The Never Give Up Show!!

                           Show #65                                              9/20/2022

Both Protective Mom's have been through the Corrupted System's of Family Court, CPS/DCF, and Domestic Violence, they will share their stories tonight.   These mom's have been working with others on the Empirical Studies which proves that when mothers report abuse or even allege abuse, the courts commonly take their children and place them with their abusers. See below the links on these proven studies.  They are rallying together to bring Community, Education And Awareness in Ohio and across the States.  

https://facebook.com/events/s/anti-corruption-rally/615217056869190/   RALLY   ATTENTION : The  Columbus Dispatch did a story of how Ohio is the number one corrupt state...Now we will expose them all...The date is September 26 2022.... we will let you know exactly where coming up...hang tight... Follow The FB Link

https://www.dvleap.org/legal-resource-library-categories/custody-resources        CUSTODY RESOURCES

https://scholarship.law.gwu.edu/faculty_publications/1536/          

Denial of Family Violence in Court: An Empirical Analysis and Path Forward For Family Law

Joan S. Meier, George Washington University Law School

The Louder We Are As A Team Of Protective Parents, Maybe We Will Be Heard!!!

http://tobtr.com/12146710 blogtalkradio

                     9/13/2022                                        Episode #64   

I'm a protective parent and a mother of two from Rockland county. When I had children I was the full time caretaker, I was a stay at home mom and housewife. Before that I was a dental assistant for 15 years. My children are my pride and joy and I was a devoted mother. During the marriage my ex husband’s focus was on building his career, making money, networking as well as keeping up with his social status that included golf outings, vacations, social work events and as well as maintaining his leisure social status, I focused on caring for the kids and their well being.  When I decided I wanted a divorce, because his absence, control and abuse was out of control. 

When my ex husband took our divorce to supreme court we were assigned Judge Sherri Eisenpress a family court judge who is an acting supreme court judge. With the connections, money and corrupted judge my case spiraled for the worse.  After three years of my divorce proceedings, custody battle, threats to be sent to jail or a mental institution, thrown out of the marital home, children taken from me completely, no contact.  My parental rights were stripped away.  

                           9/6/2022                                               Show #63

According to this report in the United States, most sex trafficked children come from our foster care system.  

The reason I am concerned about this favorable litigation from the bench for sex offenders over the welfare of our kids, the hiring of known sex offenders for CPS and other sensitive government roles is because of this report by the US Dept of State on Human Trafficking.

http://tobtr.com/12141621 

                                  8/9/2022                                                    Show #62

(A Survivor, Advocate, I am a physician assistant of over 20 years caring for the community and mom of 4 children.  My ex is an attorney formerly for child protective services.  My children disclosed severe child abuse both sexual and physical by their father.  The same CPS agency he worked for did his “investigations” and covered up his abuse.  My children went into their fathers custody and are still there and two of the four are failing to thrive educationally and emotionally.)

Because these horrific circumstances occurred in my life and because of the awareness that comes with it, I began to help other families to hopefully spare them from the same horrific conditions I endured.  For me this is a sort of post traumatic growth and it is my own therapy to help others.  For these ladies, I hope it’s justice for them and their kids.  This is how I met this group of moms.

Lizzy's Story,

After she confronted her then husband, an influential attorney, about his indoctrination to pedophilia (which he admitted in the recorded confrontation and via text).

Elizabeth Harding Weinstein’s marital income was $5-6 million a year, they had 3 marital residences, she is a Columbia grad who the husband entrusted her to raise their children for 17 years, no history of psych hospitalizations, no arrest history prior to divorce… 

Suddenly is trafficked into a court appointed guardianship having no money for food at times, being denied funds to retain attorneys, homeless as the guardian signed the distribution of marital assets, suddenly being called crazy (pedophiles love to call their allegers “delusional” even tho DSM V states circumscribed delusional disorder in non institutionalized Americans 0.02%), and is incarcerated for misdemeanors- solitary confinement even.

