Retirement isn’t just about 401(k)s and Social Security. It’s also about your identity, your routines, your relationship, and that strange feeling of waking up with nowhere to be.

In this episode, Rick and Clancy sit down with retirement coach Wendy Leggett to talk about the non-financial side of retirement: what makes it hard, what makes it meaningful, and how to approach it with curiosity instead of fear. Wendy shares thoughtful advice for individuals and couples navigating this transition.

Whether you’re five years out or already a few months in, this one’s packed with real, useful insight.

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro

1:11 What does a retirement coach do?

2:41 Why retirement can be a struggle

5:10 Identity shifts after work

7:09 How to thrive in retirement
8:44 Transition vs. change
11:26 When couples have different visions
14:44 Respecting the stay-at-home spouse’s role
18:39 Feeling like a stranger in your own home
20:09 Are you really ready to retire?
22:10 When to talk to a retirement coach

24:39 Wendy’s 8-session coaching process
26:13 Free coaching session + workbook offer
27:43 Final thoughts and thank you

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The house is quiet again... and we’re back in the studio. The return of the empty nest, even for the 3rd time, stirs up a wide range of feelings. 

In this milestone 100th episode, we reflect on how much has changed... since starting the podcast, since our first round of empty nest living, and even just since last summer. From Iceland inside jokes to unexpected museum noises to the rediscovery of personal space (and skinny dipping), we talk through the return of the quiet, what we’ve learned, and why we’re still choosing each other in year three.

And mostly... we just want to say thank you. This podcast exists because of you. Whether you’ve listened to one episode or all 100, your support means everything.

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro + back in the studio

1:00 Thanking you for 100 episodes

2:35 A summer of nonstop travel

4:16 Iceland memories and inside jokes

6:10 Watching our kids connect as adults

8:50 When the empty nest fills back up

10:50 Adjusting when she moves back out

16:50 Choosing to say yes

22:40 Finding friends in the empty nest

24:41 Final thoughts + thank you

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You’re a couple again... but it doesn’t feel quite the same.

This Greatest Hits episode takes us back to the early weeks of our empty nest life. The routines technically returned... but everything about them felt different. From light trash cans to creepy museum portraits to the moment the house goes quiet and it hits you all over again... this one’s for anyone staring down the weird, slow shift from full house to two place mats at dinner.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro
1:20 Back to routine...ish
3:30 First day photo tradition
5:10 Grocery carts and empty trash cans
6:50 Two placemats at dinner
8:15 What do weekends look like now?
11:00 Walks, weather, and rediscovering each other
13:10 Fort Worth day trip: museum and cocktails
17:10 “The Clancy” is born
20:00 That first boring Sunday
25:00 The loudness of the quiet
28:30 Even the cat is adjusting

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Some parenting lessons don’t hit until you’re in a parking lot, crying with your kid, trying to help them through something you can’t fix.

This Greatest Hits episode from our first season walks through a tough moment with our daughter Teagan... her first big roommate conflict in college... and how we had to learn a new way to parent her through it. From awkward campus moments to the heartbreak of long-distance support, we’re revisiting this story now because we know so many of you will be in this season soon. The drop-offs may be done, but the emotional aftermath is just around the corner.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro to Greatest Hits episode
0:31 Why this topic hits home for parents
2:23 Parents Weekend: Fun and emotional whiplash
5:04 Watching other families struggle
6:51 Letting adult kids make decisions
9:58 Handling downtime with your college kid
14:50 Parking lot tears and a hard goodbye
18:09 Roommate conflict from a distance
21:08 The instinct to fix everything
24:47 Letting them handle it... but staying close
26:26 Supportive friendships make all the difference
29:00 Growth, resolution, and a sigh of relief
34:34 The next visit: hoping for peace
35:16 Final reflections

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The IKEA bags. The ramen in the pantry. The horse figurine in the car. This is the episode we recorded just days after becoming official empty nesters... and let’s just say, the tears were flowing.

Originally aired as Episode 2, this one holds a lot of heart. It’s a real-time look at what it feels like to leave your youngest at college... awkward silences, Target runs, unexpected breakdowns, and the surprising peace of watching your kid help someone else swipe into the dorm.

