The Mating Grounds Podcast

Signalling is one of the most important things you need to understand about communication, and in fact, it is the foundation that everything else is built upon. Almost everything that we’re going to tell you about sex and dating is about the signals you’re sending out or how you should interpret signals other people are sending out, and this episode tells you what you need to know.

This week we interview Jordan Harbinger, the co-founder of the Art of Charm, a podcast (and coaching company) that helps guys be better with women. In this episode, Tucker and Jordan discuss where the PUA industry is going wrong, and the correct way to approach dating and relationships.

One of the defining emotions in all types of relationships is fear. In this Q&A, Tucker, Geoff, and Nils address this issue, spurred by a high school kid who likes a girl, but is scared she may not feel the same way. This is a great question, and this episode begins by explaining why the question is so good, then teaches you everything you need to know about how to deal with fear in cases like this, including what the signs are that a girl is interested, how to ask her out, what the best first date is, and what to do if things don’t work out.

In America, it can be very hard for Asian guys to have success with non-Asian women. In this Q&A, Tucker, Geoff, and Nils discuss what to do if you’re an Asian guy struggling with non-Asian women, and what you need to do in order to solve this problem.

Many guys think they have to play it cool and act aloof around women. But what about high energy guys? Do they have to reign in their impulses, or is there a way to use their energy to their benefit when talking to women? In this Q&A, Tucker, Geoff, and Nils discuss the downsides and upsides that come along with being a high-energy guy, and how to turn it to your advantage.

This week’s episode is part one of a thirteen-part series explaining everything you need to know to become attractive to women. In the first part of this series, Tucker and Geoff discuss their embarrassing stories from when they were younger, sharing all the mistakes they made and what they learned from them. This is the funniest episode yet, and Tucker shares the discovery that quintupled his success.

This week’s guest is Dr. Diana Fleischman, an Evolutionary Psychologist at the University of Portsmouth. In this episode, Dr. Fleischman, Tucker, and Geoff discuss a wide range of topics including how nerdy guys can be attractive, men’s desire for sexual novelty, the importance of hygiene, ethics and attraction, and the importance of finding someone who fits with your personality.

In this Q&A, Tucker, Geoff, and Carin discuss how to get better in bed. The first step is understanding what it even means to be "good in bed," which entails figuring out why you want to get better and what your specific goals are. Once you've done that, the best path forward is experimentation--because there is no such thing as one way to be "good in bed." Tucker, Geoff, and Carin explain exactly how to do this.

In this Q&A episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Carin discuss what to say when a woman asks how many women you've slept with. There are several ways to approach this, and each situation is different. When a woman asks this question, she has a reason for asking it, and this episode explains how to find out that reason and address it.

In this Q&A episode, Tucker, Geoff, and Carin discuss how living with your mom affects your mate value, and what you can do to frame it in the best way possible.