The Kirsten Tyrrel Show

Detectives knocked on Ashlee Boyson's door and told her two things at once. Her husband had been having an affair. And the woman's husband had found him at a Walgreens and shot him twice. She had five kids at home. The youngest was six weeks old. And she had built her entire sense of who she was on being his wife, which meant that when he died, so did she. That night she went into her closet and asked God for a do-over. What she got instead was an instruction to stand back up. Then she did the thing nobody expects. She sat down to write about the man who took her husband's life, ready to burn him down in public. The blog crashed. Nothing saved. She turned it back on and the screen was blank. And she understood she was being asked to tell the story a completely different way. That blog became The Moments We Stand, and the writing itself became the thing that brought her back to life. Ashlee is now teaching that process. If you have a story you've never been able to put down, her Write My Way Out Workshop opens soon and the waitlist is here: https://pages.ashleeboyson.com/writing-waitlist

What we get into:

-Why she couldn't tell who she was without a man reflecting it back at her -The second marriage that repeated the exact same pattern, and the public divorce -Why showing up as the rescuer guarantees you'll attract victims -Peace at all costs is not peace -Why awareness is where most people stop, and what it actually takes to change -The fear of being fully yourself online once your audience has decided who you are

We even get into a live coaching session. We find the real fear underneath Ashlee's next level in about four minutes, on camera. That's the work I do. It's the same pattern that keeps women rescuing everyone, staying busy instead of deciding, and freezing when it's time to move. If you watched that section and recognized yourself, Power Moves is where we take it apart. JOIN THE NEXT WORKSHOP HERE:

Ally Adair Chung scaled a seven-figure learning center in six years while homeschooling three kids — then sold it. In this conversation, she tells the full version of that story, including the part most success stories leave out: what the growth actually cost her nervous system, her marriage, and her ability to be present for any of it.

If you've ever been told the answer is "more hustle," this is the cautionary tale nobody gave you before you started.

Inside this episode:

• Why racing thoughts in the shower are not a badge of honor

• The "jumping" pattern that makes you absent in every role you're playing

• Ally's Maslow-level test for burnout (if you forgot to eat, drink, or use the bathroom today, this one's for you)

• The quote that changed how Ally thinks about motherhood and business: "The battles we don't fight, we hand to our children"

• A live coaching moment on the real fear hiding behind "I don't want to make content"

• How to rebuild a business slowly, on purpose, after the first version burned you out

About Ally: Ally helps school founders — micro schools, homeschool hybrids, and learning alternatives — grow and scale sustainably. She has worked with over 1,000 families worldwide, built and sold a seven-figure learning center, and now coaches others to build without losing themselves.

🔗 Connect with Ally: Instagram, https://disruptoredu.com

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You don't need a near-death experience to wake up… but you do need a moment where you stop living on autopilot.

In this episode, I'm sitting down with Vinney Tolman, author of The Light After Death, to talk about what shifted for him after being found clinically dead in 2003- and what he brought back that changes how you live right now.

We talk about authenticity (the real kind… not the "I overshare on Instagram so I'm healed" kind 😅), the power of the present moment, what it means to live in your "soul song," and why forgiveness isn't just spiritual- it's freedom.

This conversation is especially for you if you're a woman of faith, a mom, or a leader who's successful on paper… but craving deeper peace, purpose, and alignment.

✅ What authenticity actually is (and why toddlers + 85-year-olds are the pros) ✅ How to tell if you're living your dream… or someone else's ✅ Why "destination is the journey" (and what that changes about goals + ambition) ✅ Vinney's simple breath practice to shift your state fast ✅ How to recognize your soul's imprint- and start living from it ✅ Why forgiveness is the "fence" that either blocks or opens your personal heaven ✅ What Vinney learned about love, connection, and what real wealth is on the other side

Connect with Vinney:

The Light After Death Book - https://amzn.to/4qpxUxq Work with Vinney: LivingGodsLight.org Vinney's Instagram: www.instagram.com/vinneytolman Vinney's Facebook: ttps://www.facebook.com/vinneyt

Join the Unshakable Collective to learn how to shift from survival to peace in your daily life HERE.

10 years from now, you won't regret that it wasn't perfect… you'll regret that you didn't start.

There's a trend going around comparing 2016 vs 2026, and when I looked back at my own life, I realized something huge: the messy action I took back then is still impacting my life and business today.

