The Intimate Lifestyle

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  • EP144: Going To An Escort - A Secret Sexual Share 9/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    My guest today is speaking about his experience going to an escort. 

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to subscribe and leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    29 min
  • EP143: "It was like rape" - A Secret Sexual Share 8/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest is talking about his experience with a woman. Everything was going fine until 6 months after they dated she said "What you did was akin to rape." This was a challenging conversation to navigate.  

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to subscribe and leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    44 min
  • EP142: Bisexual - A Secret Sexual Share 7/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest is talking about his experience with shame around being bisexual.  

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to subscribe and leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    36 min
  • EP141: Getting Pegged - A Secret Sexual Share 6/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest who's self-described as a very masculine man, shares his sexual secret. His secret is that he likes to get pegged. Getting pegged is when your girlfriend puts on a strap-on dildo, and f***ks you anally. 

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to subscribe and leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    28 min
  • EP140: Being Fisted - A Secret Sexual Share 5/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest shares his big turn on....being fisted.

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    31 min
  • EP139: Taking vs Giving in Sex - Secret Sexual Share 4/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest, who's gay, shares his experience with being a bottom during sex (ie taking vs giving). And he shares some of the shame associated with it.

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    19 min
  • EP138: Premature Ejaculation and Bad Sex - Secret Sexual Share 3/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest shares his experience with premature ejaculation and how he lost his virginity.

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    19 min
  • EP137: Caught Red Handed - Secret Sexual Share 2/12

    “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.”

    Today, my guest shares an embarrassing and somewhat traumatizing experience with his mother.

    Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame.

    How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud. 

    So, I created a series of interviews with men who are sharing their sexual secrets.

    By speaking these secrets out loud, the men benefit from:

    • Increased sexual confidence
    • Having a huge weight lifted off of them
    • Emotional freedom
    • Not feeling stuck in a lie

    If you would like to come on the show to start your process of feeling more confident and getting this off your chest, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle.com.

    Remember to leave a rating and review! 

    Enjoy the show.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked. Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    15 min
  • EP136: An Uncommon Escort - Secret Sexual Share 1/12

    The Secret Sexual Share is a series of episodes where men share their sexual secrets to remove guilt and shame and begin/continue their growth in sexual confidence.

    Today is where I share a fantasy of mine that I held a lot of shame around, and explain what this series is all about in more detail.

    This show is sponsored by Let's Get Checked.

    Want to get your Testosterone checked? Or an STI check? Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any test kit. 

    40 min
  • EP135: Grow, Strengthen and Heal Your Penis

    If you've been following The Intimate Lifestyle, you’d know that I've been MIA on the podcast scene for a bit as I decided to focus on other aspects of the brand. However, this episode is just too good to pass up on, and so here I am talking about passion, sex and wellness with Susan Bratton.

    Susan Bratton is at the forefront of a movement in sex and relationships. Alongside her husband, she is the CEO and co-founder of Personal Life Media. Through this initiative she has produced numerous online courses and publications including the Amazon best-seller Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials For Connected Sex. An expert in this arena, she’s helped millions of people ignite and rekindle the passion in their sex lives and relationships.

    It’s something different having a woman’s point of view talking about penile health. The topics Susan and I covered run the gamut, from thrusting techniques, freezies, how heart disease starts in the penis, and the life changing magic of lickin’ and dickin’. Other points we’ve chatted about are:

    • An anecdote about a guy who kicked Susan out of the bedroom, Facebook stalking and getting the last laugh (05:12)
    • Being an intercourse-orgasm late bloomer and the process towards mind-blowing sex and orgasms. (07:34)
    • Thrusting techniques that create better, longer, and more intense stimulation for women. (13:29)
    • Shrinking penises and loosening vaginas, other sexual health issues, and methods of sexual restoration. (20:08)
    • Penis pumps, my experience using one, and what penis pumping should feel like. (25:31)
    • The shame surrounding penis size and determining the need for penis enlargement. (32:08)
    • How non-ejaculatory orgasms and multi-orgasmic states can result to a bigger penis, the concepts of edging and riding the wave, and improving sexual stamina and orgasms through breathing. (35:10)
    • Tips and tricks to maintain prostate health. (45:54)
    • How our lifestyle choices negatively impact hormone levels, libido, and whole well-being. (57:01)

    This was a refreshing episode, and I gotta admit, I think I missed sharing experiences and absorbing wisdom through these conversations. Susan and I really just scratched the surface but if you want to learn more about Susan and her life’s work, visit BetterLover.com or keep updated through Instagram @susanbratton.

    She’s also provided useful resources for anyone who wants to improve their relationships, sex, and lives through Personal Life Media.

    • Sexual Vitality Summit
    • Get Hard Instantly on Command eBook
    • Penis Pumping Guide
    • Tuning Fork Technique

    Thanks for spending your time with me on the Intimate Lifestyle Podcast. Browse through past podcast episodes and articles if you want more sex-positive, relationship-enriching and life-changing content. For feedback, questions, or suggestions on who might be good guests and/or resources, email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle [dot] com.

    If you’re struggling with your sex life, intimacy, relationships, or your life in general, I currently have openings for new clients and I’m also running my 3-month Noble Lover Program. Feel free to reach out and connect for more immersive learning and guidance.

    1 hr 9 min

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