The Lonely Leader

The Lonely Leader

By James RuleBusiness
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  • How Google Assess Their Leaders

    EPISODE TWENTY SEVEN

    How Google Assess Their Leaders


    SUMMARY

    Google is renowned for sourcing employee feedback to drive innovation and growth. In this episode James Rule explores thirteen questions they pose to staff to assess the performance of management. 


    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    I would recommend my manager to others - The ultimate acid test of our leadership. Would your staff recommend you to others?

    The model of managing performance through an annual appraisal is antiquated and no longer fit for purpose.

    Leaders must reman cognisant of the need to develop their people.

    Information needs to flow and not be hoarded.

    How would your direct reports answer these questions based on how you are currently leading them?

    What do you need to change in your leadership style to ensure that should these questions get asked you receive answers you are proud to hear.


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  




    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT 


    Episode 11 - Leadership Essentials: Delegation 


    Episode 21 - Value Your People


    Episode 25 - Leadership pitfalls to Avoid 


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    Website www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    Email: [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    20 min
  • Ten Ways to Tackle Worry

    EPISODE TWENTY SIX

    Ten Ways to Tackle Worry


    SUMMARY


    Worry can be a persistent companion, whispering doubts and fears in our minds. This will compromise our performance and left unaddressed can impact our mental health. 


    It does not need to be that way. In this episode I share ten tried and tested strategies that will help you reduce worry and reclaim your piece of mind.


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    1. Physical Exercise
    2. Establish a routine 
    3. Limit information overload 
    4. Use a journal 
    5. Focus on what you can control 
    6. Challenge negative thoughts 
    7. Practice self care 
    8. Create a positive environment 
    9. Connect with a friend 
    10. Practice mindfulness and meditation 


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    19 min
  • Leadership Pitfalls to Avoid

    EPISODE TWENTY FIVE

    Leadership Pitfalls to Avoid 


    SUMMARY


    James Rule shares the Leadership Pitfalls that are the most common causes for leaders compromising their leadership impact. 


    By addressing these pitfalls leaders will massively enhance their performance and as a consequence that of their team.


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    1 Failure to delegate 

    2 Micro Management 

    3 Not listening 

    4 Not encouraging contrary opinions 

    5 Taking the credit 

    6 Not absorbing the blame

    7 Slow to praise and express gratitude 

    8 Playing favourites 

    9 Disconnect between words and action 

    10 Lack of composure 

    11 Ineffective performance appraisal 

    12 Failure to develop people 

    13 Failure to take care of physical and mental health 

    14 Lack of clarity

    15 Neglecting your personal growth and development 


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    What Do You Have To Break Through To Create Your Breakthrough?


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    21 min
  • What Do You Have To Break Through To Create Your Breakthrough?

    EPISODE TWENTY FOUR

    What Do You Have To Break Through To Create Your Breakthrough?


    SUMMARY


    The same barriers are articulated repeatedly by the clients of The Lonely Leader when they explain what is preventing them from making a critical breakthrough in the pursuit of their professional and personal goals. 


    In this episode James Rule highlights the ten most common barriers. Awareness is the first step to ensuring you do not get trapped in fear, overwhelm and procrastination. 


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    1. Lack of clarity 
    2. No plan 
    3. Lack of energy 
    4. Lack of support
    5. Fear of failure 
    6. Fear of judgement
    7. Lack of confidence 
    8. Procrastination 
    9. Ignoring gut instinct 
    10. Lack of belief 


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Leadership Pitfalls to Avoid


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    16 min
  • Lessons Learned from Burnout

    EPISODE TWENTY THREE

    Lessons Learned from Burnout 


    SUMMARY SECTION 


    Collapsing with Pneumonia was a physical manifestation of burnout. The recovery process provided James with time to reflect on what brought him to that point and what needed to change as a consequence. 


    In this episode James Rule explores the lessons learned from this experience, that he continues to draw upon in his work as a coach, trainer and mentor. 


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    Work ethic is essential but work ethic without a focus on mental and physical recovery is dangerous.

    We need to establish a proactive as opposed to reactive morning routine. One that energises us and empowers our mindset.

    There is a need for a renewed focus on sleep quality and creating an evening routine to optimise sleep.

    Delegation - Failing to delegate is an accelerator to burnout.

    Structure your calendar and To Do List. All tasks and meetings are not created equal.

    Practice visualisation. It is widely embraced in sport and the military but under utilised in industry.

    Learning - Prioritise continuous learning.

    Take a holistic view to high performance. Focussing solely on your professional role will not truly optimise performance. 




    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    What Do You Have To Break Through To Create Your Breakthrough?


