The Modern Man Podcast

"My experience with it has been so impactful in terms of focusing my efforts and my attention on the value of service, the value of doing something for other people, not just because they need it, but because that begins the cycle of being the change you want to see in the world." -John Cerqueira

Three months after graduation, John Cerqueira moved to New York to work in the iconic Twin Towers. John lives like a normal young man- touring the town, going to work, getting injured, watching a game, and worrying about the right clothes. But after living through that nightmare on September 11, 2001, he learned that there is more to life than these. Sometimes, we get so used to our daily hustling that we forget that our life still has a purpose. Listen in as John relates the horrifying events of that day, why he chose to help even if his life is endangered, and the lessons he learned about priorities, servitude, and healing from trauma.

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Highlights:

02:20 The Yes Man

05:42 A Normal day on September 11th

11:05 2 Initial Reactions During an Emergency

16:19 Survivors, Stories, and the Media

21:11 The Cycle of Change

27:55 Recap

"Whatever it is that you want to accomplish, if the fruits are sweet and the rewards are high, it's not the low-hanging fruit. And it's probably not an easy destination. If it were, everyone would have it." -Ted Phaeton

Three years! We've unlocked another milestone again. Thank you so so much for tuning in every week and being part of the No Rain No Rainbows journey.

This episode is especially for you. Listen in as Ted lists five of the major takeaways we learned from the past three years. May these golden nuggets help you weather the storms, accelerate your success, and live a happy, fulfilled, and impactful life!

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02:00 Key #1: Action Creates Change

03:00 Key #2: Relationships Are Gold

04:00 Key #3: Believe in Yourself

06:44 Key #4: Accelerate Your Success with a Mentor

08:35 Key #5: Be Patient

11:43 What's Next for Ted

"We don't need to change who we are, we need to change the way we see ourselves. We are all unique, all unordinary, and all have extraordinary things that we bring to the world." -Simone Knego

Standing tall at 5,895 meters/ 19,340 feet, Mount Kilimanjaro is named the highest mountain in Africa and the highest single free-standing mountain in the world!

This week, Simone Knego shares unforgettable life lessons she learned from climbing this majestic giant. If your goal is to create impact, discover happiness, and live a fulfilled life, this episode will stir your interest!

Growing up, we were conditioned to settle with one path in life, even if it meant unhappiness and dissatisfaction. Change comes with apprehension and the choices we make become a lifetime sentence. But, we have to remember that it is absolutely okay to change our minds! Life is a journey with multitudinous opportunities. Listen as Ted and Simone reveal the key to make it to the "summit" of our dreams, to build a fulfilled life, and to raise fearless children ready to go against the traditional route. Simone's story inspires us to realize that we are capable of changing our reality and creating impact, and that it only requires one small choice. "We don't have to do big things to have a big impact." You got this!

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Highlights:

02:18 Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro

07:21 What Creates the Difference

11:51 Step Away From Comfort

15:39 How to Affect Change

21:08 The Extraordinary Unordinary You

25:05 Rewire Yourself and Get Going

27:13 Recap!

"What was really important in life were the words that we lived by." - Keith Renninson

Are you bored? How would you like to go on an adventure? It would be nice to get away from the noise and stress of this busy world and experience some excitement. This week, Keith Renninson, The Tenacity Expert, shares one of his most unforgettable escapes in the mountains of Nepal, and how this trip helped him develop the T.R.I.P system for better communication. Also, learn why journaling, meditation, and play are vital to your journey to self-actualization. If you are feeling lost in life and are unsure how to reach your dreams, join Ted and Keith in this fun and insightful conversation about Tenacity, Resilience, Imagination, & Purpose. It's high time you go on that soul-searching adventure you've been wanting. Have a blast in your life and live a limitless future!

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Highlights:

05:54 Journaling Yourself to Freedom

12:05 The T.R.I.P System to Better Communication

18:55 The Thin Line Between Meditation And Communication

22:17 It's Not Too Late To Start Your Life

27:01 Be Clear On Your Goals

32:04 Recap!

Do you feel sick in your stomach whenever you speak before an audience? Many of us do, and sometimes when that happens we think that we are not worthy of this privilege. However, it is good to remember that there are two types of speakers on a stage: those who were born speakers and those who were made for speaking.

Mike Acker is one of today's legendary speakers. He has been speaking for over 20 years, and has affected a myriad of individuals, companies, and institutions. With his speaking prowess, nobody would think Mike has speech impediment. His fear of speaking was so intense he suffered from psychosomatic fever when he spoke to an audience. In this episode, Ted and Mike share how their journey was like before they were able to develop full confidence as public speakers. From their stories you will learn how to overcome the paralyzing effect of fear, articulate your message better, and speak your real voice. Mike also shares how the weights we often carry affect how we show up on stage, and where to place those weights so that they serve us rather than weigh us down. As you prepare for your next speaking engagement, listen to these 3 simple tricks you can do to reduce pressure and give yourself an advantage on stage.

