257: Somatic Intelligence is the new Emotional Intelligence and How it Heals Sexual Trauma and Negative Conditioning

 

In today’s episode learn:

1. What is somatic intelligence and why you should care about it
2. How somatic intelligence will heal your sexual trauma, abuse and negative sexual conditioning from religion and society
3. Why courage is the number one trait you must have to transform pain into pleasure

 

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Ever thought that your energy healer would unblock your sacral chakra and fix all of your sex and intimacy issues?

 

Sadly, many women are wasting alot of time and money on healing modalities that won’t work to unblock your sacral, give you lots of sexual desire and libido again, clear sexual trauma or abuse from your body, or change your relationship patterns or attachment styles.

 

In this episode you will learn:

• 3 ways energy healing will not support your sex life or relationships despite what people think

• How to meet and work with your subpersonalities at the Throne of Your Heart

• What actually works to make changes in how you approach and feel about your sex life and relationships

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Have you heard the following myths: that the body is separate from the divine, that physical pleasure is sinful, or that spiritual fulfillment can only be found through prayer and meditation? 

Growing up in a religious home, I too fell victim to these falsehoods. But through my own journey, I found 5 powerful ways to connect with God through my body. And now, I'm here to share my truth with you.

In this episode, you will learn how to:

• Embrace sensations and pleasure as a way to connect with intuition and instinct

• Discover the connection between spirituality and sexuality via the Tantric and Taoist traditions

• Experience transformative sacred practices that help in clearing and connecting with the divine within

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If you're feeling trapped and stagnant in your long-term relationship despite attempts to inject spontaneity and fun, then you are not alone!

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Identify the potential drawbacks of relying too heavily on safe spaces in sexuality work for long-lasting relationships.

• Discover the unique stages of sexuality that contribute to personal development.

• Appreciate the undeniable value of open communication and mutual respect in nurturing relationships.

• Understand the role played by safe spaces and containers in the process of healing.

• Find out how to welcome happiness and grow beyond the dependency on safe spaces.

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Is your inner Mama Bear keeping you from thriving? I had a moment with my inner Mama Bear recently where I recognized that she was not serving me. Her protective instincts were out of proportion to the situation at hand and it was time to support her in calming down and allowing a new identity to emerge…my inner Queen.

In this episode, you will:

• Learn about the single mom wound and how it often creates a hyper trauma response known as “Mama Bear”. You’ll learn techniques for completing the stress cycle to promote healing.

• Transform from Mama Bear to Mama Care and step into your inner Queen.

• Experiment with proven nervous system release strategies for lasting stress reduction and relaxation.

• Learn to prioritize pleasure and its transformative power to shift from a survival mindset to a thriving existence.

Completing Stress Cycles and Choosing Your Inner Queen Choosing one's inner queen symbolizes a shift in mentality, prioritizing self-love, care, and confidence. In addition to completing stress cycles, it’s essential to focus on pleasure and engage in rituals that empower and support the process of nervous system regulation. By consistently choosing to practice completing stress cycles, a transformation begins to take place, allowing a person to regulate and choose a thriving identity. 

During the episode, Tilly Storm shares her morning pleasure ritual (which you can download for FREE in the 5 Days to Epic Sex training below) as a practice that helps her connect deeply with herself and regulate her nervous system.

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Join me on this tell-all journey of self-discovery in my business and personal life over the past 3 months. From quitting my business (!!!), to getting a job offer and being ghosted (!!!!!!), and ultimately leaning in and returning back to my business, I learned to surrender to the unknown and embrace the feminine. But the question remains: what is the direction I’m going and how can you join me? Find out in this intriguing podcast episode!   In this episode, you’ll learn how I was able to:

• Unlock the power of feminine energy for personal and professional expansion.
• Discover the vital role of pleasure in my journey of self-growth.
• Learn about exciting offers and events coming up!

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In this episode, reignite your passion and explore sexual boundaries together with your partner to break out of a predictable, boring routine and create an adventurous, thrilling spark.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Discover how exploring sexual edges can reignite passion and intimacy in relationships.

• Master communication techniques for expressing sexual desires and setting healthy boundaries with partners.

• Maintain a thrilling and satisfying sex life by embracing playfulness and adventure.

“A couple that explores edges together grows sexually together.” - Tilly Storm

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Communicating About Sex: Establishing Desires and Boundaries Communication is vital in any relationship, and openly discussing desires and boundaries with a partner can help ensure that both individuals feel safe, satisfied, and heard. Couples can gain a deeper understanding of each other's preferences, fantasies, and limits by honestly sharing their thoughts and feelings. Effective communication can also help to dispel misconceptions, build trust, and enhance the overall connection between two people. Tilly Storm suggests that couples write out what they are eager to explore, what they're unsure of, and what's completely off-limits to establish clear boundaries. She provides listeners with a tantric sex starter kit that includes communication practices and guides that help facilitate conversations around sex. Through open and honest dialogue, couples can navigate the complexities of their desires and create a deeper understanding of their partner’s sexual and emotional needs.

The Power of Play: Exploring Sexual Edges Playfulness in a relationship can open up new possibilities and contribute to greater satisfaction in the bedroom. A sense of fun and adventurousness helps couples to step outside of their comfort zones and explore new, exciting experiences together. Challenging preconceived ideas and testing new boundaries can lead to more intense emotional and physical intimacy. This unconventional approach to sexual exploration may be just what a relationship needs to break free from routine and monotony. In the podcast, Tilly Storm encourages the exploration of sexual edges to rekindle the passion and intimacy among couples. She mentions various sexual edges that couples might consider, such as dominance and submission, BDSM, tantric sex, and even threesomes or swinging. Tilly acknowledges that each person's idea of exploration might differ, but the key is to be open and curious in discovering new experiences together with their partner.

 

Curious to learn how to make your bedroom, home and body more eco-friendly and less toxic in honor of Earth Day?   Great! In this week’s podcast episode, you will learn

1. Tips on how to make your bedroom eco-friendly and less toxic 
2. Which non-toxic sex toys to buy for a more vibrant sexual health and vitality.
3. Detox tips for your body
4. Which chemicals to avoid when purchasing makeup and why it matters

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Stress is the number one killer of libido. But, people deal with stress and sex differently. Some use sex to de-stress, while others must de-stress before feeling sexual.

 

If stress causes issues in your relationship like mismatched libido or infrequent sex, in today’s episode, you’ll learn the following:

1. How and why people react to stress and sex differently

2. What you can do to support yourself or your partner in periods of high stress and still stay sexually connected

3. My best 6 strategies for reducing stress in general to boost your pleasure and satisfaction

 

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While often unacknowledged, the mother wound can have a profound impact on your relationships and sexual experiences. But with the right tools and understanding, it can be transformed, unlocking intimacy and sexual pleasure.

 

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

1. What the mother wound is and how neglect, abandonment, abuse, or simply a lack of emotional availability can affect your pleasure, sexual satisfaction, and relational intimacy

2. Discover the exact process I take my personal clients through to release the mother wound and tap into your divine feminine essence

3. How to drop the story and illusion of the mother wound and embody your divine feminine in sexuality and relationship

 

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