What is the line between oversharing and being vulnerable online?
What is the key to unlocking our business AND ourselves?
How do we come to terms with our shame?
Who should have the right to hear our story?
Do you love Brené Brown?
If you want to know the answer to these questions or simply love Brené Brown, then this episode is for you.
My guest today is Byrdie Funk. Her passion is helping women overcome what keeps them small. She’s a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator (CDWF) and a Registered Professional Counsellor (RPC) in private practice and online.
Byrdie wants to help people learn how to look at themselves in the mirror and actually LOVE who they see looking back at them. She wants you to feel good about who you are and what you stand for and engage with the world around you from that place!
She’s so passionate about it because there was a time, where she didn’t like who she was. She had few hopes and dreams and was afraid of failing that she never bothered. And then she found Brené Brown’s work and learned the tools that she needed to live out her newfound life.
She learned how to be herself; she learned how to be all in and what it means to live a BRAVE life; she learned how to get back up when she fell.
And now she’s excited to share this life-changing work with you!
Byrdie brings it in this conversation and I guarantee you'll get actionable takeaways from this episode.
Byrdie’s book recommendation (and one of my all time faves): The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown.
HIGHLIGHTS OF OUR CONVERSATION
1:24 - Getting to know Byrdie
2:44 - How Byrdie's journey led her to her own counselling practice
4:37 - Living life on your own timeline
5:43 - Taking a risk, being brave, saying yes, and meeting Brené Brown
10:30 - Exploration and insights of shame and vulnerability
15:22 - Misconceptions of shame and vulnerability
19:03 - FInding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing on social media
22:50 - Marketing ourselves through an intentional vulnerability
26:46 - Choosing who you allow to hear your story
29:17 - How Byrdie manages trolls
32:46 - Keeping a cool head through (online) conflicts
36:22 - Dealing with triggers and the stories we tell ourselves
42:19 - Why mindset work is foundational for everything
46:28 - How to get people to see the real you on social media
48:00 - Start with values
50:57 - Byrdie's recommendation
51:30 - Byrdie's one-takeaway
CONNECT WITH BYRDIE
Check out her website - https://byrdiefunk.com/
Follow her on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/byrdiefunk/
ABOUT ME
Hi! I’m Mikayla, Social Media Strategist and Certified Life Coach. I help creatives and service-based online entrepreneurs grow their audience and online presence through compelling content and connection-based marketing.
After nearly 7 years in social media marketing and 4 years in online business, I’ve learned a thing or two about what it means to show up strategically, consistently, and effectively (aka in a way that attracts people to you and your business who are ready to hand over the cash)!
My holistic approach to social media gives you both the practical strategies and the mindset work needed to confidently and consistently show up on social media in a whole new way. Let me show you how!
Find me at my website - https://mikaylavictoria.com/
Connect on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themikaylavictoria
Grab your 7 Steps to Social Media Success Checklist - https://www.mikaylavictoria.com/checklist
CREDITS
Interview - Byrdie Funk
Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect with Andrew at Andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.