"Falling in love with someone is like discovering your favorite artist—there's always something new that makes them more beautiful to you."

In this episode of The Modern Frida, Jennifer takes us on a deeply personal journey of how she falls in love with people like she does with music. She shares a journal entry detailing her reflections on love, linking it to the slow, immersive process of falling for a song.

 She details her love for MacMiller’s music, the emotional impact of lyrics, and a deep comparison between songs and relationships. 

Listen in to learn how people respond to music and the importance of listening to your intuition in relationships. 

You will also learn why you sometimes have to let go of a love relationship to grow, just like you let go of a song when a season in your life is over.

“Our bodies, our minds can vibe with music without needing to understand everything about it.”

What You Will Discover in This Episode:

• [00:08] Jennifer on her recent commitment to exploring her singing and songwriting passions. 

• [01:57] Do you fall in love with people the way you fall in love with music?

• [03:25] The journal entry that captures her thoughts on love, music, and the emotional parallels between them.

• [09:10] Understanding how we respond to music and the importance of listening to our intuition in relationships.  

• [15:54] How she wakes up with random songs in her head and how music sets the tone for her day.

• [18:20] A realization that just like music, the right person might come into your life at the wrong time.

• [20:02] Songs that don’t immediately stand out but grow on you over time, much like our relationships.

• [26:10] How music resonates with our frequencies and how our mood influences the type of music we listen to.

• [32:00] How the idea of “forever” in relationships can create unhealthy attachments.

• [35:14] Comparing the beauty of falling in love with a song with falling in love with a person. 

• [40:53] Jennifer’s experience about fearing the loss of love and how growth can bring new connections.

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Why should you listen to The Modern Frida? Answering this question for you leads me into a quite inspiring pep talk that might lead you to ask yourself, what are YOU waiting for?

In this episode, I talk about

• Why you shouldn't suppress your innermost desires and dreams
• Intentions for the new year
• Why you should consider taking things slow in achieving your goals
• What happens after chaos

Don't be shy! Send me a DM! I'm on a small social media break but I would LOVE to hear your thoughts and/or intentions for the new year

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Tune into this week's episode where I speak on my time off social media and...

• The connection between artists and social media
• Forgetting what you think an artist should be
• Why creating leads to magic
• How I've been handling my time off
• Why you may invite chaos into your life
• Are you using social media as a clutch

If you enjoy this episode please give it a share! It would really help me and the podcast out. 

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Dating in your early 20s vs late 20s when you're self-aware and conscious of much more is a whirlwind! If you're anything like me, a girl with an anxious preoccupied attachment style, you might get triggered or upset with passive dating.

In this episode, I share my experience, thoughts, and conclusions on why I choose the peace of my mental health over casual sex with someone I like but ultimately aren't building something long-term with. 

*p.s. future me apologizes about some of the comments I made towards men lol
*not all of them will fuck just about anything

If you like silly metaphors then this episode is for you.

I love to hear from you! Message me with your thoughts or pov on anything covered in this episode <3

*p.p.s you can now leave me a comment down below on Spotify! I truly appreciate your support! 

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• an ending to a long chapter where I discuss how it felt to pay off a huge debt I owed for a long time 
• As well ass what’s it been like not to be so boy crazy 

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Stop it. Stop thinking about it so much, and truuuust! The universe has got your back queen.  Don't believe me? Then tune in to this week's episode and find out for yourself <3

In this episode

Ew manifestation 
A small update on my 1-month hiatus from the pod
Meat and potatoes of the episode start around the 8 minute mark 
Seek for truth
Why you could always use the reminder
Scorpio season, ending cycles, rebirth
What I love about religion
Rejection is protection
What you're really doing when you spend your time on social media

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Where do I start? This episode is filled with so many gems.  It starts off nice and breezy, then we get really deep, but come back up with fun and light-hearted talk.

Are you getting the right pressure?  The right space to become that diamond you were meant to be? Don't miss out on huge life lessons from Matt Bailey, he really lays down some wisdom!

Christina Baliey goes on to speak about how being multi-passionate can affect your life in the real world,  and why you should honor cycles as an artist, plus much more!

And  Margo Flitcraft lets us in on what collaboration can look like with life and work, plus she really lets us in on codependency with music? Tune in to get the DL!


An overview of this episode

What it’s been like being part of a group online without all the bells and whistles
Why having a community is important to have as an artist
What It’s like being an artist in a small town
How to be grateful for where you are
And when do you push forward
You have to say no, you don't always have to be a yes woman
How do you stop an addiction like social media, or overworking
You’re not alone
Honor The cycles as an artist

My favorite part of this episode!!
Small town diamonds
Fangirling over Bjork, bass clarinets unite
Do you correlate music with love? Comparing love and music
Music and love!!!!!! Vibrations and connections
Using songwriting as a compass
Codependency with music


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A reflection on my sporadic trip to Denver, after 3 months of living in Texas.

In this episode, I talk about past relationships, new beginnings, and new perspectives. 

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The message you probably need to hear today. 

connect with me love <3
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In this episode, I'm sharing the best tip I received in getting more sales that helped me double my money in a day. And yes queen it will take practice.

In the second half of the episode, I talk about small-town bullshit and why you should always stand your ground when everyone is telling you what to do.

A small layout of this episode
How to up your selling game 
The biggest mistake I would make at craft fairs
The one thing you should always do when making a sale
Slow down and smell the roses
Why would you overwork yourself?
Small town mentality
Supporting someone is not telling them what to do

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