Trusting God rarely comes with all the details upfront, and Mary’s story reminds us just how costly obedience can be. Faced with fear, uncertainty, and the very real possibility of public shame, Mary chose surrender over self-protection. Her response shows that trusting God doesn’t mean understanding everything—it means believing He is good even when the path forward feels risky and unclear.
Highlights
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Mary’s calling disrupted her plans, reputation, and future
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Obedience often requires surrender before clarity arrives
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Trust means saying yes even when the cost feels heavy
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Mary praised God in the middle of uncertainty, not after it passed
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God’s plans may not align with our expectations, but they are always purposeful
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Surrender positions us to participate in what God is doing, not just observe it
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Faith grows when we value God’s will over our comfort
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How Mary’s Surrender Teaches Us to Trust
By Hannah Benson
Bible Reading:
“And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.” - Luke 1:46-49 ESV
Have we ever stopped to consider how Mary may’ve felt when the angel Gabriel visited her? She was just a young girl, newly betrothed to Joseph. While the Bible doesn’t share with us her exact age, scholars speculate she may have been as young as 14.
Now consider the fear that likely coursed through her veins when Gabriel delivered the news that she, an unmarried virgin, would bear a son.
How scandalous!
Perhaps questions ravaged through her mind: What would people think? No one would believe her if she told them the truth. With a pregnancy outside of marriage, the townspeople would stone her.
And Joseph?
Would he believe her? If he didn’t, surely he’d feel betrayed.
Instead of arguing or begging the Lord to choose someone else, Mary simply asked, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” (v. 34).
Though the plan didn’t make sense to her, she chose to swallow her fears. Hard.
As Luke writes in verse 38, Mary humbly responds: “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word”. And the angel departed from her.”
Sometimes, I wonder if Mary knew