The #1 Reason Relationships Break Down – And What You Can Do About It!

🎧 Featuring expert guest: Jan Talen

In this powerful podcast, we break down the 4 essential 'gears' that drive healthy, connected relationships – and reveal how missing even one can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, and confusion between partners.

👂 What you'll learn in this episode:
✔️ Why most relationship conflicts aren’t really about what you think
✔️ How to communicate what you truly want without guilt or fear
✔️ The "gears" model that simplifies emotional connection
✔️ What to do when your partner shuts down or misunderstands you
✔️ How improving your relationship can create a calmer, safer environment for your kids

This conversation is perfect for:
✅ Moms feeling emotionally unsupported
✅ Couples struggling to resolve recurring arguments
✅ Parents trying to co-regulate better and model healthy communication for their children
✅ Anyone who wants deeper connection and clarity in their relationships

💬 Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro & why communication matters
2:15 – Common communication breakdowns in relationships
6:40 – The 4 'gears' of emotional connection
12:00 – Real-life examples & common mistakes
18:30 – Healing triggers through better communication
25:00 – Final takeaways and practical tools

✨ Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more empowering episodes on emotional resilience, mindful parenting, and relationship growth.

PS: Here is the calendar link for the free conversation with Jan:  https://calendly.com/usandkids/fun-se...

and here is the link to the podcast section of Jan's website if you want to find out more: https://www.usandkids.com/blog.

For the gear drawing and discount links for 3 products, comment "GEAR" and I will send it to you 

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What if parenting could be more than just giving orders and managing chaos? In this eye-opening episode, parenting expert Jen reveals a revolutionary approach to parenting that goes beyond traditional methods.

Discover the powerful "FUN" framework that transforms how you connect with your children:

• Fulfilling: Creating meaningful interactions that matter
• Unlimited Conversations: Building trust through open dialogue
• Natural: Parenting authentically without pretense

Jen shares raw, practical insights from her experience as a mother of four, including:

• How to customize your parenting approach for different personalities
• Secrets to staying calm during challenging moments
• Surprising techniques to reset your emotional state
• The neuroscience behind children's emotional development

Special highlight: A fascinating explanation of how children's brains develop, inspired by Dan Siegel's groundbreaking research, that will change how you understand your child's behavior.

Whether you're a stressed parent, a new mom or dad, or someone seeking a more connected approach to raising children, this episode offers a lifeline of hope, understanding, and practical strategies.

Get ready to break the rules and build deeper, more meaningful bonds with your children.

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and here is the link to the podcast section of Jan's website if you want to find out more: https://www.usandkids.com/blog.

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Join us for an insightful conversation with marriage and family therapist, Jan, as we explore the vital connection between a happy marriage and a happy family!

Discover Jan's unique concept of wearing different "hats" – the marriage hat, the parenting hat, and others representing various roles we play. Learn how to keep your "marriage hat" closest to your brain and how it connects with the parenting hat to create a harmonious family environment.

In this episode, you'll learn:
• The importance of connection and the hormones that facilitate it.
• How to handle tension and reset emotions in a healthy way, including the power of a cold drink, warm beverage, or crunchy snack.
• Why body language speaks louder than words and how to use it effectively.

A moving story about how Jan's husband prioritized their marriage, inspiring them to make shifts in their life and to continue that journey.

Plus, Jan is offering a free 60-minute phone call to provide support and encouragement!

Here's the link to schedule a call with her: https://calendly.com/usandkids/fun-session

Jan's website: https://www.usandkids.com/

Get ready to transform your relationships with Jan's invaluable insights! This is the first of a series of episodes with Jan. Stay tuned!

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Being a mom and a teacher, i know how difficult it is to teach our own children. I have my ups and downs and along the way, I have learned how to be aware and conscious of how they feel and how they learn. 

Through the highs and lows of this journey, I've discovered the importance of being attuned to my children's emotions and individual learning styles. Recognizing that everyone learns differently, I've realized the futility of expecting our children to mirror our own learning paths.

