The Money Mindset Podcast

Do you find it tough to talk about money with your partner? In this episode, we explore the challenges of financial conversations in relationships, focusing on the importance of mutual understanding, confidence, and emotional awareness.

We discuss how emotional factors, like the mental load of managing finances, can impact these talks and share ways to help both partners feel involved and informed. Our guest, Adam Kol of The Couples Financial Coach, brings valuable insights on how to navigate these conversations.

Tune in to discover how empowering both partners with financial knowledge can transform your relationship and finances.

Meet Adam!

Adam Kol is The Couples Financial Coach. He helps couples go from financial overwhelm or fighting to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.

Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist-I™, Certified Mediator, and Tax Attorney with a Duke Law degree and a Master's in Tax Law from NYU. He is a husband, dad, and musician, as well.

Adam's wisdom has been shared with The Wall Street Journal, the Baltimore Ravens, CNBC, NewsNation, and more.

“Your partner wants to connect with you about finances. It may seem like they don't, and you might convince yourself that they don't. They do. They may not realize that they're avoiding it or why, but they do because it has such a profound effect on the lives that we live. I mean, it really touches every aspect, from how we raise our families to what we do for jobs, to the kind of food we eat, to the kind of things we have, etc. So your partner does want to feel like they can connect with you. It's just that people don't feel confident in that a lot of times, partly because it is true that money is still a taboo. But keep in mind that this is something where you both will feel a lot better if you're on the same page.”

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Are you feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? With the busy time of year approaching, juggling family, finances, and festivities can easily become stressful. In this episode, we explore practical ways to simplify your holidays, featuring our guest Jennifer, a certified life coach and seasoned homeschooling mom.

She shares insights on how to create a calm and stress-free holiday experience. With these simple tips, you can get organized and stress less about your finances, time, and priorities for the holidays.

Tune in to the podcast to discover how you can embrace a more peaceful and intentional holiday season!

Meet Jennifer!

Using her 3 secret weapon formulas, Jennifer has helped many thousands of women gain clarity and confidence in what to do (& what to let go of) every day.

“We aren't compartmentalized. The things that we struggle with in one area are usually challenging in other areas as well. Like you say, if we can just start to move the needle forward in some of our habit formation, our ability to follow through, or our ability to live by the routine that we set up, we might be doing it from a budgeting standpoint, but all of a sudden, wow, I have an easier time getting up earlier in the morning too. Once I'm setting the good habits with my money, it makes me want to, and makes it easier for me to follow the good habits in other areas too.”

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Ever wonder what truly drives your spending habits? In this episode, we explore the underlying reasons for overspending and offer practical strategies to help you regain control of your finances.

Discover how small changes in your shopping behavior and awareness of your triggers can pave the way to a healthier relationship with money.

Tune in to learn how to stop overspending and move closer to your financial goals.

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I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday.

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“It's really important to remove temptation. So, once you know what is causing you to overspend, remove that temptation—delete the apps, unfollow the people, unsubscribe. Understand that it's a habit, and habits can change, but it takes time and practice. You've got to be patient with yourself. Once you realize what the trigger is, you can set up roadblocks so that you aren't falling for those temptations as quickly or as often.”

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In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the essential skill of developing self-discipline with money.

You'll learn how to break down your big financial goals into manageable steps, like paying off debt, and make a plan that suits your lifestyle. We’ll discuss why it’s important to not get discouraged by setbacks and how to implement habits that can help carry you through tough times.

Whether you're aiming to pay off debt or save for travel, this episode offers actionable advice to stay on track, build better money routines, and stay focused on your financial journey.

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I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday.

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“To me, self-discipline is really consistency, and consistency is not about being perfect at it. It's not about getting it 100% right 100% of the time. It's actually about getting it mostly right most of the time.

Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success" Bootcamp will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training

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Ever feel like your financial expectations don’t quite align with reality? Or maybe you’ve wondered if you’re setting the right goals for your financial journey?

In this episode, you’ll gain insights into realistic planning, managing credit cards, and how small shifts in your financial mindset can lead to significant progress in paying off debt.