Make that make sense… 

#FREELIZZIE #freelizzieharding 

RESTRAINING ORDER: A Westchester mom of three has been detained for more than two weeks after violating a restraining order for telling her children that she loved them, according to officials.

https://westchester.news12.com/westchester-mom-detained-after-violating-restraining-order-by-telling-her-children-she-loved-them Blaise Gomez

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1364944/9713474 Interview with Maryann Petri

                      8/2/2022                                            Show #61

I am the mother of two children having divorced my husband of 11 years amicably with whom we share a wonderful son. We mediated and never went to court. I did not take any child support or alimony and we made arrangements peacefully between ourselves for the remainder of our son's childhood.

I met my daughter's father in late 2004. He quickly pushed me into a relationship with him, convincing me to move in with him in mid 2005 and quit my career as  a forensic scientist in 2006 to be a full time mother to my son. He then lured me into working in his business running a multi layered equestrian program, which I did for 9 years, never being paid a salary and being told the money was going into a trust for our daughter. That turned out to be a lie.

We separated in 2014 which is when the post separation abuse began to escalate. Although he was never an engaged father and I was the full time primary attachment parent, he asked for 50/50 custody, farming out our daughter's care to alcoholic and drug addicted women rather than letting me mother our child. 

Our post separation experience follows the pattern of the family court playbook described by The National Women's Coalition.  Things got much worse during the COVID lockdowns and culminated in the event of June 28, 2021 where my daughter and I were attacked in broad daylight, she was seized violently by 8 police officers and I have not seen her since.

I have had multiple careers in banking, biotechnology, equestrian sports and running my own businesses as well as many side jobs. I enjoy sports even though I have suffered from chronic injuries obtained during my days training horses. I do my best to keep busy and upbeat and work to self educate.  

Triggering And Horrifying!!!!

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HHRzaTlWNSssvBviDWz6P0YIVpSpplpN/view?usp=drive_web

https://soundcloud.com/bailey-smith-369208333/show-12129235-2022-08-03-01-34-53?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing

https://www.blogtalkradio.com/friendstalk/2022/08/02/do-many-cops-abuse-their-power-or-are-they-abusers-themselves

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              June 19, 2022                                         Show #60

https://www.blogtalkradio.com/friendstalk/2022/07/19/the-vengeful-narcissistic-father-syndrome

http://tobtr.com/12124138

                     June 28, 2022                                       Show #59

She is a national speaker, author, advocate, and survivor of workplace and intimate partner sex assault, child sex abuse, unhealthy relationships, and divorce. She is a member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Speakers Bureau (VOICES), and is currently working with Domestic Violence Services, Dress for Success, and other agencies that support and empower women. Her new class “From Survivor to Author” is designed to help women heal and share through the art of writing and storytelling.

Linda has appeared on national and international radio, podcasts, and television, including the Montel Williams Show. Articles written about Linda’s books have appeared in local and national magazines including Teen Voices, America’s Family Resources, and Seventeen. With her first book Linda traveled the country speaking at universities, roundtables, and child abuse conferences where she educated and advocated for children. With her current book she is advocating for and educating women, especially those who struggle to confront their past or break from unhealthy relationships. 

On average a woman will leave an unhealthy relationship seven times before leaving for good. Why? And why do women choose the wrong partner in the first place? The answer can most often be found by exploring past trauma. Our past formulates self-worth, how we attach to others, and how we believe we deserve to be treated. When that past is cloaked in unresolved childhood trauma, it can lure us toward unhealthy partners as a way to remember, confront unresolved psychological issues, gain control over something we could not control as a child, or, like Linda, get the outcome we did not get as a child.

Linda’s first book tells the true stories of fifteen child survivors to educate and keep children safe, to intervene when a child is trapped in silence, and to offer hope for healing. Kids Helping Kids Break the Silence of Sexual Abuse

Her latest book, Entrenched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go,

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On average a woman will leave an unhealthy relationship seven times before leaving for good. Why? And why do women choose the wrong partner in the first place? The answer can most often be found by exploring past trauma. Our past formulates self-worth, how we attach to others, and how we believe we deserve to be treated. When that past is cloaked in unresolved childhood trauma, it can lure us toward unhealthy partners as a way to remember, confront unresolved psychological issues, gain control over something we could not control as a child, or, like Linda, get the outcome we did not get as a child.

