In this episode, Padideh Jafari speaks from her decades in divorce law and gives expert advice on how to win a custody battle.  Her experience speaks particularly to winning custody battles for the victims of those who have spouses with narcissistic personality disorder.

In this episode of the Narcissist Abuse Recovery Channel, Jon McKenney and Padideh Jafari discuss their personal experiences with divorce from narcissistic partners. They explore the emotional struggles and guilt that often accompany leaving such relationships, the nature of marriage, and the importance of recognizing the illusion of a perfect relationship. The conversation emphasizes the need for healing and self-forgiveness after experiencing narcissistic abuse, encouraging listeners to seek therapy and support as they navigate their recovery journey.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Personal Backgrounds
03:03 Divorce Statistics and Personal Experiences
06:08 Guilt and Emotional Struggles After Divorce
12:00 Understanding the Nature of Marriage
17:57 The Illusion of a Perfect Relationship
21:08 Healing and Moving Forward After Narcissistic Abuse

Vicki Gunvalson is a mother of two, a proud “Nana” of 4, a self-made business woman, a long-time resident of Orange County. Vicki was the original cast member of Bravo’s hit reality TV show, The Real Housewives of Orange County, appearing since its inception – 19 seasons ago. Vicki also appeared on the Peacock shows Ultimate Girls Trip 2 in the Berkshires and Ultimate Girls Trip 4 in Morocco. She has a drive for success and has the strength and tenacity to back it up with her successful Life Insurance & Retirement Planning Company, Coto Insurance & Financial Services, for over 34+ years.

Despite all of Vicki’s successes, Vicki has encountered narcissists in her life and spends some time with Jon McKenney and Padideh Jafari talking about her experiences, her pain, her faith, and her healing.  You’ll find her insight through her struggles meaningful as she speaks from the heart and tells her story of the abuse she experienced from narcissists.

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Check out some of the key moments:

0.00  Getting Acquainted

4:15  Wanting Love & The First Narcissist

7:17  Discoveries

9:00  Consequences

10:25  Recovery & Understanding Narcissism

12:00  Again

14:45  Cheating

20:40  Coming from a Great Home

22:00  Being in the Spotlight

24:00 Remembrances of Abuse

30:00  The Trouble Finding People Who Love

32:00  Losing the Ability to Trust

36:00  Red Flags, Future Relationships, and Boundaries

40:40  Not Compromising & “The List”

43:00  Current Work

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Join hosts Jon McKenny and Padideh Jafari on the Narcissist Abuse Recovery Channel for a raw and deeply personal conversation with Jared Mello. Jared opens up about his journey from addiction and narcissistic abuse to healing and self-discovery, offering invaluable insights into how Radical Self-Respect became the key to reclaiming his life. This episode is more than a story—it’s a heartfelt reminder that even in the darkest moments, there’s a path to healing and hope.

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Show sponsored by: Jafari Law & Mediation Office

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:00 - Introduction to Jared Mello

00:03:22 - The Roots of Addiction and Narcissistic Family Dynamics

00:09:15 - Consequences of Addiction: Loss and Survival

00:14:31 - Discovering Radical Self-Respect

00:20:21 - Navigating Relationships and Emotional Recovery

00:26:00 - Breaking the Cycle: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

00:31:02 - Transforming Pain into Purpose

00:36:08 - The Stages of Healing and Letting Go of Resentment

00:42:43 - How Radical Self-Respect Can Save Relationships

00:48:13 - Jared’s Message of Hope and Support

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In this powerful episode of the Narcissist Abuse Recovery Channel, hosts Jon McKenny and Padideh Jafari delve into the heartbreaking reality of parental alienation. They explore how narcissists use children as tools in their ongoing conflicts, creating deep divides that isolate one parent from their children. Through firsthand accounts and legal insights, Jon and Padideh examine the tactics narcissists employ and share strategies for maintaining hope and resilience. Listeners will gain a greater understanding of the long-term impacts of parental alienation and learn how to approach healing and reconnection.

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The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:00 - Understanding Parental Alienation

00:03:22 - Tactics of Narcissists in Alienation

00:05:28 - Legal vs. Emotional Alienation

00:10:06 - Realizing and Coping with Alienation

00:14:12 - Manipulation and Psychological Impact on Children

00:20:39 - Third Parties and Reinforcing Alienation

00:24:16 - Steps to Reconnect with Alienated Children

00:28:59 - Importance of Staying Neutral About the Ex

00:36:08 - Children’s Discovery of Manipulation

00:42:43 - Advice for Parents in Relationships with Narcissists

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If you're feeling emotionally drained and physically exhausted from the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, then you are not alone! Imagine being stuck in a cycle of confusion, unable to see a way out, and feeling like your life is constantly clouded by chaos. The pain and trauma from this experience might be overwhelming, but what if there's a way to break free from this cycle and regain control over your mind and body?

