It started when I spotted Paul Newman’s cookies in the green market, which got me thinking about his legacy charity with wife Joanne Woodward. I'm so impressed by how these two very imperfect people created something so beautiful. Paul passed years ago, Joanne is now nearing the end of her life, yet their incredible charity is still thriving. I also share my recent attempt at Pure Barre (spoiler: it’s definitely a no-go for me!), my port wine recommendation, and why I’m (big shock) upset with Democrats these days.

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Visited with a longtime friend for dinner and while she’s straight, nobodies perfect, ya know. This is just a lil bit of our chat about the loss of her mom. We also talk just a lil about abortion. And she also echoes my sentiments on the fake standards on women set by the manosphere and Incelville. Meantime they're they’re lucky if anyone's interested at all. No matter how hard societies attempt to undermine heterosexuality, the fact remains that men are fundamentally attracted to women. And human instincts persist. Plus, a lil bit about how I had to escape the allure of my captivating Pilates instructor. Who knows what hidden dangers lurk?!
 
Heads up: the audio is a bit more chaotic than usual. This happens because I have a tendency to accidentally cut more or wrong sections during editing, which causes the mixed-up and incomplete segments that I then have to TRY to piece together to sound like they were originally recorded! Anyway! 

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Aaron Kimberly, a whistleblower exposing practices at the gender clinic where she once worked, discusses concerns about the fast-tracking of medical gender transitions. She shares her own experience of having surgery approved after just a few visits with a family doctor at the gender clinic and one psychiatric consultation. As a psychiatric mental health nurse, Aaron has raised alarms about the urgent need for accountable practices, if any at all, in medical gender transition. Her advocacy is informed by her life as a de-transitioned transgender man, lifelong butch lesbian and clinician.

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Who needs lesbian social events or lesbian dating apps when I’ve found straight divorced men right in my building?

My 47 year old boyfriend doesn't wear a too-tight polyester dress though, so I guess the lack of said dress just puts me in the boring 'het' camp now. When I wanna feel unique and special, and really stand out from other hets, I could always force him into a dress and we can be keer together.   

I also dish on 'Beverly' and her relentless snake-oil antics. I can’t escape her at the gym, I can’t even drown myself in the hot tub to get away and believe me, I’ve tried!

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Thinking out loud about how LGBTQ and queer identities intersect with the experiences of Lesbians and the issue of Lesbian erasure. Seeing how the drive for inclusion at any cost (mostly for 45+ yo straight men who identify as "lesbians") within the queer framework has led to the exclusion and underrepresentation of Lesbian women. Where do we go from here?

Article referenced: A Straight Man Walks Into A Lesbian Bar https://so.gay/everything-else/news/so-gay-is-a-proud-presenting-media-sponsor-of-nyc-pride-2024/

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Late-night recording, Scattered ramblings. A very unfocused chat with a long time friend (Patti). We touched a bit on long-term friendship, parenting, and a lil commiserating about our entirely shitty families . I came to the table with no topic for this podcast and was very tired, so it's pretty unorganized. We also talked a little about the Olympic disaster and, toward the end, I'm rambling some more about how trashed lesbian culture is again, but yeah for the sake of very inconsistent consistency I uploaded it. Thanks for tuning in!

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In this solo episode, I recount my latest Pilates session (a newish venture) and an assisted stretching appointment where I found myself in a compromising position with my Flexologist when she revealed details about her polyamorous lifestyle. And she later shared that her kid is trans, possibly thinking we might have something in common. Don't worry, I quickly clarified that.

Apologies for being a cheapo with the content, but tune in for this very brief, if not abrupt, update...

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Sandi

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Some comments about Panera's shocking lethal lemonade. 

Then, I sit down with a dear friend who opens up about her journey. After six years together, her partner's decision to transition gender sparked a serious shift in their relationship. From the initial discussion to the swift decision for bilateral mastectomy surgery without any psychiatric eval. She deliberately avoided the psychiatric evaluation and searched for a surgeon virtually who would perform the mastectomy without requiring one. 

Also, just a little bit about the  devolved state of lesbian nightlife. 

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Some comments about Panera's shocking lethal lemonade. Then, I sit down with a dear friend who opens up about her journey. After six years together, her partner's decision to transition gender sparked a serious shift in their relationship. From the initial discussion to the swift decision for bilateral mastectomy surgery without any psychiatric eval. She deliberately avoided a psychiatric evaluation and searched for a surgeon who would perform the mastectomy without requiring one. 

Also, just a little bit about the  devolved state of lesbian nightlife. 

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Just some thoughts on LGBTQ+ and how Transgender activism is impacting the Lesbian world.

 Planet Fitness Transgender Policy (referenced during episode)
https://t-nation.com/t/planet-fitness-transgender-policy/287277

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