The Lily Pod

not us idolizing the makeover scene in every childhood movie ever!!!!! this week's ep is all about the "glow-up": why it's there, why we love it, and why we need to throw it out the window. 

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]this episode's all in the title. today we're unpacking the "not all men" argument in allllllll its magnificently ignorant glory, with some conversation about male entitlement, the impact of derailing conversations, and why you should stop prioritizing men's feelings today!!!

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happy international women's day!!!! this week is a continuation of last week's episode on feminism! in this one, we're talking about everything from implications that come with the word feminist, to palatable feminism, to the difference between so-called "good" and "bad" feminists, to ranting about the ever-present internalized male gaze. stay 'til the end for some book recommendations written by different feminist authors!

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in this episode, we're talking allllll about feminism - the different types, some histories, and answering some of your questions about feminist issues. from chatting about the "#feminazi", the shaming of body hair, womanism, and the process of learning, this episode's a busy one!!

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we're debunking the myth of the cool girl!!!!  this episode is inspired by Gillian Flynn's Gone Girl monologue that sparked a mini revolution in understanding the male fantasy archetype that socializes us into constantly chasing an unattainable standard built to pin women against each other. 

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the title of this episode baaaasically sums it up BUT to give you a quick run-down: in this episode we're exploring the biiiiig wide confusing world of gender in ALL its nuanced glory. we'll talk about different gender models, gender components, categorization, and some ideas of how to start unravelling the layers of (sort of?) understanding gender as a concept. 

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let's talk about the male gaze!!! -- what it looks like, how it shows up, who it serves, & why we internalize it.

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do you actually want to get married or are you just so used to complying with heteronormative rights of passage and being spoonfed capitalist values that you forgot to ask yourself if marriage is even your thing??? << BIG vibes of this episode --- unpacking the heterosexual imaginary, addressing capitalism's role in the wedding spectacle, and questioning why we ever wanted a big white wedding in the first place.

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in this episode, we're diving into what it means to be bisexual in a world of binary thinking -- dealing with heteronormativity,  queer imposter syndrome, internalized biphobia, and the forever haunting male spectatorship. 

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tune in and listen to a former 'not like other girls' gal ramble on about the projection of internalized misogyny, unrealistic patriarchal standards, and holding yourself accountable for upholding toxicity.

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