Trust me, is a tough and long journey. Sometimes, lonely too. 

But with support we are able to avoid many bumps along the way. Thus, Miss Kay and I come together in our endeavour to cultivate young minds and assist parents in their pursuit of education. It's a collaborative call to action, a reminder that we're here to help each other in the challenging, rewarding world of parenting.

Parents, if you're seeking effective tools for managing emotions, inspiring a love for learning, and building lasting connections with your children, this episode is a must-listen. Miss. Kay's wisdom is sure to resonate with parents seeking guidance in nurturing their child's emotional intelligence and academic success.

Miss Kay's website: https://kaytasticlearning.com/

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In this part of the conversation, we discuss how parents can instill a sense of purpose and a desire for a positive impact in our children's lives. 

Susan emphasizes the importance of teaching kids the values of respect, service, and gratitude as a way to shape their perspectives and set them on a path towards creating a lasting legacy.

She has also shares a remarkable technique that allows you to remove yourself from challenging situations and observe them from a detached perspective and how to guide our children, even ourselves, to focus and reach our goal. 

PS: Don't miss the FREE gift from Susan to you on breaking those chains and stepping into life changing Freedom which allows you to be the best version of yourself you can be at LiveFreeChecklist.com where she helps you to break down top 3 tips that took her decades and tens of thousands of dollars to uncover!

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In this thought-provoking episode, we're joined by the remarkable Susan Brown, an inspirational speaker, best-selling author, legacy coach, and real estate investor. But, most importantly, she's a homeschool mom who has harnessed the power of thinking like a CEO in her life. Join us as we dive into Susan's incredible journey from homelessness and hopelessness to achieving success and genuine freedom.

Episode Highlights:
- A Journey of Transformation: Susan Brown takes us on a remarkable journey from her challenging past to her current life as a successful entrepreneur and homeschool mom.

- The Power of Multitasking: Discover how Susan manages to juggle multiple roles as a homeschool mom, author, inspirational speaker, and real estate investor.

- The Art of Writing: Susan's passion for writing and speaking stems from her innate desire to inspire and uplift fellow moms, creating a legacy of positivity.

- Balancing Personal Aspirations and Family Responsibilities: Explore Susan's strategies for finding balance and prioritizing personal dreams while managing the demands of family life.

- Thinking Like a CEO: Uncover the game-changing concept of thinking like a CEO, which Susan shares as a powerful tool for transforming your decision-making and time management.

- The Vision of Freedom: Susan's mission is to help people discover true freedom, not just in financial terms but mentally, allowing individuals to tap into their limitless potential.

- The Visual of "Unstrapping Yourself from the Train Tracks": Susan presents a powerful visualization technique that empowers you to let go of overwhelming circumstances and observe them from a distance.

- The Eternal Perspective: Learn how viewing life from an eternal perspective can bring simplicity and gratitude to your daily experiences.

Stay Tuned for Part 2:

The wisdom shared by Susan Brown is not just a one-time event. Part 2 of this captivating conversation is on its way, where Susan will delve even deeper into practical steps for implementing the CEO mindset. You'll uncover how to delegate, prioritize, and make decisions aligned with your long-term vision.

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You can find out more about her at:
LegacyGameChangers.com and/or SusanBrownCoaching.com

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Today's conversation focuses on a crucial aspect of parenting: nurturing the siblings of special needs children. Lup Wai and Carinne delve into the common emotions and reactions that typically develop among siblings growing up alongside a brother or sister with special needs. Carinne shares her expertise in supporting and caring for these siblings effectively.

Carinne's unique perspective as a mother of two, one with complex medical needs and the other typically developing, has led her to reflect on how her children's experiences differ. She even published a blog about nurturing naturally setting children in a special needs world, a valuable resource.

In this episode, she discusses all children's five essential developmental needs: a secure and nurturing environment, responsive caregivers, opportunities for exploration and learning, social interactions, and routines. 