Luke Holbrook is a seasoned personal trainer with a unique perspective on the mind-body connection in healing from narcissistic abuse. Having worked with diverse clients, he understands the transformative power of physical health on emotional well-being. Luke's approach emphasizes the gradual integration of positive choices and physical activity, recognizing the role of exercise in restoring confidence and independence after enduring narcissistic relationships. Through his own experiences and those of his clients, Luke brings a relatable and empathetic understanding to the complexities of emotional recovery, making him a valuable resource for individuals seeking to improve their overall well-being.

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The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:01 - The Power of Physical Training in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
00:02:42 - Self-Care and Independence Through Physical Training
00:06:51 - Overcoming Cognitive Distortions with Exercise
00:10:55 - Integrating Self-Care and Confidence
00:13:25 - Affordable and Accessible Self-Care
00:14:42 - Importance of Emotional Wellbeing
00:16:15 - Overcoming Depression and Creating Positive Feedback Loop
00:17:30 - Mind-Body Connection and Emotional Eating
00:19:26 - Personal Wellbeing and Coping Strategies
00:25:19 - Building Discipline and Transforming Mindset
00:27:41 - Overcoming Dislike for Healthy Habits
00:29:23 - Delayed Gratification and Building Momentum
00:30:52 - Importance of Exercise and Mind-Body Connection
00:36:52 - Reasons for Staying in Narcissistic Relationships
00:39:16 - Gym as a Life-Altering Experience
00:41:44 - Importance of Maintenance and Attention in Life
00:42:59 - Impact of Narcissistic Abuse on Health
00:44:56 - Luke's Approach to Training 
00:46:44 - Overcoming Physical Challenges and Emotional Resilience
00:49:03 - Podcast Conclusion and Contact Information

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Have you ever heard the myths about narcissism? Like how they're all the same and can't change? Or how about the belief that all narcissists are just self-centered and arrogant? Maybe you've come across the myth that all narcissists are sociopaths or psychopaths. The truth is, there are so many misconceptions about narcissism, and understanding the reality can be a game-changer. Here's the truth in a way that will leave you enlightened and empowered.

John Tsilimparis is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California, with over 30 years of experience. Specializing in anxiety disorders, depression, and addiction, Tsilimparis is well-versed in navigating the complexities of human behavior. Known for his expertise in understanding narcissistic behavior and other characterological disorders, he offers valuable insights into the anatomy of a narcissist. With a professional and insightful approach, He provides practical advice and a deeper understanding of challenging relationships, making him an invaluable resource in the field of psychology.

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The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:01 - Understanding Narcissistic Behavior
00:00:41 - Similar Characteristics of Narcissism and Sociopathy
00:01:54 - Introduction of John Tsilimparis, LMFT
00:04:29 - Career Choice in Psychotherapy
00:08:08 - Differentiating Healthy and Extreme Narcissism
00:15:25 - The Impact of Trauma on Narcissistic Behavior
00:17:07 - Common Fear of Abandonment
00:20:53 - Gender Disparities in Narcissistic Behavior
00:22:40 - Covert vs. Overt Narcissism
00:27:24 - Therapy and Couples Counseling for Narcissists
00:30:26 - Impact of Negativity on Relationships
00:31:18 - Understanding Right from Wrong
00:32:46 - Fear of Abandonment
00:37:41 - Defense Mechanisms and Coping Strategies
00:42:57 - Trauma Bonding and Emotional Attachment
00:45:02 - Emotional Turmoil in Relationships
00:46:21 - Impact of Gaslighting
00:47:26 - Trauma of Divorce
00:49:52 - Understanding Narcissism

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Discover the shocking truth about narcissists and their devastating impact on relationships. Uncover the real-life experiences of survivors Jon and Padideh as they navigate the treacherous waters of narcissistic abuse. From financial manipulation to emotional self-centeredness, these firsthand accounts will leave you reeling. But that's not all. Tune in as they unveil practical solutions and holistic healing methods to help you break free from the grips of narcissistic abuse. Don't miss out on this eye-opening journey from victim to survivor. Stay tuned for expert insights, real-life stories, and actionable steps to rebuild a fulfilling life post-narcissistic abuse. Let the Narcissist Abuse Recovery Podcast guide you to a brighter future.

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The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:01 - Introduction to the Podcast
00:01:23 - Personal Experiences with Narcissistic Abuse
00:02:01 - Launching the Podcast
00:05:52 - Recognizing Narcissistic Abuse
00:10:35 - Protecting the Abuser
00:15:29 - Cluster B Personality Disorders
00:17:46 - Lack of Empathy and Compassion
00:20:19 - Lack of Self-Awareness
00:25:14 - Manipulative and Controlling Behavior
00:27:52 - Emotion-Driven Decision Making
00:30:15 - Emotional Self-Centeredness
00:31:08 - Healthy Spousal Response
00:32:48 - Hope and Healing
00:34:27 - Relational Tools and Narcissistic Abuse
00:43:26 - Understanding the Narcissistic Experience
00:44:48 - Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder
00:45:33 - Recognizing the Evil of Narcissistic Abuse
00:46:27 - Effects of Narcissistic Abuse
00:47:55 - Holistic Healing Approach
00:49:40 - Offering Hope and Support

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