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Sometimes all the ways men show love go unnoticed. Maybe you consistently take out the trash. Or always make sure the car is full of gas. Or, if you're Rob, maybe you make sure you are not infringing on copyright, because creation matters. No matter how you give love, I bet there are times it's not noticed and that sucks. 

On today's episode, Matt, Mike, and Rob break down how men give and receive love. There's not always grand gestures, but there is often consistency in the love men offer. I bet you're good at that. Yes, you Spaceman. You gem of a man you. 

And now, Rob does what is now offered to us through AI, cause I'm not going to be taken over by a machine. 

00:35--Mike smoothly welcomes us
03:48--Rob chickens out on playing copyrighted material
45:26--Rob probably makes a bad joke and makes fun of Mike...probably.
52:3..you know what, this is hard. Maybe I should lean into AI. I, for one, welcome our supreme overlords. 

Also, the clip for New Girl is listed here. Look. That's personal attention to detail. We love you spacemen. Now love us back, or else how will we know that we are even? 

https://youtu.be/Y331RYPpCJc

Does anyone read this far down? 

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What happens when you get the thing you've been asking for? Do you freak out and ruin it? Do you lean in to get more? Maybe you pass it off like you didn't really want it, but they did. Like, I'm not crying, you're crying! Well, don't worry. As per usual, we have you covered on the Manspace. Matt, Mike, and Rob challenge some of the ideas we have about men,  attachment, and vulnerability. We'll make you so comfortable with getting what you're asking for that you'll get even more--creating an out-of-control positive feedback loop. Come on. Get in here. 

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If you're like me, you LOVE hearing about self care. You probably hear about it so much, you just wish there were more hours in the day so you could hear more people say they are practicing self care. Well good news! On today's episode, the guys talk about what self care is and what it's not. Spoiler alert, a LOT of people are doing it wrong. Self care is not an excuse to avoid something. Self care is work. So put on your work pants and listen in. Let's get CARING!

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Feeling something for that special someone? Not sure if it's time to take it to the next level of commitment? On your next date, just put Matt, Mike, and Rob in your pocket. We'll let you know when it's time to up the ante. Good thing we're here. This week, we talk about what it takes to create the kind of committed relationship that will make it through the long haul. Do we have all the answers? Do we ever not? Try us. And then tell your friends to try us as well. Then you can start a sort of Manspace book club. Get together with your bros and gab about all the latest Manspace antics. Share your thoughts and feelings. Become better dudes. 

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Picked a bummer topic for this one...Or did we? This week, Matt, Mike, and Rob tackle an oft-asked question--How do I know if my relationship is done. Turns out, the answer isn't as simple as it sounds. And, perhaps not surprisingly, the dudes take a bit of a more gray approach to the topic. There's a lot to know and understand and even work on before you decide the relationship is over. Listen in and get to work. 

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Alright sheeple, it's time we tell you the truth--you're just numbers to us. Just kidding. We love spacemen. And even though we don't know you all personally, you mean something to us as fellow spacemen and human beings. To prove that, today we are talking about how we objectify each other and how that might damage us as humans. We get all philosophical and talk about how we can start seeing each other as humans worthy of dignity in order to create more connection in our relationships. Listen and stop treating us like objects. 

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On today's episode, Matt, Mike, and Rob get real deep and philosophical--spiritual even. We talk about the role of faith or spirituality or just something bigger than ourselves can affect us as men. And of course, Matt blows our minds. Does he ever not? 

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Get ready for a very serious talk. There's not a single joke in this episode. We are serious, mature men how have serious, mature relationships. So get all the potty humor out now; there's no place for it in Mature Manspace. 

This week, Matt, Mike, and Rob discuss what mature love looks like and how couple can progress through relationship stages. We talk about infatuation, power struggle, commitment, and deep connection and how you might be in one stage in one part of your relationship and different stage in another part. By the end of the episode, you'll be as mature as us. 

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Does money stress you out? It stresses me out. And for that reason, today's episode has a $5 fee. Just pop a check in the mail. I would really appreciate it. Today, Matt, Mike, and Rob break down finances in relationships and share a few get rich quick schemes that will change your life. Fine. That last part isn't true. But we do talk about why finances are an issue for men and for most couples. We'll share some tips and ideas on how to manage it and how to talk about it in your relationship. And Rob recommends his favorite budget software YNAB. You'd think they sponsored the episode. They didn't, but I wouldn't say no if they offered! Listen in. Get rich. Or at least listen in. Free of charge. 

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I put the MAN part on the first word again. I don't want us to forget that we are men and we are everywhere. Or I think I'm cute. Probably number B. Anyway. this week, we miss Matt again as Mike and Rob discuss past relationships and how they come up in our current one. Many couples struggle to manage past relationships and even outside friendships with the opposite sex. Some partners feel jealous or threatened by those relationships and fall into patterns of not talking about it until it becomes a problem. Well guess what, that's not the best approach. Don't worry though, we have the best approach. Or at least some ideas that might be helpful. Grab your partner and dosey-doe...I mean have a listen. 

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