In this episode of Money & Meaning, host Jeff Bernier is joined by Rachel Donnelly, founder and CEO of AfterLight and author of Late to Your Own Funeral: How to Leave a Legacy and Not a Log Jam. Rachel shares the personal losses that led her to build a business around helping overwhelmed executors, and she and Jeff dig into why estate planning is about far more than a will or a trust. They discuss what families really inherit after a death, why organization matters as much as love, the added complexity of digital assets, and how planning ahead can be one of the greatest gifts you leave behind.
Rachel's personal story: losing both parents young and settling two estates while raising small childrenWhy she started AfterLight to be "air traffic control" for death and dyingThe story and meaning behind the title Late to Your Own FuneralWhy Rachel avoids calling people's estate gaps "mistakes"Redefining legacy as a "thumbprint" left behind, not just assetsWhy families suffer from a lack of organization, not a lack of loveCommon feelings executors face: decision paralysis, guilt, and fear of doing something wrongThe added complexity of digital assets, passwords, and online accountsWhy Rachel recommends an asset and liability inventory instead of a password listWhy we procrastinate conversations about death and how to normalize themThe psychological payoff of pre-planning and the peace of mind it createsWhat AfterLight does for "after-loss" clients versus "legacy organization" clientsHandling out-of-state property, ancillary probate, and other complex assetsThe value of outsourcing logistics to protect your time and headspaceHow to connect with Rachel and AfterLightJeff Bernier on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffberniercfp/TandemGrowth Financial Advisors: https://www.tandemgrowth.com/Rachel Donnelly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelbdonnellyAfterLight: https://myafterlight.com/Editing and post-production work for this episode was provided by The Podcast Consultant (https://thepodcastconsultant.com)