Hey Mamas, before we get really into this episode with my guest Ashley, I wanted to say a few things. First, this episode is titled “When You Can’t Smile” because we are going to be discussing postpartum anxiety and depression. The goal of this episode is to help other Mamas know that you’re not alone if you struggle with your mental health. I sincerely hope and pray that through hearing mine and Ashley’s stories, it will help get you to a place where you can smile.
This episode could be triggering for anyone who has dealt with depression and anxiety, especially postpartum. If this is hard for you to listen to, please give yourself the freedom to turn it off or listen to it another time. But if you are struggling here with these issues and you’re looking for encouragement and other moms to say “me too I struggle with this too” then you’re in the right place.
Second, I am not a doctor, counselor or mental health professional and neither is my guest. Please please please speak to a professional about anything related to your mental health. As you will hear in our stories, once we spoke with our doctors, we realized just how common this is and how many people struggle who don’t talk about it.
Third, please share this episode with your mom friends and then discuss it with them! I am a huge advocate of normalizing postpartum depression and anxiety and taking medication to help if necessary. Find someone you trust who is a safe place and start a conversation. You never know what is actually going on with someone until you’re both vulnerable.
Alright, now that I’ve introduced our topic, let me introduce our guest! Ashley Carbonatto is a domestically underachieving mom-of-three who juggles all the things. She's a gatherer of people, a welcomer to the outsider, a storyteller to the tired, and an entertainer to the downcast. After leaving a successful career, she re-discovered her voice and renewed purpose in motherhood, but in her own unconventional way. You need homemade frosting? She's not the one you call. But you need a good story and honest reflection? Ashley's your woman. She lives in Washington state with her husband & three minions, and always has a drink in the fridge for anyone who stops by. Enjoy my conversation with Ashley.
Find Ashley:
“More Than a Mom” book
Website:https://designstylepurpose.com/
Instagram: @ashley_carbo
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/designstylepurpose
Book she mentions: “To Hell with the Hustle” by Jefferson Bethke