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"All of that stuff that we think that we need to be happy… doesn't replace worthiness and love of self." -David Strickel

We are intuitive beings. We have an amazing mind that can transcend even the most inconceivable thoughts. Most of the time, however, we allow those thoughts to be quelled by the opinions of others. In doing so, we turn away from what truly makes us happy and fulfilled. This week, we will negate the popular belief that money equals happiness with The Stream's bestselling author, David Strickel. Ted and David talk about connecting to the source as channels, detuning ourselves from the negativities and lies we were forced to believe, and allowing ourselves to create and achieve more. We were given the gift to keep expanding, but we can only do that by giving ourselves the luxury of silence. Tune in and discover how to attract and manifest abundance in your life!

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Highlights:

01:12 Connecting the Dots of Life

06:13 Everyone s a Channel

13:10 Connected to the Source

17:34 Detune

24:35 Expand More

30:10 Recap!

"Get clear about your requirements, the things that are non-negotiable for you, and start there." -Teena Evert

Do you wake up with a "case of the Mondays"? This line from the 1999 film, Office Space proves true for many of us. It is typical to wake up feeling anything but excited about a Monday's work. How we wish the weekends last longer! If you ever find your career path unfulfilling and stressful, this is the episode for you! Claim the Lead CEO, Teena Evert felt lost in a career that did not serve her, until she asked the most powerful of questions: WHY? The reason we find joy in our endeavors is our purpose. It is a need we need to continuously fill. Any misalignment will only create a void, which is a dangerous place to be. Beat the paralyzing effect of either not knowing you have a choice or having too many available possibilities. Learn how to determine if you are on the right path, find the right path, and finally, stay on that path. Tune in as Ted and Teena reveal the secret to a life filled with fulfillment, intention, and prosperity. As Ted says, "We all deserve to live a life without the Sunday Scaries or the Case of the Mondays."

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Highlights:

03:12 Are You Happy in Your Career Path?

08:58 The Job Search

14:42 Commitment, Competence, and Confident

18:56 3 Things for a Happy Monday!

22:43 Tap Into Your Senses

29:31 Earn Experiences

31:26 Recap!

"If you're not making the money you want to make, and you are spending money on things that are not giving you return, you are experiencing a massive opportunity cost." -Stephen Somers

Have you ever googled how to make money online? Many of us did, and so is Marketplace Superheroes CEO, Stephen Somers. However, he discovered that more is needed to succeed in entrepreneurship. He found himself a mentor in the person of Robert Rickey, who is now his business partner. What did Stephen do to create an award-winning 8-figure business? This week, Ted and Stephen break down the most important processes behind every successful business. Stephen also shares how to get over fear, avoid massive opportunity cost, and invest in endeavors that return and even increase your value. Tune in for logically sound tips and reliable resources to multiply your money and increase your value.

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Highlights:

04:11 Finding a Business That is Not Nonsense

11:28 Stop Worrying, Start Living

14:50 Break the Belief Barrier

20:21 Realign Your Priorities

24:12 Avoid Massive Opportunity Cost

28:34 Look Beyond the 90 Days

30:22 Be a Go-Giver

35:18 Recap!

You're not supposed to find the other half, you are not half of anything. You were born whole. You don't need anything else to survive other than who you are and what you already have." -Gloria Battini

According to WHO, 1 in every 3 women suffers abuse internationally- that's over a billion (and counting) of the female population! Sadly, in some cases, the progression and effect of being in a toxic relationship are too subtle and often unreported. More often, the victims are unaware of the maltreatment and oppression because they have been conditioned to bear the guilt. Gloria Battini, a Mental and Emotional Wellness Coach has lived with a narcissist for almost 15 years. She experienced how it was to be shamed, trapped, and scared.

In this episode, Gloria will help you identify the signs of an abusive relationship and how to break free from it. She also talks about why it is important to be cautious of love bombing and gaslighting, what makes it hard to escape, and how to prepare yourself physically and emotionally for when it's time to leave. Yes, there is a way out. Tune in and learn how you can reclaim your freedom!

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Highlights:

03:31 The Love Bombing Trap

07:09 Why It's Hard to Escape From the Abuse Prison

13:14 Women Community

18:39 How to Heal

24:23 Break the Cycle

27:01 Enjoy the Benefits of Breaking Free

30:08 Follow Your Voice

34:07 Reach Out

"If you don't know what you want to accomplish, it's hard to accomplish it. And if you haven't put numbers to it, then it's just a dream not a plan." – Robert Schulz

How much does your financial freedom cost? If you have it, put numbers on it! Top Financial Advisor and Founder of Schulz Wealth, Ltd, Rob Schulz emphasizes the importance of financial planning to present and future successes. In this episode, Ted and Rob will help you recreate your vision board, adopt good money habits, and plan your finances wisely. Too much cash is too much! Understand the real essence of your freedom and set realistic goals that will push you further rather than burden you down. Learn how to manage your cash flow, improve your credit scores, make investments within your capacity, protect your investments, and avoid the debt trap. Plan your finances and get the benefits of taking action early. Tune in and craft your best years ahead!

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Highlights:

02:34 Why It's Hard To Plan Your Finances

05:16 Compounding Interest Benefits

08:11 Have Your Vision Board

08:55 Start Wherever You Are!

10:39 Adopt Good Money Habits

14:24 Managing Debt And Cash Flow

19:45 Planning For Chaos, Unforeseen Expenses

23:03 Planning For Your Own Death

27:57 Managing Risks