BOOM. When you start telling the truth about abuse, people get uncomfortable. This week, someone close to me said I “wasn’t over it.” That maybe this podcast—and my voice—were becoming my identity. But what they don’t understand is that truth-telling isn’t obsession—it’s liberation.

In this raw bonus episode, I break down the moment I realized the narcissist’s discard didn’t break me—it freed me. I share how he manipulated a court “expert” into believing I was still in love with him, and the brutal (yet ironic) truth about how I found out he left.

This one’s for every survivor who’s been called bitter, dramatic, or too much—for simply refusing to stay silent.

Mentioned in this episode:

•The scripted smear he used in court

•Why the discard didn’t crush me

•The legal warfare that came after

•The truth about that early trailer drop

•And what it really means to move on—with your voice intact.

Because this podcast? It’s not about him. It’s about us finally detonating silence.

Disclaimer:

The content of The Lovebombed podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are solely those of Stella Pierson and do not constitute legal, medical, or mental health advice.

While Stella shares personal experiences and insights as a survivor and advocate, she is not a licensed attorney or therapist. Any information discussed should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional legal or mental health counsel.

If you are in danger or experiencing abuse, please seek help immediately through local law enforcement or a trusted crisis resource.

Listener discretion is advised, especially as sensitive topics including narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, and trauma may be discussed.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

If You’ve Ever Been Lovebombed, Lied To, or Left in the Rubble of a “Perfect” Romance—This Episode Will Hit Like Truth Serum

In the latest episode of The Lovebombed, host Stella Pierson finally answers the question:

Who the hell is STELLLAAA!!!?

And trust us—this is not your typical “meet the host” episode.

It’s raw. It’s personal. It’s real.

Stella breaks down how a whirlwind romance turned into a psychological crime scene, why she started posting her truth on Instagram, and how her podcast is now officially launched into true crime—.

She doesn’t give us the whole saga (yet), but she does give us one unforgettable moment:

The night she met him.

Spoiler: You’ll never look at love-at-first-sight stories the same again.

Don’t come for me!!!! This story is a lifetime or two ago….

If you’ve ever wondered how someone goes from being “the love of your life” to your greatest betrayal—this is your episode. If this episode hit home, take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review The Lovebombed Podcast. It helps more survivors find their way to the truth.

Follow along on social media @thelovebombed for daily reminders, resources, and real talk.

I just opened a new IG for more personal and behind-the-scenes w/ Stella! 

Follow  @thestellapierson 

Email: [email protected]

Be a guest: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdpsekqhO4xJKye5b6hwDbEgdioKp6gqrX8xAi59J6A9aWNew/viewform

And if you or someone you know is in danger or needs immediate support, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You are not alone. Help is available.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER:

The views expressed in this podcast are personal opinions based on lived experiences. This content is intended for educational and storytelling purposes only and should not be considered legal, psychological, or medical advice.

The Lovebombed does not diagnose, treat, or offer professional services. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Names and identifying details may be changed or withheld to protect privacy.

Listener discretion is advised. Content may include themes of emotional abuse, domestic violence, and psychological manipulation. Please take care while listening.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

I’m Stella Pierson— and this isn’t a love story. It’s a crime scene.

The Lovebombed is a true crime podcast that exposes what happens when love is weaponized— when emotional abuse, coercive control, and psychological manipulation hide behind romance, charm, and “concern”—starting with the lovebomb.

This trailer is your warning label.

We call out dating red flags that felt like fireworks. We drag the lies that looked like love. And we shine a Flood light on the long con no one saw coming.

If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, blamed yourself for the chaos or watched your story get rewritten by someone with something to hide—-this is for you

Because it wasn’t drama. It wasn’t mutual. It was calculated.

And you’re not the crazy one. You’re a Bombshell now. And we rise together.

