Rainer on Leadership

The Main Reason People Leave the Church


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Podcast Episode #003

Today we continue our discussion on church membership.
Last week we talked about what church membership is and what it means to be a church member—how it's not just having your name on a roll somewhere, but being actively involved in the ministry and function of your local community of faith. This week's episode deals with NOT being a church member. Specifically the main reason people LEAVE a church.
In an earlier post, I listed the following reasons people leave a church:

* “The worship leader refused to listen to me about the songs and music I wanted.”
* “The pastor did not feed me.”
* “No one from my church visited me.”
* “I was not about to support the building program they wanted.”
* “I was out two weeks and no one called me.”
* “They moved the times of the worship services and it messed up my schedule.”
* “I told my pastor to go visit my cousin and he never did.”

Do you see the theme there?
Here are the five ways I recommend closing the back door in churches:

* Inform church members.
* Raise the bar of expectations. 
* Mentor members.
* Train members. 
* Encourage people to be in small groups.

Episode Sponsor
You can pick up your copy of I Am a Church Member at your local bookstore or online retailer. At many retailers, churches can also get a bulk case of 20 for $5 per book to use in their churches.
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Resources Mentioned in this Episode

* I Am a Church Member by Thom Rainer
* The Present Future by Reggie McNeal
* Simple Church by Thom S. Rainer and Eric Geiger
* Mentor by Chuck Lawless
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