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 min
  • Creating Psychological Safety in a Team

    EPISODE TWENTY TWO

    Creating Psychological Safety in a Team


    SUMMARY


    James Rule defines Psychological Safety as a shared belief held by members of a team that they will not be punished, ridiculed or embarrassed for speaking up and sharing their opinion. 


    When a leader is able to facilitate Psychological Safety it provides an X factor for creating and sustaining high performance in their team.  


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 


    What is Psychological Safety?

    What are the warning signs every leader should know that confirm it does not exist in their team?

    Why is it so important to facilitate? What are the benefits for the leader and the organisation?

    What simple steps can any leader implement to ensure they are creating and maintaining in their team? 


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Lessons Learned from Burnout 


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    22 min
  • Value Your People

    EPISODE TWENTY ONE

    Value Your People


    SUMMARY SECTION 

    Leaders must make their people feel valued. Doing this effectively creates high performing teams with enhanced levels of fulfilment. In this episode James Rule shares ten tips that every leader can adopt to ensure their team feel valued. 


    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    Pay

    Interest in staff as people not just employees

    Active listening 

    Speak their language 

    Family first 

    Candid and consistent performance appraisal 

    Delegate and resist micro management 

    Personal touch of handwritten note or gift

    Three parts to praise 

    Birthdays off


    ABOUT THE HOST 

    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Creating Psychological Safety in a Team


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    25 min
  • Tackling Imposter Syndrome

    EPISODE TWENTY

    Tackling Imposter Syndrome



    SUMMARY SECTION 


    Practically every client of The Lonely Leader has wrestled with Imposter Syndrome at some point on their leadership journey. In this episode James Rule provides tried and tested tips to help you combat the syndrome.


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    Experience is irrelevant. Imposter Syndrome can impact even the most seasoned of leaders.

    Accept your mistakes. Making mistakes does not mean you are an imposter.

    Accept you are a work in progress. We never stop learning.

    Rely on self validation as opposed to external validation.

    Always celebrate your wins.


    ABOUT THE HOST 


    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Value Your People



    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    13 min
  • Leadership Essentials: Courage

    EPISODE NINETEEN

    Leadership Essentials: Courage


    SUMMARY


    James Rule has compiled a list of Leadership Essentials. They are drawn from his experiences and insights as a chief executive, coach, mentor and from decades of research. 

    These essentials should form an integral part of every leadership style. The series continues with a focus on courage and the impact it can have on creating high performing individuals and organisations.


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 


    Leadership requires courage:

    To make a decision 

    To give inexperienced talent a chance 

    To delegate 

    To admit you have a skills gap

    To show vulnerability 

    To be disliked


    ABOUT THE HOST 


    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    LEADERSHIP ESSENTIALS EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Leadership Essentials: Authenticity 

    Leadership Essentials: Delegation



    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    12 min
  • Reclaim Control Over Digital Distraction

    EPISODE EIGHTEEN

    Reclaim Control Over Digital Distraction 


    SUMMARY


    “I struggle to be present” and “I do not have time” are the two frustrations most frequently expressed by clients to James during his coaching and mentoring. He believes that digital distraction is a major cause. In this episode he discusses a range of steps to help you reclaim control over your digital distraction. 


    KEY TAKEAWAYS 

    1. Do not use mobile phone as an alarm.
    2. Schedule a window for reading and responding to Email.
    3. Use Out of Office.
    4. Not all messages are created equal.
    5. Resist Copy All Culture.
    6. The old ways are often the best ways.
    7. Turn off notifications. 
    8. Track and reflect. 


    ABOUT THE HOST 


    James Rule is an experienced mentor, coach and thought leader who works with a range of clients from FTSE 100 companies, SME´s the NHS and wider public and not for profit sectors.


    His twenty year career in elite sport initially as a professional rugby player but predominantly as a chief executive has given him an invaluable insight in managing the success, failures and pressures associated with leadership at the highest level.


    As a high performance coach James specialises in enhancing resilience and leadership development. He is a passionate advocate of the notion that to find lasting fulfilment we need to take a holistic view of high performance and create it in both our professional roles and personal lives.  


    EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT

    Tackling Imposter Syndrome


    CONNECT & CONTACT 

    www.thelonelyleader.co.uk

    The Lonely Leader's LinkedIn

    James' LinkedIn

    Instagram

    [email protected] 

    THIS SHOW WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY LONELY LEADER MEDIA 


    NEWSLETTER

    Sign Up to The Leadership Accelerator Newsletter for advice, inspiration and ideas, you'll also receive James' Top 10 Tips for Combating Your Fear of Public Speaking.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    16 min

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