Blakemore writes for each of these women. She is one of them. Her poignant true story sheds light on the aftermath of child sexual assault and highlights the pain and self-blame a victim often feels following intimate sexual assault. As the author confronts her past and heals, her journey creates a powerful resource for any woman who has experienced intimate sexual assault, workplace sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse or abandonment. 

Website:  LindaLeeBlakemore.com        

     June 14, 2022                             Show #58

Dr. Scholar Lee, is an inspirational speaker, spiritual life coach, transformational leader and a leadership consultant based in the Atlanta, Georgia area. As a Black Man of Trans experience, he has unique insights into the challenges of transition and cloaks his guidance in a deep spirituality.

“He is the host of the podcasts “The Dr. Scholar Lee Experience” and “The Dr. Scholar Lee GENDERED. Experience” both will be launching in the Summer of 2022.” He is also the CEO/Owner of T.R.A.N.S. parent Life Conversations, A Life Coaching service for Transgender Nonconforming individuals and families to cope, heal, and overcome challenges. His program helps families create affirming, supportive, and healthy relationships with their gender variant loved one.

In addition, Dr. Scholar is the author of the children’s book “The Fruits of a S.C.H.O.L.A.R.” which will launch to the public in September 2022.

Educationally, he obtains a BA in Psychology and two Masters, a Master’s of Science in Management and Organizational Leadership (MSMOL), and a Master’s in Philosophy (MPHIL). Dr. Scholar Lee will be receiving his PhD in Philosophy this year 2022. Currently, he is doing his dissertation on “The Characteristics of Trans Affirming Parenting.”

Born and raised from New Haven, Connecticut. He now resides with his wife in the East Atlanta area but frequently visits Connecticut to see his 5 year old daughter and family. In addition, he is Blessed with a 15 year old bonus son and 5 year old bonus dog.

You can follow Dr. Scholar Lee on Twitter, tik tok, Instagram, and YouTube @drscholarlee.

Our conversation covers Dr. Scholar Lee’s own career start, and how his own trans experience led to his current focus on affirmative coaching and spirituality. He mentions how transitioning his gender was the first decision he had made for himself and how his biggest challenge was to love himself.  This series is brought to you with the kind support of Wellington Management, one of the world’s largest independent asset managers. Wellington believes in the importance of a diverse workforce, equitable opportunities for all colleagues to reach their potential, and an inclusive culture. 

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          May 31, 2002                                                   Show #57

A single mother of three and grandmother of one, as well as a Domestic Violence/Sexual Violence survivor of over 23+ years of abuse. 

She works for a federal social services organization by day and as a certified DV advocate in the rest of her spare time. 

She is a writer, blogger, future podcaster, activist, and public speaker. She loves getting her story out there, to help show victims and survivors that there is hope and that it is SO much better than ever imagined while in active abuse.

BLOG: http://www.dvwalkingwounded.me/

https://soundcloud.com/bailey-smith-369208333/domestic-abuse-survival-and-the-walking-wounded?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing

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          May 24, 2022                                Show #56

As it’s always important to note, all abuse, no matter what form, is based upon power, control, dominance, and breaking down boundaries.  I also always like to bring attention to the different types of abuse – physical, sexual (both can be violent or non-violent), verbal, emotional, mental, financial, spiritual, and legal.  And once you leave an abuser, post separation abuse, which is a continuance of power and control, along with gaining revenge.

Hope is obviously not my real name but it is what I am today. Today I carry the message of hope to anyone who is suffering from mental health problems and who is in the Florida family court system. I promise you that if I am here today as an advocate for a nonprofit, a sober mother, a present mother, a full time employee that is a full time student a University getting my bachelor's degree in Criminal Justice and a minor in Victim advocacy, a sober active member of a 12 step fellowship yet still dealing with a narcissist coparent, you too will get to the other side.

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