Love love, Stlz xx

Brand & IP Notice:

The Lovebombed™ and all associated taglines, designs, and content—including “It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.” and “Idealized, Devalued & Discarded by a Narcissist.”—are trademarks and intellectual property of Stella Pierson. All rights reserved. Unauthorized use or reproduction is strictly prohibited.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

New mic. Same host. It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

The Lovebombed™ Podcast  • Hosted by Stella Pierson. 

This isn’t a breakup podcast. It’s the unraveling of something much darker.

This podcast is for you if you’ve ever wondered:

• Is this love or emotional abuse?
• Why do I feel so off in this relationship?
• What are the signs of narcissistic or covert abuse?
• Am I being manipulated… or am I losing my mind?
• What is this doing to my kids?
• Should I be calling for help?

If you’ve asked the questions no one wants to hear out loud, The Lovebombed is here to answer them.

The Lovebombed traces the emotional aftermath of intense, toxic, and confusing relationships — starting with the moment it felt like love, and ending with the truth that it wasn’t. Each episode peels back another layer: from idealization and manipulation, to post-separation abuse and legal systems that miss the mark.

It begins with heartbreak.

But what it uncovers?

Might just be a crime scene.

Because eventually, you’ll see:

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.

Not all crimes are written in blood. Some are written in promises, in perfect timing, in overwhelming affection that feels like fate—until the mask slips. In this episode, we go back to the first lie of an abusive dynamic: the lovebomb.

Stella Pierson exposes how idealization isn’t love—it’s strategy. Learn why lovebombing works, what it steals from you, and how false intimacy is used to gain control.

This isn’t a breakup podcast. It’s a crime scene reconstruction. And every second of intensity was part of the setup.

(If you want to be a guest on The Lovebombed,™ stay tuned—sign up to email, below.)

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If this episode hit home, take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review The Lovebombed™ Podcast. It helps more survivors find their way to the truth.

Follow along on social media @thelovebombed for daily reminders, resources, and real talk.

Love love, Stlz 

Disclaimer:

The content of The Lovebombed™ Podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health provider, legal expert, or medical professional with any questions you may have regarding your specific situation.

Listening to this podcast does not create a client, therapist, or coaching relationship with Stella Pierson or The Lovebombed™. All opinions expressed are solely those of the host and guests and do not reflect the views of any affiliated organizations.

If you or someone you know is in danger or needs immediate support, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You are not alone. Help is available.

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions of emotional abuse, coercive control, and psychological manipulation. Listener discretion is advised.

Brand & IP Notice:

The Lovebombed™ and all associated taglines, designs, and content—including “It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.” and “Idealized, Devalued & Discarded by a Narcissist.”—are trademarks and intellectual property of Stella Pierson. All rights reserved. Unauthorized use or reproduction is strictly prohibited.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

We’re laying down the foundation of The Lovebombed™—telling stories as evidence of a crime scene. 

Lovebombing isn’t just manipulation.

It’s often the first crime at the scene—the gateway to deeper control and, sometimes, even darker crimes. 

Behind many lovebombs are early fingerprints of future harm:

stalking, coercive control, financial abuse, post-separation harassment, and in the most extreme cases, violence.

These patterns don’t always escalate to physical crimes.

But when they do, the warning signs were there—hidden in plain sight.

Lovebombing can be the first clue that something more dangerous is unfolding.

In this space, we expose how emotional crimes are minimized, overlooked, and too often ignored—until it’s too late.

We name the tactics. We trace the escalation.

We reclaim the story survivors were forced to silence.

If you’ve ever doubted yourself… if you’ve ever felt an unease you couldn’t explain… this episode is your confirmation.

You weren’t imagining it. You were standing at the first crime scene.

Welcome to The Lovebombed™

Intro/Outro Music:

“LOVEBOMBED” by LADSCLUB

Used with permission.

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LEGAL DISCLAIMER

The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice, medical advice, or a substitute for professional consultation.

The views expressed are those of the host and any guests and do not represent any official organizations or institutions.

Listeners are encouraged to seek their own legal, medical, or mental health advice from qualified professionals regarding their individual circumstances.

