I think the randomness of this episode's title, sums it up entirely. You have been warned! But before we get in..... public health warning. This is not the best-sounding episode, clearly my airpods were playing up - so i hope you can forgive the tinniness.
Now that's out of the way, let's dive in.....
I took a week off from recording over Christmas. It just didnt feel right, and frankly i was feeling pretty unmotivated. But then i felt like i was giving up and failed! Why? The cadence of recording is completely on my schedule, it's my story, and the world does not end as a result - but despite that i felt bad. It also felt rebellish and now in hindsight the right thing to do. But I definitely need to use this as a learning opportunity to be kinder to myself, and not do things just for the sake of it. I can and should say no - including to myself!
Now, some really important information....Yorkshire Puddings.
For me, one of the most Christmassy foods you can have is the Roast for lunch, and that has to include Yorkshire puddings....
Fluffy and battery, perfect with lots of gravy. In the US the closest thing is a popover, but that really is very different.
So head to the Churchill Tavern in NYC, for one of their roasts (only on Sundays) if you want to try, or else here's a recipe to make your own. You will not be disappointed.
Now that you are open to trying new things, let's connect this to entrepreneurship....
I want to help as many people on their startup journey as possible, so here are some useful tools and techniques to help you ideate and stay motivated, being open-minded to Yorkshire puddings, definitely also helps.
Ikigai - use this framework to brainstorm new ideas. It looks to find your sweetspot, by considering things that you love, that the world needs, your strengths and importantly what you can be paid for. Where they overlap, is where you are supposed to be.
Unfollow people who don't serve you! I know that subconsciously or not, i look for certain people's names on Linkedin. To see what they are doing, and still to try to please them, hope that they respect what i am doing. But i know, that is a futile and thankless task. They make me feel bad, and impact my ability to be my best self. I therefore unfollowed them, and gave myself permission to let go. It already feels really liberating, I'd encourage you to try that too.
Chasing dopamine highs. We all need dopamine, to help us strive and keep going. But too much, makes it harder to achieve the goals. Think alcohol - the more you drink, the more you need to reach the same highs.
Listen to this great episode by Stanford professor Andrew Huberman.
To maximise your focus and to best stay on track, you need to regulate the tasks you perform, and what you consume (randomly), so that there is a more regular process of “searching” for it, like we used to as cave people.
Need more innovation ideas? Check out the Board of Innovation.
I particularly like the "Opposites approach" or Flip the narrative.