Do you love drama?

I'm being facetious here.

I'm talking about today's subject; What do you do when life throws you a curve ball?

And what does this have to do with our self-esteem.

We will go through a process to figure out not only what our gut reaction is, how we feel about it and what we'd rather do instead, but also how to cultivate the space to respond in times of crisis instead of react.

If this interests you, please join us for Day 8!

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Let's celebrate!

It's more than just a fun thing to do. It's essential to your self-esteem journey.

Today we'll talk about the elements that will support you in the continuation of this journey including the role of Dopamine. We'll talk about self-efficacy and how it affects your eventual performance.

But most of all, we'll celebrate you and show up for an entire week to take your self-esteem to the next level!

Go YOU!

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Today we tackle habits.

New choices create change.

If we repeat these new choices, they become a habit.

Habits become part of who we are and who we are is our contribution to every situation.

We're going to build on yesterday's theme of worthiness and its connection to self-esteem. Our 5-step process today centers around crafting a mantra that will support a change in how we feel about our worth until it hits the habit stage and becomes part of our improved self-esteem.

Here are the steps:

1. Stillness to Find Truth

2. Ask the Question: "Am I worth it?"

3. Listen for your truth to define "IT"

4. Craft your Mantra

5. Use the snot out of it.

If this interests you in the least, take the next few minutes and join us on this journey. Whether it's your first day toward enhanced self-esteem or your 6th....thanks for being you and being here!

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Worthiness.

Just the word alone is heavy.

We're going to see if we can lighten it up a bit by tackling an even heavier word, selfishness. Oof!

Are you ready?

So the steps go like this:

1. Open Your Eyes

2. Think About It

3. Do It

4. Assess It

5. Ponder It

Nope, those won't make sense until you listen to Day 5. But after, they'll be a great reminder so you can repeat todays steps any time you like.

I hope you join us on the journey.

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Today is about your gut health, but not in the traditional way.

In the intuitive, "gut feeling" way.

We're going to get really honest about how much you actually "go with your gut"

Why?

Because when you are in tune with your gut, and build that relationship, you're leveling up your ability to moment-by-moment assess your self-esteem.

Here are todays steps:

1. Get Quiet

2. Get Familiar

3. Get Judgemental

4. Get Across the Possibilities

If any of that sounds like just what you need to knock that new goal out of the park - come along for the ride!

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Here's where it gets real!

Well, okay, it has been real before, but today we dive in a little deeper.

We're going to engage the mean voice in our head. You know the one. Yep. That one. And we're going to go toe-to-toe with it.

If that excites you, or causes a bit of anxiety, or even interests you in the slightest....please join in!

When I do this set of 5 simple steps, I get different results every time. But each time is just as powerful AND it's exactly what I need in the moment!

Here's what we do:

1. Push Yourself Aside.

2. Listen.

3. Have a Conversation

4. Ask a Key Question - "What would happen if we worked together?"

5. Live and Ponder.

That's it!

I think you'll be surprised with the results. I always am! In fact, it's never something I want to do....but it's always so powerful I wonder why I resisted it in the first place. Maybe because it goes to places I don't think I'm ready for...

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What is self-esteem anyway?

Who cares?

It's more important what self-esteem is to YOU! Today we find that definition through 4 easy steps.

1. We ask ourselves that question. What is Self-Esteem

2. We talk to Future YOU.

3. We ask Future YOU what aspect of Self-Esteem is the most important.

4. We ponder our personal definition of Self-Esteem.

Yes, there are nuances to each of those questions. But if you're short on time, go ahead and get started! If you want to dive a bit deeper and have about 10 minutes, let's do them together.

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Are you Locked and Loaded, ready for life?

We've talked lots about your WHY (your passion, your mission). This time we pair it with your true form of self-expression to get that fire to the surface!

When you are locked and loaded with your why and self-expression moving in unison, nothing in this ever-changing world can sway you from your path.

Here's the link to Craig Harper's podcasts - the one I refer to is "The You Project" episode #1066

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://myspiritualcenter.wordpress.com/2023/02/16/locked-and-loaded-your-why-plus-your-self-expression-is-your-safety/

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What is your Why?

It goes by a dozen different names, but basically your why is that thing...that vision...that guiding light when the whole world goes dark.

In today's episode we'll look at a few attributes of your why that make it shine it's brightest plus 6 easy questions to ask (and keep asking) to dive into the very depths of your subconscious and extract your personal bit of gold!

I hope you enjoy it and gain a deeper understanding of what makes you...uniquely YOU!

You'll find Brene Browns List of Values Here.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://myspiritualcenter.wordpress.com/2023/02/02/why-6-easy-questions-to-find-out/

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