In this episode, I'm sharing why motivation isn't enough when you feel stuck—and what's actually happening in your brain when you feel anxious, behind, or scared to start again.

You'll learn: ✅ why overthinking is a safety response (not laziness) ✅ how your brain pulls evidence from the past to keep you "safe" ✅ why motivation doesn't work when you don't feel emotionally secure ✅ my simple 10-Minute Move to stop spiraling and take action ✅ a 7-day challenge to build momentum and self-trust again

If you're a mom, entrepreneur, or woman of faith who feels overwhelmed, unsure, or ready to stop playing small… this episode will help you move forward.

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On this week's episode, I sit down with Kristen Walker Smith to discuss:

• Kristen's journey through mental illness and how she found hope through her patriarchal blessing
• The power of speaking to yourself the way God speaks about you
• How to recognize and combat Satan's attempts to keep us "playing small"
• Practical ways to reconnect with your divine identity as a child of God
• Why sharing our struggles and weaknesses can actually expand our circle and ability to help others
• The importance of taking action on revelation, even when it's hard

Kristen shares her raw, honest story of struggling with severe OCD and how she went from hating herself to reclaiming her divine identity. We discuss the lies Satan tells us to keep us feeling worthless and small, and how to combat those with God's truth.

If you've ever felt lost, worthless, or unsure of who you really are, this episode will remind you of your infinite worth and potential as a child of God. Kristen's story is a powerful testament to how connecting with our divine identity can give us the strength to overcome even our darkest moments.

Key Takeaways:

• Your patriarchal blessing contains powerful truths about who you are to God
• Speaking God's words about yourself, even when you don't believe them yet, can change your life
• Satan wants to keep us playing small, but God has big plans for each of us
• Sharing our weaknesses allows us to connect with and help others
• Taking action on revelation, even when it's hard, opens doors to fulfilling our potential

Connect with Kristen: Instagram: @kristenwalkersmith Podcast: One Minute Scripture Study

Resources Mentioned:

• You Are Special by Max Lucado
• Speak Up Podcast Course: www.speakup.kirstentyrrel.com

Remember, you have unlimited potential and are made for more than you can imagine. God has an incredible plan for your life - it's time to step into it!

In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Brooke Romney, a writer and parenting expert who focuses on helping parents navigate the teenage years with confidence and grace. Brooke shares her journey from blogging about family activities to becoming a go-to resource for parents of teens, offering invaluable insights on building confidence, fostering independence, and maintaining strong relationships with our children as they grow.

Key Takeaways:

1. Evolution of purpose: Brooke's path from writing about family activities to addressing the unique challenges of parenting teens demonstrates how our callings can evolve over time.
2. Confidence through action: True confidence comes from doing hard things and overcoming challenges, not from constant praise or shielding from difficulties.
3. Empowering vs. rescuing: Parents should focus on empowering their children to handle challenges rather than always trying to rescue them from discomfort.
4. Character-based compliments: Praise children for their character traits and efforts rather than just outcomes or innate abilities.
5. Intentional parenting decisions: Make choices based on love and empowerment rather than fear and guilt.
6. Social skills as learned abilities: Recognize that social confidence and skills can be developed with practice and guidance.
7. Modeling growth mindset: Show children how to receive feedback and grow from challenges by doing so yourself.

Actionable Tips:

1. Encourage your teens to do things that feel hard, allowing them to build competence and confidence.
2. When giving compliments, focus on internal qualities and character traits rather than just external achievements.
3. Create opportunities for your children to contribute meaningfully at home and in their communities.
4. Practice taking feedback gracefully and model how to grow from constructive criticism.
5. When making parenting decisions, ask yourself if you're acting out of fear and guilt or love and empowerment.
6. Help your children develop social skills and manners to increase their confidence in various situations.
7. Allow your children to experience natural consequences and learn from their mistakes instead of always rescuing them.

Resources Mentioned:

• Brooke's Instagram: @brookeromnywrites
• 52 Modern Manners for Teens
• 52 Modern Manners for Kids

Remember, building confidence in our teens starts with cultivating our own unshakable confidence as parents. By focusing on character development, providing opportunities for growth, and maintaining open communication, we can help our children navigate the challenging teen years with resilience and self-assurance.

I'm beyond excited to welcome the amazing Abi Ayres to the show. If you're not already following her hilarious and heartfelt content, you're in for a treat!