Join us as we explore five key money mistakes that may be holding you back and learn how adjusting your expectations could be the key to success.

Hosting Today:

I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday.

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“You’ve got to know where your money is going, which means you’ve got to track it. You’ve got to look at it and know your numbers. You need to get over the fear, procrastination, and avoidance. You’ve got to make it happen if you want to pay off your debt. It’s not going to just happen on its own, right? You’ve got to be intentional. Being intentional helps you create a realistic money plan. It all goes together, right?”

Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success" Bootcamp will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training

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Ever felt like paying off debt while affording everyday necessities is an impossible task?

In this episode, we explore strategies for balancing debt payment with essential expenses, even when money is tight.

We'll dive into practical tips on defining true necessities, prioritizing your spending, and organizing your finances to make consistent progress toward your goals.

Make sure to listen to the full episode for tips that can transform how you handle debt.

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After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“You've got to prioritize it if you want to pay off debt. It has to be a priority. It can't be just the last thing because, guess what, there won't be anything left if you just send what's left at the end of the month. I promise you, things will come up, things will happen, and if you see that money sitting there in your account, and if you're not really, really committed and intentional with what you've got sitting there, it will go to something else.”

Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success Bootcamp" will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training

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Feeling lost in the complex world of tipping? In this episode, we unpack tipping culture in the U.S.

Whether you're dining out, picking up takeout, or receiving a service at home, we cover the expectations and realities of tipping in various situations.

Listen to my thoughts on when I tip and when I don't, and let me know what you do or whether you think I'm right or wrong on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy.

Hosting Today:

I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday.

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“Why don't you just pay your people enough to work? Like, I don't get it. We need to just pay a living wage, even if that means that we pay more on the menu.”

For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start

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Do you feel like all your money goes to Amazon and you don't even know what you bought?

You aren't alone!

It happens to all of us, there's a reason that Amazon is a billion dollar company.

They make it so easy to spend money on their platform!

But this month I have been doing a no-spend challenge for Amazon.

In this episode, I share my tips on how I am making it easier to stop spending on Amazon.

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After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“The whole point of budgeting, saving money, and paying off debt is being intentional and mindful of where you are spending your money. Where is your money going and are you making sure it is going where you actually want it to go? So, if you delete the app, you have to be a lot more intentional about spending money on Amazon. There are a couple of extra layers of thought processes there in order to spend the money. So, it makes it a lot harder. It makes it less convenient by just deleting the app.”

Ready to make saving money a priority? Grab your FREE No Spend Challenge Tracker today! Easily track your progress, set personal goals, and see how much you save. Start your challenge now and see the difference. Visit www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge to get your tracker!

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Have you ever had to juggle financial stress while dealing with personal challenges?

This episode dives into the reality of life's unexpected events and how they can impact our financial plans.

From managing the emotional strain of health issues and personal losses to dealing with the financial aftermath of unforeseen expenses, join us for a candid conversation on how to persevere through tough times.

Hosting Today:

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“I want you to know that if you are in this or if it happens to you soon, it's okay. Just take it day by day and look toward the future. Still make your plan, still keep going. Give yourself the space to feel your feelings and don't beat yourself up about it, because that's normal.”

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Navigating the unpredictable twists and turns of life can be overwhelming, especially when unexpected expenses and challenges seem to pile up.

In this episode, we dive into the realities of managing financial setbacks and how these events can impact your financial goals.

We explore practical strategies for regaining control, including the power of a no-spend challenge and the importance of meal planning.

Tune in for insights on staying financially resilient amidst life's challenges.

Hosting Today:

I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday.

After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business.

Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.

“Whatever it is for you, whatever thing you're struggling with and spending on, make an intentional effort to change that specific behavior. You get to decide what it is, what it looks like, and what you are doing based on what you need to work on and what you need help with.”

Wondering why your budget always seems out of control? It’s time to take charge with a No-Spend Challenge! Reset your finances and see a significant impact, even after just one week. Ready to start? Visit www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge to get started today!

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