The Laughing Warrior

Are you the type of person who gives and gives, but struggles to accept help from others? Got some bad news for you.

Being bad at receiving can leave you feeling burnt out and exhausted by people. What you're giving out, far exceeds what you're receiving.

But fear not, in this episode we dive into how to improve your ability to receive (and unlock your success and happiness in the process).

We'll cover:

Don't miss out on this eye-opening episode. Tune in now!

(Men who don't understand this are sabotaging themselves)

It was shocking to find out just how bad women actually have it.

And if you want to stand apart from every other guy she's ever dated.

If you want to be the man whose arms she cries into because she finally FINALLY's met a man who understands...then this episode is for you.

Inside we discuss...

1. Why her feeling safe around you matters more than everything else.

2. How to go for what you want without being creepy

3. How to stop self sabotaging when it comes to expressing your interest in her

4. The uncomfortable reality of what it's like to be female bodied (it's pretty f***ed up)

5. Why pretending to be confident usually kills attraction

Here's what I think we all learn about becoming more attractive.

But there's something desperately wrong with the way we're taught to do that.

Learn to be funnier.

What's interesting is that actually attractive (and successful) folks aren't doing any of that.

In this podcast, we talk about the stuff they're doing that you were never taught.

In this episode...

- How to stop dating people because you're afraid you can't do better.

- The real reason why it's so hard to attract quality partners.

- Why being OVER stoic is ruining your dating life.

- How to eliminate the one toxic trait that's been scaring away the woman of your dreams.

- One quick mindset shift that will make you embrace failure and evolve fast.

- If you keep losing romantic partners, it's probably because of *this* single bad habit.

In this episode...

- Why we want to be in relationships so badly when we're single, and why we want out so badly when we're taken.

- The real reason we self-sabotage in relationships with good partners.

- How to turn relationship struggle into explosive self-growth.

- The actual reason you keep getting into fights with your partner (it's less about them than you think)

- The Five Poison Conflict Types And How To Understand Which One You Are

- How to stop taking things so personally

- The secret to actually control your emotions (instead of bottling them up)

In this episode…

After his divorce Scott struggled to play a role in his kid's lives, only to learn that they didn't want him to. Since that time he's thrown himself relentlessly into personal growth to improve how he shows up for his family. Today, Scott is on good terms with two of his children.

In this episode, Scott covers...

In this episode we cover...

> Why you should get a second opinion on your breakup before you pull the trigger.

> One critical mistake to avoid during breakup if you don't want to end up running into the same painful dating patterns.

> Three "best practice" exercises to do before the actual conversation.

> How to tell if you're about to have a "F*** You" or a "Thank You" breakup.

> The exact step by step of how to approach the actual breakup conversation.

> One thing you absolutely must do if you want to "date up" in your next relationship

> And of course...How to use the pain after your breakup to make yourself even more attractive.

Here are a few of the major takeaways...(there are many more of these in the recording)

1. We recommend your breakup be done for reasons that remain after you get grounded and collect yourself. Emotions can be resolved. Misaligned values, a partner who lies to you constantly, or is physically violent or manipulative are all valid reasons to end things quickly.

2. Break up from "I". Avoid playing the victim. Be responsible for your end of why you think things should end. Avoid making this into a giant list of things the other person did wrong - all that will accomplish is create more bad blood between the two of you. Do talk about what isn't working. Do keep the conversation as a conversation rather than an ultimatum. Sometimes you just need to talk things out.

3. If you both decide breaking up is the right move, then there's room to make this a beautiful experience. Lead with vulnerability. Talk about why you love and care about this person. Share some of the treasured memories you created together. Apologize for where you caused the other person pain. Hold space for their pain and listen to understand, not to be "right". Give yourself time and space to give the end of this relationship the time and respect it deserves. Grieve the loss of a shared future together.

4. Moving forward - it's important to give yourself a minimum of 30 days before you begin dating again. Starting up sooner means you drag all your emotional baggage and unhealed patterns into the next relationship, guaranteeing that this new relationship will be a repeat of the last one. If you don't heal, you'll never start attracting and dating healthier, more compatible partners. Warrior up. Sit with your pain. Understand why it's happening (without blaming it on your ex). Look for the books and videos you're naturally drawn to. Learn, grow, and heal.

In this episode:

We all have at least one skeleton in the closet we aren't proud of. In this episode we talk about how to clean up your mess so you don't end up regretting how you showed up for the rest of your life (and get real about the big mistakes we've made in our own lives). If you're struggling with guilt and beating yourself up over something you did -- if you want a way to walk out of this with a clean conscience, this is what it takes.