We're bringing it back now because we know so many of you are doing this exact thing. If you’re in the thick of drop-off season, this one’s for you.

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CHATPERS

0:00 Intro... why we're rerunning this
1:53 College drop-off season begins
3:18 The magic of IKEA bags
5:17 Triggers we didn’t expect
7:26 Two kids, two rival schools
10:50 Target runs and dorm shopping
13:03 Will they find their people?
15:29 The emotional wait to move in
18:22 Saying goodbye in the hallway
23:10 “I miss my cat” and other breakdowns
29:56 The surprise letter-writing moment
32:59 What every parent really wants
35:50 Visiting our son, softening the blow
38:54 The text that brought us back to Earth
42:36 The start of the quiet house

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Whether it’s your first college drop-off or your last, move-in season is a major milestone in empty nest life... and it comes with a LOT of moving parts.

In this episode, we walk through our favorite practical and emotional tips from years of college move-ins... what we’ve learned, what we wish we had known earlier, and what might help ease the transition for you and your student.

From the glory of IKEA-style blue bags to overlooked essentials like doorstops and duplicate chargers... it’s a wide range of help to get you through the move-in.  

We also share some emotional wisdom... how to help (but not hover), when to let your kid lead, and what to do when the tears hit (because they will hit). Whether you're moving in a freshman or helping a returning student settle in, this episode is here to support you through it all.

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro

1:31 Blue bags are still the MVP

4:00 Toolkits and first aid kits

5:27 Stay hydrated... water and snacks

6:56 Extension cords and power strips

7:38 Find the non-campus Target & Walmart

8:32 Amazon lockers are a lifesaver

9:45 Coordinate with other moms

11:21 Let them wander and explore

14:01 Help them... as much as they want you to

16:53 Let them lead on campus

19:52 Find something non-move-in to do

20:42 Be prepared. Be flexible

 21:33 Be ready for every emotion

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You’re never too old... or too deep into the empty nest... to go back to school.

In this episode of The Loud Quiet, we’re joined by our friends Scott and Eileen Nichols, fellow empty nesters, public school educators, and proud parents (and grandparents). They share why they each made the decision to pursue master’s degrees after the kids had left home... and what it’s really like to juggle classes, papers, marriage, and grandparenting. 

We talk about the emotional tug of parenting adult kids from afar, what it means to “rescue” without overstepping, and how a family of educators balances professional roles with personal ones. Oh... and we get a glimpse of what it’s like when your grandson goes to school... with his Gigi.

This episode is full of wisdom, warmth, and some real-life looks at how the empty nest season is far from a slow-down. It might just be the time you ramp things up.

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Meet Scott & Eileen Nichols

1:05 Why go back to school in the empty nest?

3:09 The surprising demands of grad school

6:02 Making space as a couple

8:59 Why they moved to Texas during COVID

10:37 Living near some kids... and far from others

12:36 When to step in for your adult child

15:13 The power of a one-bedroom apartment

15:44 Saturday waffles and family game night

17:06 A whole family of educators

19:35 Parenting vs. mentoring

20:01 Gigi at school with her grandson

21:33 Scott's podcast & conclusion

This week’s episode is a bit of a wild card... and we kind of love it that way.

We kick things off with three trivia questions from a recent night out…answers revealed at the end…before diving into a week that reminded us how the empty nest stage isn’t always as “empty” as it sounds. 

Clancy shares what it was like to step back into full “Mom Mode” after Teagan’s wisdom teeth surgery…complete with mashed peaches and emergency trash cans. Rick reflects on the emotional weight of writing his Nana’s eulogy, and the challenge of capturing 100 years in just a few minutes.

And then…we end with laughter, family trivia nights, and a sweet surprise in the form of a new relationship we didn’t expect to spark. 

This episode captures the heart of empty nest living: moments that pull us back, help us reflect, and remind us how much joy still lives in this stage.

