In this episode, Ben Gibson sit's down with Bryan, a retired police officer turned grief counsellor at the not-for-profit organisation Griefline. Drawing from his experience in law enforcement, Bryan offers a unique perspective on grief, shedding light on how his past career has influenced his current role. From his time on the force to his transition into counselling, Bryan shares insights into the various grief styles and how they manifest in our lives. He explores the visible signs of grief and provides valuable approaches to acknowledging and exploring grief to support our overall well-being.

Supporting links:

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Griefline: https://griefline.org.au/

Men and Grief: https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/

Grief Australia: https://grief.org.au/

Palliative Care Australia: https://palliativecare.org.au/

Advanced Care Planning: https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/

In this episode, Ben Gibson sit's down with John Hammond, a seasoned lawyer whose early experiences working as an orderly in the Home of Peace profoundly influenced his advocacy for end-of-life rights throughout his career. John shares poignant stories, including that of his friend Carol, who chose Voluntary Assisted Dying (VAD) in March 2024. We delve into the legal aspects of estate planning and discuss the importance of having a will in place. Join us as we explore the complex intersection of law and compassion in end-of-life decision-making.

Supporting links:

Go Gentle Australia: https://www.gogentleaustralia.org.au/patients_and_families

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Palliative Care Australia: https://palliativecare.org.au/

Advanced Care Planning: https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/

Griefline: https://griefline.org.au/

Men and Grief: https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/

Grief Australia: https://grief.org.au/

In this episode, Ben Gibson is joined by journalist and writer Gary Nunn as he opens up about his deeply personal journey through grief, tracing the trajectory of his relationship with his father from childhood to his father's struggles with alcoholism. Gary shares candidly about the challenges of supporting his family through his father's death, reflecting on the poignant letter his dad wrote to him which he has to this day. Through his own experiences, Gary emphasises the profound impact of words and listening in navigating grief, highlighting the importance of connection and empathy during times of loss.

Supporting links:

Griefline: https://griefline.org.au/

Grief Australia: https://grief.org.au/

Men and Grief: https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Alcoholics Anonymous: https://aa.org.au/

AL-ANON: https://al-anon.org.au/

Palliative Care Australia: https://palliativecare.org.au/

Advanced Care Planning: https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/

In this episode, Ben Gibson sits down with Dr. Adrian Lo, a dedicated GP deeply integrated into his community's fabric. Dr. Lo shares insights into the multifaceted role of a GP, from caring for families across generations to engaging in advanced care planning. We delve into the physical manifestations of grief and explore Dr. Lo's holistic approach to supporting individuals and families through the journey of loss and bereavement.

Supporting links:

Palliative Care Australia: https://palliativecare.org.au/

Advanced Care Planning: https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/

Griefline: https://griefline.org.au/

Men and Grief: ⁠https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/⁠

Grief Australia: https://grief.org.au/

Ben Gibson sits down with Jordan Lukey to discuss all things working in end-of-life. As Funeral Directors, End-of-Life Doulas and Funeral Celebrants, they have both had range of experiences over the years and look at the male response they have witnessed, and tools that can provide support and inclusion during this sensitive time. They also answer the often asked question "What is an end-of-life Doula?".

Supporting links:

Palliative Care Australia: ⁠https://palliativecare.org.au/⁠

Advanced Care Planning: ⁠https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/⁠

Griefline: ⁠https://griefline.org.au/ ⁠

Men and Grief: ⁠⁠https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/⁠⁠

Grief Australia: ⁠https://grief.org.au/⁠

Ben Gibson is joined by Mark as he shares his poignant experience, from meeting the love of his life, to the shock of his wife Lisa's bowel cancer diagnosis and her heartbreaking death just 18 months later. He shares the resilience he found in the face of Lisa's death and the tools he employs to navigate grief's tumultuous waves.

CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses death, grief and loss.

Supporting Resources:

Griefline: https://griefline.org.au/

Men and Grief: ⁠https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/⁠

Mensline: https://mensline.org.au/

Bowel Cancer Australia: https://www.bowelcanceraustralia.org/

Palliative Care Australia: https://palliativecare.org.au/

Cancer Council: https://www.cancercouncil.com.au/

In our first episode of the season, Paul opens up to Ben Gibson about his personal experience through the AIDS crisis in 1980s Sydney. As a gay man living through those tumultuous times, Paul's story resonates deeply with many who faced similar challenges and the mark it leaves on the community to this day. He recounts the emotional turmoil of receiving a false positive result and confronting his own mortality, as well as nursing friends though to their deaths and what life is like for him now.

CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses death, grief, loss and the AIDS crisis in Sydney in the 1980s. Please take care of yourself and consider if this episode is right for you.

Supporting resources:

GriefLife: https://griefline.org.au/

Men and Grief: https://griefline.org.au/resources/men-and-grief/

MensLine: https://mensline.org.au/

AIDS Council of NSW: https://www.acon.org.au/what-we-are-here-for/hiv-support/

Bobby Goldsmith Foundation: https://www.bgf.org.au/

QLife, Free Confidential Support: https://qlife.org.au/

Join host, Ben Gibson as we explore the male perspective of the end-of-life experience as he engages in heartfelt and honest conversations with men from the community and professionals working in the field.