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This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement.

2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines?

4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit?

5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy?

8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard?

12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer?

14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low?

17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life

19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try

24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive?

29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm?

32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it?

34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido?

37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do?

38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why?

41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories

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I’m joined by Claire from All Aboard ADHD, and it’s one of those conversations that feels like sitting down with a friend who just gets it. Claire shares how a simple moment at the school gate—just looking for connection—grew into something much bigger: a community of parents navigating life with ADHD. What started locally has become a powerful space of support, encouragement, and shared understanding.

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Claire brings so much passion and heart to the conversation—especially around helping others understand their brains and not feel so alone. Whether you’re just starting to explore ADHD in your family, or you’ve been walking this road for a while, there’s something in this episode that will speak to you.

We cover everything from building community, making sense of your own neurodivergent experience, and finding ways to create connection and support when the world can feel a bit too much.

I hope this episode reminds you that there’s a place for you—that you don’t have to navigate this alone, and that finding your people really does change everything.

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Today's reading is Mark 13-15.

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Today's reading is Mark 10-12.

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Today's reading is Mark 7-9.

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This past year, we have had the joy of getting to know the wise and wonderful Jodie Berndt! So many of you have read Praying the Scriptures for Your Children (of all ages) and are now watching her new show, Mom Life Unscripted! If you haven’t, you’re sure going to want to by the end of this episode! We got to talk with Jodie about praying for kids (and grandkids) and helping them fall in love with Scripture at each stage of life. This is going to be one you’re going to want to take a LOT of notes!

"Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard. A scroll of remembrance was written in his presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name." Malachi 3:16

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If you’ve ever felt emotionally exhausted—even while doing all the “right” things—this episode is for you.

I’m sharing a personal story and unpacking something I see in so many women I work with: the quiet, often unnoticed pattern of denying your own needs in the name of being kind, helpful, or faithful.

We’ll talk about how these patterns take root, how faith communities can unknowingly reinforce them, and why that emotional exhaustion you’re feeling might be trying to tell you something important.

In this episode, I explore:

* How codependency hides behind helping & overfunctioning

* How the fawn response might be showing up in your life

* The impact of church messages that tell us to "die to ourselves" without teaching us how to live

* What healthy dependence looks like

* Why your locus of control—internal vs. external—matters more than you think

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It's not really about the food. In today's episode, Lily discusses the real reason why disordered eating habits begin and how she overcame her food obsessed. She covers topics like body image struggles, anxiety, extreme stress, and more.

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