Carinne provides practical tips and insights on addressing these needs while balancing the unique challenges of raising a special needs child.

If you find this episode valuable, please like, subscribe, and share it with others who might benefit from this meaningful discussion. Also, remember to check out Carinne's blog for further insights and resources (Website: https://www.ittakesavillagenc.com/)

Thank you for joining us on "The Learning Curve with Lup Wai." We'll be back soon with more inspiring conversations to help you navigate the challenges of parenthood and education. Stay tuned!

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Parenting is a beautiful yet challenging adventure, and we understand the emotional rollercoaster it can be. Moments of frustration, miscommunication, and feeling like you're just not on the same page with your child are all part of the journey. 

In this episode, we dive into the heart of the matter – how to bridge the emotional gap with our teenagers. With expert insights and real-life stories, we uncover meaningful ways to decode those one-word responses, weather the emotional outbursts, and ultimately, nurture a bond that can withstand anything.

If you've ever found yourself struggling to bridge the gap between you and your child, yearning for a deeper understanding of their world, and seeking to create unbreakable emotional bonds, you're in the right place.

This episode is here to illuminate the path to a more harmonious and empathetic parent-child relationship.

Today’s special guest, Edna Ang, will be sharing the key to unlock the secrets of understanding your child's heart and mind, and embark on a path towards building unbreakable parent-child bonds. Because when empathy leads the way, remarkable connections are bound to follow.

Listen now and start creating the meaningful parent-child relationship you've always envisioned. 🎧❤️

Edna is giving a complimentary 30mins discovery call to find out more about how she can work together to help your teenager soar to greater heights to build a happy and successful future. To find out more, whatsapp her at +65 97210381 

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Being a mom of 2 children as they are growing up, there are always never ending of parenting struggles and one main struggle is communication. 

Today, we have Shruti joining us in this podcast. She understands the struggles of parenting. Like many of us, she experienced moments of connection and days when she wasn't her best self, snapping and yelling. This led her to embark on a journey of understanding her child's behavior and her own reactions, seeking ways to communicate mindfully with her little ones.

📖 Shruti's journey took her to the enlightening book "Nonviolent Communication" by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, which transformed her parenting style. Now, she is passionate about teaching parents how to lead with compassion, kindness, respect, and empathy while fostering cooperation without resorting to manipulation or threats.

🌟 Better relationships with our children and everyone else in our life can only be achieved via conscious communication. In order to improve our ability to communicate with our spouse and children, Shruti highlighted the four fundamental pillars.  

🎧 Struggling with parenting? Tune in to this heartwarming episode to learn mindful communication and build a strong bond with your kids! 🎧

If you want to find out more, you may connect with Shruti on her website: www.empoweredconnections.nl or find her on Instagram as Empowered Connections. 

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Are my children able to catch up? 
Am I pushing too hard or am I too chill?
Are my children able to cope socially on top of academically?

With 2 school-going children, I can feel the anxiety and lost at times. There are so many areas to watch out for and some times it get really overwhelming and frustrating both on the parents and children. 

Are you a parent with school-going child and concerned about your child's learning journey? 

In this episode, we have Miss Kay from Kaytastic Learning sharing her nuggets on how we can discover our child's learning gap and support their learning journey. 

Miss Kay is a highly qualified educator with 11 years of experience working in a school setting and she truly believes that learning is lifelong, and have dedicated many years in studying Education.

Join us as we delve into the common pain points faced by parents and explore effective strategies to overcome them. From academic challenges and online learning difficulties to identifying your child's academic position and fostering social and developmental growth, this video offers valuable insights and practical tips. 

Discover how to navigate the disruptions caused by the pandemic, support your child's academic progress, and nurture their overall well-being. Don't miss out on this essential guide for parents on their children's learning journey. 

Subscribe now and empower yourself to be the best support system for your child's educational success!

You can find Ms Kay at
https://www.instagram.com/kaytasticlearning

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