When you meet a guy you're intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You're not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn one simple trick to breaking the spell of the hot guy.

When you meet a guy you're intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You're not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn one simple trick to breaking the spell of the hot guy.

Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies, and travel? Does your vision of couple-hood look a lot like your life now - just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you're going to partner with a man who is your equal, you've gotta make space for him.

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Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies, and travel? Does your vision of couple-hood look a lot like your life now - just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you're going to partner with a man who is your equal, you've gotta make space for him - just like you want him to do for you.

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Are you an independent woman with a rich, full, single life? Are you generally busy with your work, your friends, your family, your hobbies and your travel? Does your vision of couplehood look a lot like your life now? Just with a man dropped in it, if that's the case, We've got to talk. 

Hi, I'm Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for Smart, Strong, Successful Women, and your Personal Trainer for Love. Welcome to the Love U Podcast. Stick around to the end to discover how to make smart compromises in love so you could actually be happy. When we're done I'll let you know how you can apply to Love U to create a passionate relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood. 

We're going to begin today with a story. It's always a story. Real people who've turned to me for love and have blind spots. In this case, the client's name is Cindy. Cindy's in her early 50s. She turned to me for Loving Masters coaching, which is private coaching. Her issue was that in her marriage for 20 years, she was kind of a doormat, even though she is an independent source. 

That's the interesting thing, is that I deal with women who are smart, strong, successful, have all the competence in the world, but within the context of their relationship, they don't carry themselves with confidence. 

So now that she's divorced and she's out there rebuilding her life from scratch, she's discovered what makes her happy. And she's really high on being single. And I hope that resonates with you. I want you to have an amazing time being single before your partner. 

So the issue is that Cindy didn't want to compromise in her future relationships because she compromised so much in her prior relationship in her marriage. She's basically come to the conclusion that all marriage is going to be like the one she had before, which isn't true. But in her experience, when you have a husband, he bosses you around, his parents boss you around,

Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients - one too passive, one too picky - to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealbreakers. Want to save YEARS of your life? Listen to this Love U Podcast.

Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients - one too passive, one too picky - to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealbreakers. Want to save YEARS of your life? Listen to this Love U Podcast.

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Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course you have. Every start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he's not the man for you? Of course you have. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why this is the very nature of dating - and how not to take it personally.

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Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course, you have. Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he's not the man for you? Of course, you have. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why this is the very nature of dating - and how not to take it personally.

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Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please leave a short review on Apple Podcasts.

Hi, I'm Evan Marc Katz, Dating coach for smart, strong, successful women and your personal trainer for love. Welcome to the Love U podcast. Stick around to the end to discover why we're all hypocrites when it comes to love and why it's essential to recognize our own hypocrisy. When we're done, I'll let you know how you can join Love U to create a passionate relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood. 

So true story, my client, Brianna, is a forty-nine year old, never married woman who's always been drawn to emotionally unavailable men. 

When she started Love U Masters coaching, Brianna meets this guy, comes on strong, calling her every day saying, "you're the one." And soon they're spending the night together four or five times a week. Now, like many relationships that start off hot and heavy, it feels great. Dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, chemistry, talking about a future, think I'm falling in love with you. 

And after a few weeks, Brianna starts to realize as she learns more about this guy who she's spending all of her time with, that something didn't feel quite right. And, she wasn't gonna come out and criticize him or tell him what was wrong with him, whatever her misgivings were. She just recognized that this thing that she thought was right wasn't right. She dove into the pool and there was no water in the pool, and she decided she needed to get out of the pool. So she breaks up with him. And he was shocked because everything seemed so great. But she did the right thing objectively. She did the right thing instead of continuing a relationship that didn't feel right. 

Now, would anybody, maybe you, doubt that Brianna is a good person? I wouldn't. She is my client. And if Brianna is a good person for diving into a hot and heavy relationship and then having second thoughts, doesn't it stand to reason that a man could do the exact same thing? Yeah. 

So that doesn't absolve they are actually bad men. There are bad men who just use you for sex without commitment and know they're doing something wrong. But I think there's a lot more situations like the one I just described with Brianna.

All relationships have conflict. The difference between a great relationship and a horrible one is how you manage that conflict. Listen to this very personal Love U Podcast where I share the one thing my wife and I always fight about - and how we're using this as an opportunity to get even stronger.

All relationships have conflict. The difference between a great relationship and a horrible one is how you manage that conflict. Listen to this very personal Love U Podcast where I share the one thing my wife and I always fight about - and how we're using this as an opportunity to get even stronger.