The Ladies' Couch with Mary KOBAH-Koate

Oftentimes, most ladies are faced with this big question, "Marriage or Career?" In this episode, I gave my perspective in response to this. Listen. Share. Leave a comment!

Isolation starts from our thoughts and then we a lured into becoming physically isolated. We are rational beings and being isolated causes more harm than we imagine.

Owning up to faults doesn't make you less or weak, rather consistently blaming People, situations or circumstances does. It takes power from You.

Most people feel accountability is akin to monitoring but being accountable is simply having a 'why' for your actions. It's more of a personal discipline system that helps you think and plan through your actions so you can defend them whenever the need arises and it's a great tool that helps relationships thrive.

I do not know how we've subconsciously segmented people into those who we expect to be perfect and those who aren't.

People aren't perfect, They are humans and are going through growth processes. So, if you have those you look up to and then they 'goof' remember, they are humans and they are allowed to have flaws.

When faced with hurt or painful situations, especially with our emotions, we tend to make suble decisions on those moments that can mar our disposition to life and its happenings

Fears are real. The last thing you need is another person putting their fears on You, Resist it!

Be confident in yourself and your dreams. Don't let anyone trade their fears on You.

We've been told, oftentimes, to focus on Ourselves, but we ain't just individuals but have dear relationships that our decisions might affect. Oftentimes, we need to go beyond ourselves to put these dear ones in perspective!

It's often said, "It's a small world." We might get hurt or feel cheated in some way by a person or an organization and may be tempted to hurt them while severing our relationship with them. However, when we get to the point of "Burning bridges," let's try not to burn the person or people along.

Honor is an integral part of our attitude. However, many lack it in present times, and it's sad because whatever, whoever you do not honor, you can't have and be.