In this eye-opening conversation, Abi and I dive deep into:

• Her journey from everyday mom to social media sensation
• Navigating the ups and downs of online fame
• Building unshakable confidence in the face of criticism
• The power of authenticity in connecting with others
• Balancing vulnerability and positivity in content creation
• Finding your unique voice and sharing your light

Abi shares her raw, personal experiences and offers profound insights that will inspire you to step into your own light. We tackle tough topics like dealing with haters, overcoming self-doubt, and the spiritual side of sharing your story online.

If you've ever dreamed of making an impact through social media or simply want to boost your confidence in sharing your authentic self, this episode is for you! Abi's wisdom and infectious energy will leave you feeling empowered and ready to shine.

Don't miss out on these powerful insights about embracing your true identity and using your unique gifts to serve others.

Remember, your story matters and the world needs your light. Are you ready to answer the call?

Follow Abi on Instagram: @AbiAyres

Ready to unleash your own unshakable confidence? Check out my success coaching at KirstenTyrrel.com/success-coaching or by clicking HERE. Let's unlock your full potential together!

Ever feel like you're spinning your wheels, trying to improve but getting nowhere? In this raw and real episode, we're diving deep into the messy process of personal growth.

Sharing my recent journey through emotional intelligence coaching, we'll explore why our brains default to harsh self-criticism and how this actually hinders our progress. Get ready for a perspective shift on anxiety and a fresh approach to aligning with your vision.

The game-changer? Learning to celebrate our wins instead of fixating on perceived failures. We'll unpack the power of self-compassion and why it's crucial for lasting change.

Ready to break free from shame cycles and build unshakable confidence? This episode offers practical tools to identify root stories, embrace self-love, and view yourself through God's eyes.

Whether you're feeling stuck or simply craving more joy in your growth journey, tune in for some honest talk and heartfelt encouragement. Let's ditch the self-loathing and step into the light of who we're truly meant to be!

Ready to find the TRUTH of who you REALLY are?

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Are you ready for a faith-filled reality check that'll help you level-up in motherhood? In this episode, I'm sitting down with the amazing Layna Massey, host of the "Mothering with Jesus" podcast, to dive deep into the beautiful mess of mothering with faith.

We're busting open the myth that being a "good Christian mom" means having it all together, and instead, we're embracing the power of partnering with Jesus in the everyday chaos of raising little ones.

You'll discover:

• How Layna's journey from beauty influencer to faith-based podcaster can inspire your own pivot
• The game-changing approach to hearing God's voice in your parenting decisions (hint: it's simpler than you think!)
• Why trusting your gut (and God) about organic ketchup might be more spiritual than you realized
• The mindset shift that'll transform your mom guilt into mom confidence
• How to create a Christ-centered vision for your family that actually works in real life

Whether you're homeschooling, a working mom, or somewhere in between, this episode is your permission slip to ditch the comparison game and embrace your unique, divinely-inspired motherhood journey.

Ready to break free from the "perfect Christian mom" mold and start mothering with unshakable, Jesus-centered confidence? Tune in now and let's get real about raising kids with faith, fun, and a whole lot of grace.

Want to level up your mom game with some personalized, faith-based strategies? CLICK HERE to schedule a coaching call with me and let's get you from surviving to thriving in your God-given role!

P.S. Don't forget to follow Layna on Instagram HERE for daily doses of mom encouragement and Jesus-centered parenting wisdom!

What if I told you that spending every waking minute with your kids isn't the key to being a great mom?

In this raw and honest episode, I'm diving deep into the mom guilt trap that's had me questioning everything - from my decision to homeschool to how I balance running a business with raising my kids. I'm sharing the fears, doubts, and revelations that led me to a game-changing realization about quality time.

You'll discover:

• The mindset shift that transformed my decision-making process
• Why asking "What do I really want?" changed everything
• How to make 15 minutes of intentional connection more powerful than hours of passive presence
• My step-by-step approach to creating a family vision that actually works
• Practical strategies to align your daily life with your long-term parenting goals

Whether you're a homeschool mom, an entrepreneur, or just trying to juggle it all, this episode is your permission slip to redefine what success looks like for you and your family. Let's break free from the guilt, embrace intentionality, and build the confident, purposeful life we're meant to live.

Ready to shift your own limiting stories to create new levels of success in your home and business? CLICK HERE to schedule a coaching call with me and let's shift you into success!