In this thought-provoking episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis explore the concept of moving beyond singular assessment tools, such as the Enneagram, Birkman, DISC, or MBTI. While these instruments can provide valuable insights into personality, behaviour, and preferences, they are not the ultimate answer to understanding or mentoring others.

As mentors, it’s crucial to avoid becoming overly reliant on any one framework. Together, we discuss the importance of adopting a more holistic and adaptable approach to mentorship. By integrating multiple perspectives and tools, mentors can better address the unique needs, goals, and growth opportunities of those they guide.

Whether you’re a seasoned mentor or just starting your journey, this episode will challenge you to expand your toolkit, think critically about assessment instruments, and focus on the bigger picture of personal and professional development.

So come and join us, as the next 30 minutes can really help you to be a better mentor and entertain you as you listen.

In this episode of The Mentored Podcast, we dive into the delicate dance of balancing family and work. When life feels full in every direction, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We explore the signs of imbalance, the toll it can take on your relationships, and the wake-up calls that force us to reevaluate our priorities.

Through personal stories and practical insights, we’ll help you answer the question, “How is my family really doing?” and guide you toward creating space for what matters most. If you’ve ever felt stretched too thin, this episode is your reminder to pause, reflect, and realign.

Tune in to discover how to reclaim balance and build a life where both your family and career can thrive.

How do we stay connected to our kids once they’re grown? In this episode of Mentored, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid explore the often-delicate art of communicating with adult children. Parenting doesn’t end when our children leave home—it simply changes shape. Together, we look at how to move from directing to relating, from teaching to listening, and from control to mutual respect.

Carson shares practical wisdom from his own life and mentoring work: how to build bridges instead of walls, how to offer guidance without slipping into lectures, and how to balance honesty with grace. You’ll hear encouragement for those moments when conversations feel strained, and reminders of the hope we carry as parents who long to see our children flourish.

If you’ve ever wrestled with what to say—or not say—to your grown son or daughter, this episode offers both reassurance and direction. Tune in, and be reminded that with humility, patience, and love, a meaningful connection is always possible.

Ever notice how the most successful leaders aren’t necessarily the smartest ones in the room? They’re often the ones who’ve mastered something we rarely talk about in leadership circles—their emotions.

In this raw and insightful episode, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis tackle the uncomfortable truth about emotional intelligence in leadership. Chuck opens up about his Midwestern upbringing, where feelings were seen as “unpredictable” and “no good”—a mindset that nearly sabotaged his marriage and ministry. You’ll hear Carson’s vulnerable story about his unexpected anxiety attacks and how his doctor’s refusal to prescribe medication led to a breakthrough therapy session involving… well, let’s just say dinosaur imagery played a role. Ingrid shares her research on “holistic holiness” and why ignoring our inner world stunts our spiritual growth.

The conversation explores practical strategies like the WAIT acronym (Why Am I Talking?), the difference between being an emotional thermometer versus thermostat, and why Jesus’ tears matter more than you might think. They discuss the unique challenges female leaders face with emotions and how to create healthier team cultures.

This isn’t about becoming more touchy-feely—it’s about becoming more effective. Because here’s the thing: if you can’t understand what’s happening inside you, how can you truly lead others?

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What’s one emotion you’ve been avoiding as a leader?

In this episode, Carson, Ingrid and Chuck tackle the essential—and often overlooked—topic of coming alongside emerging leaders. Drawing from years of mentoring experience, these three friends share real stories and practical wisdom on how seasoned leaders can encourage, equip, and empower the next generation.

From the importance of simply noticing young potential to navigating the tension between guiding and controlling, this episode offers a grounded, faith-informed approach to mentorship. Whether you’re a church elder, executive, or coffee shop entrepreneur, you’ll find honest insights on how to invest meaningfully in future leaders, without making it about you.

If you’ve ever wondered how to leave a legacy beyond your title, start here.

In this episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid dive into the importance of Christian leaders connecting with people outside the Christian subculture — whom they affectionately call “normal people.” They share personal stories, practical advice, and thought-provoking insights on how to build authentic relationships rooted in curiosity, kindness, and shared humanity.

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This episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and practical tips for anyone looking to grow as a mentor or leader. Tune in to be inspired, encouraged, and equipped to engage with others in a deeper, more meaningful way.

Great leaders aren’t just great talkers; the best leaders are also masterful listeners.

This episode of The Mentored Podcast dives deep into the often-overlooked power of listening. Carson reflects on a profoundly formative mentoring moment with Leighton Ford, who shares wisdom every leader could use. Alongside two other seasoned mentors, Chuck and Ingrid Davis, Carson also explores the profound practice of meditation and how leaders can hear God by engaging deeply with His Word.

Here are some key takeaways from this episode:

Whether you’re navigating the demands of leadership or simply looking to deepen your spiritual connection, this episode offers insight and encouragement to help you lead with both heart and hearing.

Take a moment to listen to Episode 36 now, and discover how to become the listener your leadership needs.

What does it mean to leave a legacy that lasts for generations? On this episode of The Mentored Podcast, Carson, Ingrid, and Chuck guide us through the heart of creating a generational legacy. They share wisdom, personal stories, and a few laughs along the way as they explore how to make meaningful, lasting contributions to your family and beyond.

This renowned team of mentors dive into the value of establishing family traditions—not just as rituals, but as anchors that ground your values in future generations. They tackle the importance of fostering open communication within families, where truth and love coexist. The conversation also touches on being intentional about legacy, with thoughtful reminders that impact doesn’t happen by accident. And don’t miss their insights on shared experiences, those crucial moments that create deep bonds and unforgettable memories.

Whether you’re a parent, a grandparent, or simply someone hoping to make a lasting difference, this episode offers encouragement, practical tips, and inspiring ideas to think deeply about the legacy you’re building.

Tune in now and consider this: What legacy are you creating today that will shape tomorrow?

What happens when someone wounds you deeply? Do you carry it, allowing bitterness to take hold, or do you begin the hard work of healing? In this second part of our conversation on being hurt by others, Drs. Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis, proven mentors in leadership and life, tackle these tough questions with wisdom, warmth, and candour.

This episode invites you to reflect on themes of emotional resilience, forgiveness, and personal growth. The hosts explore what it truly means to forgive—not to excuse the offence, but to free yourself. How can you create boundaries that protect your heart while remaining open to reconciliation? What steps can you take to process pain in a healthy, God-honoring way?

Brimming with practical advice, poignant stories, and a touch of humour, this conversation will inspire you to confront hurts with courage and grace. You’ll come away with a deeper understanding of how restoration can coexist with truth and how growth often arises from the most difficult experiences.

If you’ve faced betrayal, felt the sting of harsh words, or struggled with letting go, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps toward healing. Join Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid for an honest, heart-level discussion that reminds us of the power of forgiveness and the possibility of renewal.

Listen now and find hope in your healing process. To hear the whole conversation, be sure to listen to Episode 33.

Episode 33 of The Mentored Podcast kicks off a two-part series, “Hurt by Others,” where Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis tackle the deep challenges of betrayal, criticism, and disappointment in leadership and mentoring. If you’ve been wounded in your leadership role, this conversation offers both empathy and practical wisdom to help you heal and grow stronger.

Tune in and reflect on this question: What step can you take today to turn hurt into growth?