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CHAPTERS 0:00 Trivia night teaser 1:12 Back in Mom Mode after wisdom teeth 7:26 What changed this time? 9:16 The gift of being needed 11:01 Writing Nana’s eulogy 15:23 The pressure to get it right 17:06 Capturing stories before they disappear 18:22 Life is short... say yes more 18:43 A love story with a trivia twist 21:52 Trivia, families, and letting the kids have their night 23:47 The trivia answers revealed#relationships #marriage #recreation #podcast #EmptyNesters #EmptyNesting #Lifeafterkidsleave #Transitiontoanemptynest #Parentingjourney #Reinventingourselves #Newchapterinlife #Emptynestchallenges #Findingpurpose #Rediscoveringhobbies #Relationshipafterkids #Self-discovery #Preparingforanemptynest #Reconnectingasacouple #Growingtogetherafterkidsleave #Familydynamicsafterkidsleave #Supportsystemsforemptynesters #Tipsforsuccessfulemptynesting

Summer used to be packed with popsicles, pool days, and time together. But now... with one child living away and the other working long hours, it just feels different.In this episode of The Loud Quiet, we open up about what it’s been like navigating summer in the empty nest—almost. We talk through our attempts (and occasional misses) at staying connected with our adult kids during the summer months.

From making space for impromptu lunches to feeling guilty while working from home, we wrestle with how to show up for our kids while still honoring our own rhythm as a couple.There’s reflection, laughter, and even a teaser for a future episode on what it’s really like to work with your spouse. Spoiler: It includes impromptu Del Frisco happy hours.🎙️ How are you staying connected with your kids this summer? Join the conversation in The Loud Quiet - Empty Nest Living Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/theloudquiet📬 Want stories like this in your inbox each week? Subscribe to our newsletter https://theloudquiet.kit.com/signupCHAPTERS0:00 Summer connections with your adult children1:02 First summer without a child at home4:13 Working from home... but missing your kid upstairs9:33 The summer is flying by11:17 What are we going to do differently?15:22 Did we forget the kids while focusing on “us”?20:14 Teaser: Working with your spouse#relationships #marriage #recreation #podcast #EmptyNesters #EmptyNesting #Lifeafterkidsleave #Transitiontoanemptynest #Parentingjourney #Reinventingourselves #Newchapterinlife #Emptynestchallenges #Findingpurpose #Rediscoveringhobbies #Relationshipafterkids #Self-discovery #Preparingforanemptynest #Reconnectingasacouple #Growingtogetherafterkidsleave #Familydynamicsafterkidsleave #Supportsystemsforemptynesters #Tipsforsuccessfulemptynesting

Fireworks. Flags. Parades. The Fourth of July used to mean something very specific when the kids were young. But now... in the empty nest... the holiday looks a little different.In this episode of The Loud Quiet, we talk about how the Fourth has changed for us. From packed neighborhood traditions to quieter long weekends, and from firework memories with the kids to unexpected fun as empty nesters. We swap stories, laugh about red MGBs and parade chaos, and explore how this holiday keeps evolving.You might find yourself nodding along... or rethinking how you approach holidays in this season of life.🎙️ Do you still go big for the Fourth? Or has it turned into just another weekend? Let us know in The Loud Quiet - Empty Nest Living Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/theloudquiet📬 Want more real empty nest talk like this? Get the newsletter: Subscribe here https://theloudquiet.kit.com/signupCHAPTERS 0:00 Should we still celebrate the 4th on the 4th? 1:02 Early parades and why cities are shifting dates 2:22 Childhood Fourth of July memories and fireworks 6:06 Pets, backyard fireworks, and changing traditions 8:45 Parades, dating, and our red MGB memory 10:31 Fireworks by boat, blanket, or apartment balcony 14:05 Pool parties, pickup trucks, and Frisco fireworks 15:35 Competitive sports and the fading 4th tradition 18:14 Celebrating early: practicality or loss of tradition? 19:42 From homemade picnics to vendor-only events 21:44 Will adult kids reshape our future Fourths? 22:16 Share your Fourth of July memories with us#relationships #marriage #recreation #podcast #EmptyNesters #EmptyNesting #Lifeafterkidsleave #Transitiontoanemptynest #Parentingjourney #Reinventingourselves #Newchapterinlife #Emptynestchallenges #Findingpurpose #Rediscoveringhobbies #Relationshipafterkids #Self-discovery #Preparingforanemptynest #Reconnectingasacouple #Growingtogetherafterkidsleave #Familydynamicsafterkidsleave #Supportsystemsforemptynesters #Tipsforsuccessfulemptynesting