan, a licensed and certified sex therapist with extensive training in EMDR, hypnotherapy, and Family Systems, discusses her approach to understanding and living alongside grief.

With decades of experience, she helps individuals navigate their pain with self-compassion and resilience. Nathan, an expert in grief and sexual grief, talks about the significance of viewing grief as a dance of self-discovery rather than a linear process.

The conversation explores the developmental and traumatic aspects of grief, the concept of sexual grief, and the Liberation Protocol she developed to help others find their own healing. Nathan also delves into her personal experiences, the physical and emotional impacts of grief, and how she maintains her own emotional well-being.

The dialogue highlights the importance of community, empathy, and embodied curiosity in the grieving process.

00:00 Introduction to Edy Nathan

01:11 Early Life and Sensitivity

02:55 Understanding Grief and Trauma

07:55 The Role of Theater in Edy's Life

11:31 Transition to Therapy and Personal Loss

15:08 Combining Theater and Therapy

19:10 The Concept of Sexual Grief

22:05 Physical and Emotional Aspects of Grief

35:24 The Liberation Protocol

38:41 Empowering Clients for Self-Healing

39:05 Embodied Curiosity: The First Step to Liberation

39:38 Somatic Work and Anxiety

41:52 Reframing Negative Cognitive Messages

42:39 Exploring Grief and Unresolved Relationships

43:31 Changing Neural Pathways Through Somatic Exercises

45:04 Understanding Sexuality and Intimacy

55:19 Menopause and Sexual Grief

01:01:30 Guilt and Grief: Navigating Complex Emotions

01:05:39 Transition and Legacy in Grief

01:11:01 Self-Care and Emotional Wellbeing

01:13:27 Concluding Thoughts and Future Aspirations

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