Listener discretion is advised.

xx Stlz

Brand & IP Notice:

The Lovebombed™ and all associated taglines, designs, and content—including “It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.” and “Idealized, Devalued & Discarded by a Narcissist.”—are trademarks and intellectual property of Stella Pierson. All rights reserved. Unauthorized use or reproduction is strictly prohibited.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

What if the greatest con was love itself?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the early stages of narcissistic abuse—the lovebomb, the pedestal, the promises. But this isn’t a story about romance. It’s about grooming. The Setup is where they disarm you with affection, lure you into dependency, then vanish when you need them most. We break down how love becomes the perfect alibi for psychological crimes, and how the discard phase isn’t the end—it’s just the beginning of post-separation abuse, smear campaigns, and silence by design.

If you’ve ever been told “It wasn’t that bad,” or questioned your own memories just to make peace, this episode is your proof: it wasn’t love. It was a setup.

Podcast Disclaimer – The Lovebombed: True Crime Edition

The content of this podcast is for informational and storytelling purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, legal advice, or medical guidance.

Some episodes may include descriptions of psychological abuse, coercive control, trauma, and other sensitive topics. Listener discretion is advised.

While the stories shared here are rooted in lived experience, names and identifying details may be changed or omitted to protect privacy and safety.

If you are in danger or need immediate support, please contact a licensed professional or reach out to a crisis line in your area.

The views expressed are those of the host and guests and do not reflect the opinions of any affiliated organizations. This podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or advise—only to name what others tried to erase.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

This wasn’t a breakup. It was a setup.

In this episode, Stella Pierson reveals why The Lovebombed is framed as a true crime podcast—and not relationship content. When love is used as a weapon and the system refuses to name it, survivors are left holding both the truth and the trauma.

Because coercive control is a pattern. A strategy. A crime.

Even when the courts won’t call it one.

IN THIS EPISODE:

•[00:00] The setup behind the illusion

•[05:00] What true crime really means

•[09:00] Lovebombing as psychological warfare

•[15:00] Crimes the system continues to miss

•[21:00] Why this podcast had to be more than healing

•[26:00] The rise of the Bombshells—and the reclaiming of truth

For support: thehotline.org | 800-799-SAFE (7233)

CONNECT WITH STELLA:

Instagram: @thelovebombed

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Website: www.thelovebombed.com

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LEGAL DISCLAIMER:

The information shared in this podcast is for educational, advocacy, and awareness purposes only. It reflects the lived experiences, research, and personal views of the host and is not intended to replace professional mental health, legal, or medical advice. While this podcast may discuss real systems, tactics, and survivor stories, no specific individuals or legal cases are named or referenced directly. Any similarities to real persons, living or dead, are purely coincidental.

If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please contact a licensed professional or support service.

• Because what happened to you was real.
• It was wrong.
• And you are not beyond repair.
• You’re a Bombshell now.
• And we rise together.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

He didn’t raise a fist.

But he raised doubt.

In this debut episode, host Stella Pierson unpacks how narcissistic abuse starts—not with violence, but with adoration. What feels like a fairytale is actually a setup: a psychological crime scene carefully disguised as love.

Stella takes listeners through her own story of lovebombing, gaslighting, financial control, and post-separation abuse—illustrating how coercive control operates in plain sight and why the justice system often fails to see it as a crime.

If you’ve ever questioned your reality, felt invisible bruises, or been told “it’s not abuse if he didn’t hit you”—this episode is for you.

Because some crimes don’t start with violence.

They start with love.

xx Stlz

Brand & IP Notice:

The Lovebombed™ and all associated taglines, designs, and content—including “It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.” and “Idealized, Devalued & Discarded by a Narcissist.”—are trademarks and intellectual property of Stella Pierson. All rights reserved. Unauthorized use or reproduction is strictly prohibited.

The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™

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The Lovebombed™ | Idealized, Devalued and Discarded by a Narcissist™

It wasn’t true love. It was TRUE CRIME.™